离婚后怎么才挽回婚姻

　　lihunhouzenmecaiwanhuihunyinlihunshiyiduanguanxidezhongyaozhuanzhedian，dandangyifangzailihunzhihoumengfazaihunxiangfashi，tongchangmianlinzhuduotiaozhan。wenzhongshenrutantaolelihunhouxiangfuhundewanjiuduice，congziwofanshenghechengzhang、fujiangoutongdeqiaoliang、zhanxianjijizhudonggenggai、zhongjianxinren、jiejuewangrifenqijiqizhuazhushijiyufangshidenggegefangmiankaizhanxiangximiaoshu，zhiliyuweizaihunyixiangderentigongquanfangweiqieshiyongdejutizhidao，bangzhuqizaicihuodeduifangdexin，xiubuposuidehunyin。

　　一、前言

　　hunyinshenghuo，youruyisouzairichanghaiyanglihangxingdechuanbo，youshihouhuimianlindafengdalang，yizhiyugeqianpaomao，zaochengliyizheiyilingrenwanxizuizhongdejieju。danshi，danglihuntengtongzhujianpingfu，yixierenjiuhuifaxian，xinliduiairendeqingyibingmeiyouxiaotui，zaihundexiangfaruxinghuoliaoyuan，manmandianran。danzaihunjuefeiyishi，zheixuyaofuzhunuli、conghuinaixin，yingyongshidangdeduicecainengzhongxinyingdeduifangdexin，rangposuidehunyinzhonghuiwanman。

　　er、ziwofanshenghechengzhang：wanliudezhongyaoqianti

　　2.1 shenrupouxiliyigenbenyuanyin

　　liyibingbushiouranshijian，shenhoubidingyunzangzhexuduowenti。yaowanjiuhunyin，shouxianxuyaolizhi、keguandepouxizaochengliyidegenbenyuanyin。shiyouyupinfandizhengzhi、goutongbudaowei，huoshixinlailiekai、disanzheganyu?yihuozheshirenshengmubiaobuyizhi、jingjifazhanyalitaida?biru，yiduifuqiyouyuyifangzhangqixinggongzuomangliu，hushilelingyifangdejingshenxuqiu，zhishiaiqingmanmanshengshuxuanzelihun。neiyang，xuyaozaihundeyifangneijiuxuyaochongfenrenshidaozishenzaihunyinshenghuozhongduiqingganguanaidehulvezheiyiguanjiannanti。

　　2.2 sikaobenshenwentihebuzu

　　zaiyanjiulihundeyuanyindeqiantixia，yaohaohaofanshengzijizaihunyinlidezhuyaobiaoxian，zhaodaobenshencunzaidewentihebuzu。shixingqingshangdebuzu，ruqingxubuwending、yiziwoweizhongxin;huoshixingweishangdebuheli，ruweilijieduifang、quefazerenxin?jinyouqingchudirenshidaozishendewenti，caikeyiyouzhenduixingdijinxinggaishan。liru，ruguofaxianzijiyizhixiayishidihuxiangzhize，neiyangyidingyaodongdekongzhihaozijideqingxu，gaibianzheizhongbuliangjiaoliufangshi。

　　2.3 jijizhudongshixianziwojiazhichengzhangyugaibian

　　yishidaonantizhishidiyibu，gengzhongyaodeshiyaofuzhushijian，jijizhudongwanchengziwotishengziwogaibian。nengtongguoxuexiqingganguanlifangfa、goutongdejiqiaodengxiangguanzhishi，tigaozijijingyingganqingjiejuewentidenengli;yekeyiduanlianyigexindegerenaihao，chongshizijirichangshenghuo，rangzijibiandegengjiayouqizhiyuzixin。biru，canjiayixiexinlifazhankechengneirong，dongderuheyouxiaobaorongyulijiebieren;huoshixuexiyimenxindejineng，rumeishuhuihua、sheyingdeng，tigaozijidejiazhiheqichang。

　　san、fujiangoutongdeqiaoliang：lajinbicijianju

　　3.1 xuanzeshihezijidegoutongjiaoliujihuiyufangshi

　　lihunzhihou，bicihenyoukenengyehaidaiyouyidingdeqingxuganqinghedichuqingxu，yinerxuanzeshihezijidegoutongjiaoliujihuihefangfayouweizhongyao。fangzhizaibiciqingxuguojihuomangliudeshihoujinxingjiaoliu，keyixuanzeyigebijiaoqingsong、shushidehuanjing，yipingjing、zhenchengdetaiduheduifanggoutongjiaoliu。jiaoliufangshihaikeyiduoyuanhua，chukaijiaoliugoutong，yekeyitongguoduanxiaoxi、shouji、dianziyoujiandengxingshi，yijuduifangxihaojieshoudulaitiaoxuan。liru，zhiyaoduifangbijiaomiantian，henyoukenenggengxihuanyongwenzilaibiaodaguandian，neijiukeyixiantongguodianhuahuodianziyoujianheduifangqudelianxi。

　　3.2 lingtingduifangdexinshengyuganshou

　　lihunhouzenmecaiwanhuihunyinzaigoutongzhong，yaoqingtingtarendejianyihetihui，jiduifangchongzudebiaoshushineikongjian。buyaojizheqieduanlingyifanghuoweizijibianjie，ershiyinggainaixinqingting，lejieduifanglichangheqinggan。genjulingting，ninenggenghaodelejieduifangdexuqiuhekanfa，weihouxudewanliugongzuozhongtigongcankao。biru，ruguoduifangqingtuzaihunyinlideshiwanghebumanyishi，womenkeyiyongrouhedekouqihuifu：“wonenglijienideqingxu，neishiwohenyoukenengmeiyoukaolvnideguandian，zhendehenbaoqian。”

　　3.3 zhenxinshiyibiaodaguandianyugaibian

　　zailingtingduifangyucitongshi，yexuyaozhenxinchengyibiaodaguandianziwogaibian。gaosutamenniyijingrenshidaolezishendewenti，bingqiezhengzaibuduannulidigaibian。danshiyaozhuyibiaodaxingshi，bubiguoyukuazhanghuochengnuoyixiewufazuodaodeshier，ershiyinggaishishiqiushidichanshuzishendefazhanyuchengzhang。liru，yekeyishuo：“zheiyiduanshijianwofansilexuduo，renshidaozijizaihunyinshenghuozhongyouxuduozuodebugouhaodequyu。worujinzhengzaixuexiruheyouxiaogoutongyudiaojieqingxu，qidaininengkandaowodebianhua。”