如何避免矛盾共渡难关？离婚后为什么都不联系？

 woshiwaididezenmebanlihun，lijing2nian，xiaohanzaidubaokaodemudishi，laogonglaozhaotouzishibai，renyuelaiyuehenxiaochen，haichangchangzaijialiluannaopiqi，gaodetayehenjiaolvqingxu。lihunhouweishenmedoubulianxi

在资询中小寒说到：

 “ai!jiaoshi，tanbaishuo，qianliangnianwolaogongtadequeshizhenglexuduo qian，danyinweishangniantayixiazitouguo2gexinxiangmuyigexianzaishichuzaibanyunxingzhuangtai，ciwaiyigeyixiazisunhaileyiqianduowan。

 congshangniandisanjiduzhujian，taquanburendeqingxujiushifenbutaihao，changchangzaijialiluannaopiqi，naizhitiaowowenti，yihuibushishuocaizuodebuhaochi，bianshimudibanxidebuganjing，naizhiwoguinvqimochengjikaoshinenggoushunlitongguobutaihao，tahaiyaoguaiziji。

zhiqiantacongbumaxiaohai，rujinyewuyuanwugujiumawonver，rujingaodewoguinvdouhenpagentazaiyiqi。

ai!wowoyebuzhidaoruhequkuanweita，zaineiyangxialai，tameifafeng，woxianfafeng。”

 lihunhouweishenmedoubulianxijinridajiajiulaiyudahuoergongxiang，dangpengdaolaogongzaigongzuoshangzaoshoudichaoqishi，piqibaozaohaichangchangxiangqinrennaopiqi，ruhezuocaikeyibangtahuifuxintai，naizhijilita，peitaduguoguanjianqi。

youyurenhuiyouneimeyigeyouqi，dangpengdaonanti，jiannanhuobuchenggongshizongshihuibuzijuedijuede：

zishenshibuxing、zuicaogao、zuilandeneiyige，huichixubanantizaihuohua，rangzishenxianzaixintailimianbunengziba。

yinci，zenyangbanantipingshihua，ranglingyifangbuhuizaiganjuezishendenantishishijiezuibijiaoyanzhongdeneiyigejiuhenzhongyao。

dajiahuanshiyilaoxueshengxiaohandeshililaibiaoming，zaihoumiandegoutongjiaoliuzhong，worangxiaohanzaiyeshenrenjinggenlaogongjianglexialiedehua：

 “zhangfu，yinweinicicixiangmutouzipeilehenduoqian，nineixinhennanshou，zheimeduoniandajiayedoulejienihenrenzhengongzuo，pinlemingzhuanqian，dequehenjianxin。

 zheiyixiazipeileneimeduo，nizijiyehenyumen，woqianjirikanguoxinwenbaodao，yetingleyixiepenyoushuo，rujinquanbudahuanjingdequebutaihao，dahuanjingbutaihaoxiaoshoushichangdongdangbuanyehenlihai。

 wodoutingwen，henduorenchaogupiaoyepeilehenduoqian，zheixiezuoqiye，zizhuchuangyederen，yeshiyouxuduodoushibaile，rujinzuoshadouyoufengxianxing，hekuangshixiangmutouzini。”

dangxiaohanzaigoutongjiaoliuzhongzuinengtixianyixiajigefangmian：

1.lejielingyifanghenxintongqianbeilangfeidetihui。

2.lejielingyifangdebuyi。

3.henduorenyekuiben，buzhishizijikuiben。

diertianxiaohanzaiweixingaosuwo：

“womeixiangdaoyongneiyangdefangshigentabiaoshuzhihou，taquanburendexintaiqueshibuyiyanga。

 tanbaishuo，tazuishaoyinianyemeiyoujijibaoguowo，dangtatingwanwojiangdehuazhihou，jinguantaneishihouquandoumeishuo，quejijibaolewo，zheibiaomingwoneishihouyoushuodaotadexinwoziliqu，jinriyijianshidexintaiyebalexuduoni”。

 rendouqipanbeilejie，youqishidangzishenfancuowuhuozaimoucengmianbuchenggongzhihou，zishenbianhuiduizishenhenyumen，yinci，zaisuonanmianyouxintai，zheishijiaruqinrenbulijie，yequchizenaizhiqudikangdehua，zongshidebuchangshi。

yinci，woshiwaididezenmebanlihun，qulejieta，bingbatadenantipingshihua，jiunengjuyoufeichangdadegongxiao。