情感专家谈老公外遇了，是该舍弃還是拯救婚姻呢?

老公坚决要离婚 如何挽救婚姻 ?老公外遇了，是该舍弃還是挽救呢?穆木教师的核心态念(门派的成见总是使大家杜绝真知，穆木教师觉得独立借助一切一种理论将会对婚姻生活婚姻问题的认知能力全是片面性和不够的.

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