离婚后为什么都不联系？怎么挽回？

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 womamacongdajiagangzaiyiqishi，jiuyizhidizhiwomenzaiyiqi，danshitayizhimeiyousheqi，zheiyidianwoduitafeichangganxie，zhihoudajiajiujielehun。

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 2020niankuaixinniandeqingkuangxia，dajiayinzainajiaxinniandenantishanggezhiyici，zheishiwomenbaofaleyici，chaonaoshenghenxiong，wohenzhiruguditileliyi。

 danshitaquehendandingcongrong，tashuodaozaoyixianglihunle，tashuodaohunhou，wojiubuhuizaiaitale，wohenchayitajingranneiyangxiangwo。

 woxunwentaweihe，tayebuyongshuo，wojiangxianggentahaohaoditanyitan，tajiuyizhixiyan，yehuijuegenwogoutongjiaoliu，jianchibuxieyaoyuwoliyi，shuoxieshenmechizaoyehuilide。

dajiazheixieniandeqinggan，jiandaotaneiyangwoshifenshangxin，dajiahainengwanliuma?

 lihunhouweishenmedoubulianxizaihunyinshenghuozhong，youyixiefufubahunyinshenghuoweichidemeimanxingfu，eryouyixiefufuzaijiaowangzhongyizhizhengzhichixu，mianlinliekaidebianyan，shijishangfeichangdadeyuangushibicizhijianbumingbaigoutongjiqiao。

bicizhijianbuxianggenlingyifangbiaoshuerjuedelingyifanghuilejie，zhangciyiwangfuqijiandejiediyulaiyushen。

 zainidexushuzhong，nenggoukandechunizhangfubianshiyigebumingbaigoutongdejiqiaoderen，erqiezhuguanxingjuedebulejieta，yebuxianggennibiaoshu，yincicaishitaxinlizaochengleyaoxiangliyidexiangfa。

 keyishuobingdongsanchi，bingbushiyirizhihan，zheizhongbulijie，quanshidajiajiaowangzheixienianlai，rijiyueleidejieguo，bingbingbushirujincaifashengde，xiabianwonengrangniyixiewanliushangdetiyi，qidainenggouxiezhudaoni。

冷暴力分歧

jinguandajiazhongjiandefenqishirijiyueleide，danciciliyidekunjing，queshiyouyuliangrendezhengzhi，bulixingdeyuyanzaocheng de。

zainixushuzhongyekandechu，lingyifanghendichurujinyunigoutongjiaoliu。

 tiyidajiajibicizhijianyiduanshijian，xianrangbicilizhiyixiabicizhijiandefenqi，buyaozaiqitoushangrangfenqizhuanbianchenggengfanzadechengdu。

找到直接原因

zailizhidezheiduanshijianli，xiwangnisisuoyixia，nizhangfuwangwangganjuenibuhuizaiaitadezhijieyuanyinshishenmeni?

niyizhizaijiehunhoushibushizhenduidajiadeqingganguzhijijian，yincihushilejiehunhoudeganqingyeshibixuyunyinghezirundeni?

 zidayongyouxiaohaiyihou，dajiadezhengzhiyeyulaiyuduo，shibushixiangguo，jiushinizhenduilianrendeguanxin，manmanjiangdi，caizaocheng detaduiniwuyindeqiangliekangyi?zheizhongqiangliekangyi，rijiyueleidezhuangkuangxia，caiyoujinrizheiyijushi?

用行動影响他

 dengdajiashuangfangdoulizhiyihou，quhonghongtaba，jiaruniyongyuanbuzhidaoruhezuo，jiuxiangyixiangdajiawanhunyiqiannishizenmeaitade?

hetachulaiyuegehui，huokanchangyingpian，laichanglanmandedujialvyou。

richangshenghuoyuanbenjiubuzhishiyouyanjiangcu，qianwanbierangyuanyouyishishufuledajia。

jibianwanhunhenduonian，haikeyilanman，haikeyitaorenxihuanmeilidongren，tayexiangyaonidetaorenxihuanmeilidongren，bushima?

 woshiwaididezenmebanlihun，jiazhongzhongdeai，buzhishiyouzhenqing，yiyangyemianbuleganqing，youyujiazhongdelaoguquanshifufuerrendeqingganjuecede，huoxudajiazaoyijiaowanghaoduonianle，keshiyebiewangji，neijiushinishenaizhederen。