在婚姻中，女人一定要懂的五件事情 离婚该怎么办？

lihunduihaizideyingxiangjiujingyouduoda?jinqi《anjia》zheiyibudianshilianxujutinghuo，xianglihunzenmeban?libianyiweibaishouqijiachuangyedechuangyezhechuguidegushilingrenewantanxi。zheiweichuangyezhejiaokanlaozong，lihungaizenmeban?tagenqizishizaitayiqiongerbaideqingkuangxiawanhunde。

liangrenwanhunyihou，yiqiguzhejingrenzhengongzuo，jianjiandide，liangrenyiqimaixialaidiyitaoyijushidefangwu，daozhihouhuanleershiyiting，zaidaozhihouhuanlehaohuabieshu。

kanlaoxianshengdaishangzishendefurenhesigexiaohai，haiyiqishangguoshishangzazhifengmian，neizhangxiangpianshangdemeiyigerendougaoxingdezhenxingfu。

danshikanlaoxianshengchuguile，zhaoleyiweibeichunshangqiudelianren。zheiweilianrenyongyou piaoliangdemeimu，xiaoqilaideqingkuangxiashuangyanquanshiwanwanququ。

zaikanfurenfajuelaogongchuguiyihou，taliankongxionghendekonggaozhekeliandemaifangzizhongjiegongsi，shanranleixiadeshuozhezishenhenduonianlaidejianxin。

xianglihunzenmeban?kanneiyijidianshijideqingkuangxia，woyizhisisuozheyigenanti：ruguowoshikanlaoxiansheng，zaihushigenzishenqizihenduonianqinggan，zhikanbiaomianyuxingqingdeqiantitiaojianxia，wonenggengxihuanlianrenhuanshiqizi?

haowuyiwen，wonenggengxihuanlianren。youyulianrengengweiwenrou，gengweimingbaiyunyongzishendeyoudianxiyinnanren。

lihungaizenmeban?liangrenhenduoniandeqinggansuiranhenhouzhong，kelianrenqueshishixiyinrende。

wodehenduoqiuzhuzhedoushihuiyijianshishushuozishenlaogonggenqingrenzhijiandeshier，tamenyaoshuodisanzheyouduowuchi，shuodisanzheduoyoufangshi，danshitamenquemeiyouchajuezijiyezuobuduihenduo。

gaizenyangyunyingjiazhong，shimeiyigenvxingkexueyanjiuyishengdeketiyanjiu，hunyinzixunshijiangzuizhongyaodejigefangmianyiyixiechu，qidainengbangshangdaliangdenvxing。

第一、经济发展实权要把握，石可破不能无。

xuduonvxingweilegenghaodiranglaogonghuanjiegongzuoyali，shengchijianyong。jieguolaogongweizijideqianfanershiyuelaiyuedi，zaijixuyongqiandeqingkuangxiayezonghuiyouniangjiarendinglixiangzhu，shijianjiule，laogongdangranbuhuizaibaqianyongzaijiazhongshang。

yinci，jishinanshengzhuandeqianshao，zishenzaixintongnansheng，yedejiangnanshengzhuandeqianqudezishenshoulihehuilaiyiqiyong。

jingjifazhancengmianbudebufang，neiyangnenggoujinliangjianshaozijizaijiashengchijianyonghuasuan，erwaibiandelianrenhuaqianruliushuifangzongdezhuangkuang。

第二、女性太过顾家家居不太好，家是夫妇二人的，应当两人一起运营。

xuduonvxingrangnanshengzaijialidangwoxingwosu，zishenyigerendaiwa，zishenyigerenzhanhuoquanbudejiawuhuo。

shijianjiule，nanshengbianganjuenvrenbangtazuodequanbushierdoulisuodangran，ruoshiyouyitiannvxingyounaxieshierguidingnanrenbangta，nanshengfaneryanfan。

 nvxingyidingyaoshandaiziji，xuehaofentanjiatingzeren，jianjiandidebajiazhongzhongxindianfangjinnanshengdeshenshang，jiawuhuoliangrenyirenyiban，zhidaoxiaohaixuexihaiyaoliangrenyiqi，qianwanbiezhushidouzishenyigerenyingchengzhe，feilibutaohaobuyongshuo，nanshenghaiyifenqingfenyebuling。

第三、自身一定要身心健康，好看。

shenmeshiqingdoubibushangzishenshenxinjiankangguanjian，yidingyaohaohaodiaihurenti，jiankangdiyi。

haokandebiaomianhuirangnvxingxinxin，xinxinshiyigehenxiweideqichang，nanshenghuibuzijuedebeizixindenvrensuoxiyinzhu。

第四、有独立的工作能力。

duinvxingeryan，hunyinshenghuoziranhenzhongyao，keshibukeyichukaihunyinshenghuoyiwusuoyou。

kehenduonvxingzaiwanhunyihoudangshangquanzhitaitai，ganshenmedouxiangnanshengshenchushou，cike，nanshengyanlideqizijiubuhuizaiyouyouhuolile。

yinci，nvxingyidingyaoyoudulidegongzuonengli，weichigenshehuifazhan、waibuchupengdegongzuonengli，shidudegenpenyoujuyiju。

第五、婆媳之间，情难忱。

yiqianyouyiweiqiziyijianshifalaosao，shuotadejiapoyouduobutaihao，yizhisixialijitadaxiaobaogao。tagenlaogongzhixuyitijijiapo，liangrenjiuyidinghuizhengchao。

shijishangpoxizhijianerren，bingmeishenmeliyishusong，jiarutajinjindanchunxingdetaoyanzishendeerxi，erlaogongyoubudangzuo，neierxihaizhenmeiyoushenmefangfa。

liangzhezhijianbushufuzishen，bibushangbuyaoxiangtaiduomeiquzaihu。wuxufeisixujiejuejiapojideweinan，touyuanjiuduoxingzou，xinggebuhejiushaoxingzou。

lihunduihaizideyingxiangjiujingyouduoda?hunyinshenghuorutongyigebeihaodetaoqi，jiarunidehunyinshenghuolifashenglezishenwufatianbudeliefeng，yidingyaolijizhaoxunhunyinshenghuocengmiandezhuanyerenyuanxiezhu，jianhaojiushou，yifangdaozhiwufatianbudesunhai。