婚姻心态咨询：夫妻双方都想离婚怎么办

 zainvxingxiaizaifahuodeneishihouweixienanrenlihunhuofenshou，tongchangquanshiyibiannanshenglaihongta，keshiruguonidezhangfuqueshiyuanyideneishihou，yexunvxingjiushaleyan。hunyinxintaizixun，fuqishuangfangdouxianglihunzenmeban?

一、婚姻心态咨询：夫妻双方都想离婚怎么办

1.争执钱财

 hunyinxintaizixun，fuqishuangfangdouxianglihunzenmeban?jiekuan，diyajiekuan，yongjiuxingfuzhaishizhengzhideguanjianyuangu。shijishang，zhixiqinshuqiyi - guke，liyidegailvtishengle45%。

 yijufaguomakesipulangkerenkoushuliangyanjiushikaizhandezheixiangkexueyanjiu，zhengqiandenvshibizheixieshiqulaogongdenvshigengfeichangrongyiliyi。yijushehuixuejiadejiaofa，jingjidulishinvshihaiyoujihuiburangbu，buchengshoulaogongdepihao，danmashangliqu。

2.自己吸烟而另一人不吸烟

 shujutongji - duiyuxianghudejiazhiquxiangnaizhipubiandebuliangxiguan。jiaruzhinengyigezhixiqinshuzaiyigejiazhongzhongchouyan，zheihuishiliyidegailvtisheng75%。

3.衣食住行在中国公民婚姻中

 hunyinxintaizixun，fuqishuangfangdouxianglihunzenmeban?zaihunyanqianyikuaieryishizhuxinghaoxianghenyouxiao。xunlian，paiyan - “jiaruruguokeyidehua?”。danshehuixuejiashuofanguolaideshijixiaoguo。12%dezhongguogongminhunyintishengleliyidegailv。

4.老婆在舞蹈，老公在瓢泼大雨

 shehuixuejiaheshehuixuejiaqinshenjinglilegangweimingxi，fajueshuzuiduodelihunzheshiwudaojiahebianwujiazhong(43%deshili)，diaojiuzai38%deanzizhongliyi，dafu，hulirenyuanhejingshenkeyishengzai29%deshilizhongliyi。

5.她老了

 jiarulaopobilaogongnianlao，liyidegailvtisheng53%，aodaliyaguoligaoxiaodeshehuixuejiaduiyubiaodazixinxin，jibiannianjichabiezhineng3nian。shundaishuojiju，yijukexueyanjiulixianghuahunyinnianjideshehuixuejianigulasi·woerfenge(nicholas wolfinger)dejiaofa，nibixuzai25zhi32suizhongjianbanhunli。

 (maidangnabitadezhangfugaiyiliqinianlao10nian。tamendehunyinzai7nianzhihouyiliyijieshude，danzheibingmeiyouzulanmaidangnayuneiweinianqingrenpengmian。)

6.相互之间蒙骗

 huashengdundaxuedezhumingyanjiuzhejohn gottmanjianxin，jiaruninjinjinlingtingtamendegoutongjiaoliufangfa，ninnenggouyucefenxizhixiqinshudejianglai，chenggonglvdadao93%。

 hunyinxintaizixun，fuqishuangfangdouxianglihunzenmeban?jiaruzhangfuheqizixianghuzhijianyiweizheerqiejinjinshifenqiadangdizhizelingyifang，tashiyigehaoyunqi。dangetemanxiangxinyigedanyihuadewuzhuoxintaihuihuihuairenhe。

 tashimiaoshi。huihuaitamendehunyin，zheixiejuedezishengengconghui，genggao，gengzhixiqinshu，zheixierongxuzishenwurutiaodou，jifengquxiaoderen。tongchangqingkuangxia，jifenghuishadiaohunyin，yincibubifaleng。

7.人们太快或太迟结了婚

 shide，shashibiyahuiyuanyi“quanshijiemeiyoubeishangdegushi”，erbingbushibabamamadeqingshaonianertonghunyan。zai20suiyiqianzaishendianshangshuonidehanyishitishengliyidejiyu。keshichuciyuchengrenwanhunyehenfengxian。shujutongjixianshixinxi，zaimeiyigudande1nianzhong，32suizhihoujiehunduixiangjiangliyidegailvtishengle5%。guduzherangbierenjindaodiaojieheshufudeyishizhuxingbiandegengjianan。