如何挽回婚姻：怎么修复破裂的婚姻

 hulvenideguanzhuduinihuonideaireneryanshibuhelide，erqiejianghuizaochenghunyindewanbi。dangnidehunyinbingbushiniyuanyide，ruhe☞ wanhui hunyin?zenmexiufupoliedehunyin?

一、如何挽回婚姻：怎么修复破裂的婚姻

1.一块儿创建积极主动的工作经验

 junzhilaijiang，xingfukuailedefuqimeiyigefumianxinxidezhanbiwei20gefanmianshili。huoxu，zaimaodunqinei - quanbudehunyindoushichansheng - zheiyizhanbijianghuihuijianshao，danzongshangsuoshu，haodeyingdangchaochuhuaide。

 zheizhongjijizhudongdeqinshenjingliweibishiyigeshengdayouxideshujiahuolanmandedazishi。yunidezhixiqinshuzaigezhonggeyangfangmianshanggoutongjiaoliu，congwentidaoxunsu“woxihuanni”，doushijinideairenjuedeshangxiherentong。buzuozheizhongxiaode“lianjiezhaotoubiao”nenggoujinitarucuihuidelumian。

 ruhewanhuihunyin?zenmexiufupoliedehunyin?huashijianyiqilejieshikedoushiyouxiezhude。renmenyouzhongbutaihaodequxiang，jiushishuohulverenmenrichangshenghuojijizhudongdewupin，zhihaijidexiaochendewupin。duinideshijianyikuaierjijizhudongbiaoshuganji，jianghuixiezhunijilaozheixiejijizhudongdeqinshenjingli。

 liuyouyidianertishiniduilingyirendeai。zainidezhixiqinshudeqianjiazhongtieyizhangbianjianhuotuisong1fengxingganmirendedianziyouxiang。weimingtianchushitahuotadewufan，huoshizuozheijiannilejieta/tafangandeshierjinidezhixiqinshujingya。zheizhongxiaowanyijianghuikanshangquhenyongsuhuoshihenxiaoerbukeyidayouzuowei，dantamenshilianjiedajialiangrendeguanjianfangfa。

2.提升你对直系亲属的了解和掌握

 meigerendouxiangtihuidaolejie，keshiruguonizhangqilejiebierenjianxinnizhangwotahuotaderenheshi，zheifeichangrongyi。tajianghuiganjuenimeishenmenenggoufajuede。

 zheifeichangshaoshiqueshi。qinfenyunidezhixiqinshugongxiangnideniantou，cezhongdian，zuiaidehuiyi，xiwanghezongtimubiao - bingyaoyuetahuotaduinizuoyiyangdeshier。

 ruhewanhuihunyin?zenmexiufupoliedehunyin?lejiekaifangshiwenti。asealongboshiyanjiushengde36genantidezhumingmulujianghuiduinintanxunnindeairenduiyishizhuxing，xiwang，qidaihehaipadeguandianshifenyouxiezhu。

 liru“naxiehuiweilenizaojiuwanmeideyitian?”huo“nizuizhenaidejiyishisha?”neiyangdenantishizhuanyeweituidongqinmiwujianhe“shejiaopengyouguanxi”ershejifangande。john gottmanboshiyanjiushengdeganqingkexueyanjiuxuexiaoyeshihenduo“huihuaqidong”zhuanyonggongjunengyong。

 ting。bubizhitingjiannizhixiqinshudehua。tingtamenshuo。zuoweinizhixiqinshushangtandechangjianwentijiangxiezhunijilaoguanjiandexinxineirong。biru，jiarunidenvrenduinishuotazuihoufayanshiyutaqinjiejiechanshenglekongbudehuihua，woyehuijinkuailejietaweihebuyuanzaishujialiulan。dangniqueshitingjiannidezhixiqinshuyunitanhuaneirong，nijiangkeyichushigengqiangdeshiyong。

3.为别人空出時间

dangnihuonidezhixiqinshu(huodajia2ge)changchangzoushen，zaiyebuhuiganjuezishenshilingyirenrichangshenghuodeyouxianxuanzeshiyi。

 bubiweilenidezhixiqinshukongchushijian，bulunshizaiyingpianzhonggongtongduguoyigequweideyelihuanshishijiantefaxingpengyouguanxi，doujianghuizaochengsangshilianluohexiaochendejuede。

 ruguonimangdeneishihou，xingqinmiwujiantongchangshidiyiweiyaoqudediqu。dangnifajuenimeiyouzhiqiandexingxingweizhonglei，qingshizhefenpeishijian。zheihaoxiangshishadiaolanmandehaowuyiwendefangfa，dankexueyanjiushuomingqiahaofanguolai。80%dejihunfuqifenpeishijiankaizhanxingshenghuo，tadequenenggouxiezhuninjiyuxiwang。

4.相互造就典礼

 dianlinenggoujiushiniyunidezhixiqinshuzhongjiandegongxiangziyuangongzuojingyan。zheileigongxiangziyuanganshoushifenguanjian，youyutatuidongleniyuzheiyitedingrenyouqinmiwujianlejieguanliandejuede。

 dianliwuxuchunshougongzhizuo，dantamenyingdangshikaopude，bingrongxuniyunidezhixiqinshulianjie。duizheizhongdianliyouxinerwei，bingweichichonggao。chufeishiqueshishijinjizhuangkuang，buranbubiraoguotamen。qingjilao，nidehunyinshizheizhongxiangmutouzi：ninengpaoxianidezijintouru。

 ruhewanhuihunyin?zenmexiufupoliedehunyin?shizhezaigongzuozhongwanbishirangnidezhixiqinshuyigexiangyong，binglejietahuotademeitian。zhuandamouxieyouguannizenyangzhuzhongnidezhixiqinshudeneirong，liru“ruguoniconggongzuoshangjiewoshi，woqueshihenxiaita”huoshi“nifeichanggaoxingqudewanfan。”

 xiangzheniyizhizaiyouhuishijianghuiqinshenjinglidequanbudianli。niwubifenpeiguoduanshijianqukankanxianghu，fanganzheixiangzhutihuodong，tiqianzhunbeihaojiandaolingyifang，bingqieyibujibendefangfayulingyifanghudongjiaoliu。kanyixianishibushinenggoujiangmouxieganenhuikuidaonidepingshihudongzhong。

gangkaishiyige“yuehuizhiye”dechuantongshi。zheiweibishigaoya。zheijinjindajiacouzaiyiqihuashijianshangxilingyifangdeneishihou。