发现男人的出轨后妻子该如何挽救婚姻

 zhaoqingrenyibianchengzhongguohunyindeguanjianxiongshouqiyi。xinwenmeiticheng，zaiwanhunyinianhou，70%denanshiyouguohunwaixinggerenxingwei。suiranneifenhuibaokuadaqiciqiebujingque，dantayetixianledangjin ☞chugui laogonghunhouchuguideduozhongtexing。nanrenchuguilezenmeban?faxiannanrendechuguihouqizigairuhewanjiuhunyin?

一、发现男人的出轨后妻子该如何挽救婚姻

 yingduilaogongdetaosexinwen，henduolaopofangantabingjuedewunai。meiriyishizhuxingzaichuguilaogongdexintaichuangshangxiachouqi，wojuedezheibingmeiyouxiezhuchulizhenshidenanti，naizhizaizishendexintaizhuangtaishangliuyoulexintaichuangshang。nanrenchuguilezenmeban?faxiannanrendechuguihouqizigairuhewanjiuhunyin?

1.大吵大闹有控制

 yingduilaogongdetaosexinwen，yiqiejubeidangdainvshijingshenshizhiderendounanyirenshou。zaizheiyineishihou，zuizhenzhengdeganqingsikaodoushixuanxiexiaojiqingxudehelifangfa，doushibiaoshuzishenguandiandefangfa。yiner，dachaodanaoshibixude，danbushoudaoxianzhidedachaodanaozhenduihunyineryanshijidadesunhai。

 jiaruyixienvshitiaoxuanzaidachaodanaohouzhangqilengbaoli，huoshilengyanxiangdai，tamenhuijuedetashilaogongyingdangzaoshoudechufa。keshibiewangji，zaichufabierendelingwai，niyezaichufazishen。

 gengguanjiandeyuangushi，zailaogongdehunwailianbeifajuehou，tadexinlitianmanledujihehuihen。zaitaxinlideweihaixia，tahuijijizhudongtiaoxuandiaojie，nenggouchengshounidechaofengnaizhiruma。

 keshi，zheizheizhongzhuangkuangshiduanzanxingde。yiqieyoumingxianxintaizhuangtaiderendounanyirenshouzhangqixingdelengbaoli，lengkuwuqingdeyuyan。zhongjiu，tamenwangwangmianruan，zhiqian，houhuimojishizuijichudexinyuan，shiyibianweichizheiyijiazhongdewennuanyuhemu。

2.不必大肆宣扬

 suyushuo：jiachoubukewaiyang。chuguilaogonghunhouchuguideshiernenggoushuochengyigetingdadechoushi，zheijiangyanzhongweihaitamenzaipengyou，gebilinjuhepenyouzhongdepinpaixingxiang。

 jiranxiangyuanliang，zaijitamenjihui，neimeniyingdangweihutamendezizun。feichangshizhenduiguojiaganbu，guojiagongwuyuanhelaoshidengbangonggongxingjiaoseeryan，tamenjuyoupohuaili。

 huoxunibudebuchengrentashitamenyijingzhaoxundewupin。shubuzhi，jinguanzheizhongzuofachufalelaogong，danyeshitashiquzizun，xinlitianmanleduinideyanfan。jibianshimouxienansheng，yibianzhengshizishendeyiqingerbai，huoshiguoduanyibuzuoerbuxiuhuijijimingquetichuliyizhengshizishenyuanlaidehunyinshitongchude、meiyouqingganjibende。nizuikaishijuededeyigexiaoxiaochufashisunhaizhangfuheqizidedao。

3.不必以牙换牙齿

 yiyahuanyachidoushizheizhongpubiandewuhui。henduonvxingzaifangantamendechuguixingweihemengpiandelingwai，yejuedezishenzaodaoletongku。yibiantianbuxintaishiheng，mouxienvxingtiaoxuanxunzhaohunwailian，yiduifuhechufatamendezhixiqinshu。

 shijishang，tashijiejuehunwailiannantizuiyumeidefangfa。zheibudanbulishierdechuli，bingqieshishierfuza，shejidaozongshudehurantisheng，jiqifuqiganqingdeebian，zuihouzaochengfufubicidefenshou，xintaibenkui。

 jibiantashiweilailiyideyibu，youyubicichangyouguoshi，renminfayuanburongyiduinizuochuyiqiecaiding。zuizhong，nisuishuoyigeshouhairen，danzaishehuidaodefenbianzhongbianchengyiyangfanfaderen。

4.宽敞与认真细致的融合，用包容来解救男人心

 nanrenchuguilezenmeban?faxiannanrendechuguihouqizigairuhewanjiuhunyin?zhengjiuhunwailiandelaogongdexin，guanjiandeshiyaobaoronghehuoda，bingtahuijizijidecuowuzuofajieshouxianshi，neiyangtaweilaijiuhaipazuoxiangjindeshier。

 shubuzhi，yixielaopoxiaibawozhuchuguilaogongdezhijiezhengjububujinbi，bianyuxiangyaozhidaobuzhengquedelaogongmeiridoujingpilijie。congzhangjiukanlai，zaixixindelaogongyehuixinbuzaiyan，erqiefeichangrongyizaochengyulaopofenshoudeniantou。

 yiner，zaiyankekandailaogongdeshierdezhuangkuangxia，tayeyongwusidexinlairenshouta。jiarutazhuyaobiaoxianchubaorongdexintai，tadelaogonghuiduizishendegerenxingweijuedegengweikuijiu，tajizijidelaopojuedeshangxin，nanyirenshousunhaitadelaopo。burongzhiyi，zheihuitishengshiqihuidaojiazhongdeningjuli。zhinengneiyang，renmencainengzuodaozhenzhengyouzhezishenzhenzhengdeaiqing。

 dangniyijiejinquanliwanhuihunyin，laogonghuanshiweicengyouyidingdegenggai，neimalaopowubibaochiqingxing，liqushi，bubimangmugenfengfangren。zaizheiliyiliuchengzhong，renmenzuixianwubigaohaozaijingjifazhanhexintaizhuangtaishangbuqujueyulaogongdetiqianzhunbei，bingjinliangbimianliyiduihuaxuewuzhihejingshenshizhiyishizhuxingdaozhidesunhai。