耗着不离婚的结果是什么？对我好这三个字毁了多少人！

 haozhebulihundejieguoshishenme？womenliangshishiernianxiangqinyuehuilejiede，neishihouganggangtichufenshoubujiu，taweirenzhengzhihenjiqingyehenguanzhuwo，jinguansuanbushangfeichangaita，dantadequeyijianshitingbucuode，yinianyihouwoliangjiujielehun。laogongyouwaiyulihuncaichanzenmefen？neishihoudajiadegongzuozhongshiwaidi，zhihouweilegenghaodijiazhonghejiatuanyuan，woyaoqudaotadedachengshigongzuozhong，youyugongzuozhongbijiaomang，jiumeiyoubanfazhaoliaoxiaohai，jiubawomamacongjiaxianghanlaizhaoguxiaohai。

 ketagenwomamayoufenqi，yizhibuyuanzhuzaiyiqi。meiduojiu，tamailailiwogongzuozhongdiquhenjindefangwu，mingquetichuweishenggongjijindeqianjialihunmaifang，womenquminzhengshenqingbanlilebanlihunshouxu。

 falvfaguishangwoliangzaoyimeishierle，tameirihaihuijixudadianhua，wenyiwenhaizihewodezhuangkuang，meiyuexiaohaihuaqianyehuizhunshiji。

qineitayemingquetichuguozaihun，danwoneixinqueshimeiyouxianghao，shifougenneiyangdenanshengguoyibeizi。

 worenweizishenwoyizhishihenqipanhunyinguanxide，kedajiazhengchaoshi，tazongshixiaijiatinglengbaoli，fashengzhengzhishitacongbujijiqiurao，bingqiehuijiaruheimingdanwodeshoujihao，rangwobukaixin。

 laogongyouwaiyulihuncaichanzenmefen？bingqietayuwomuqinguanxiyizhibutaihao，liangjiarenguanliannaodehenjiang，woqueshibuqingchuyinggaizenmeban?

答：

 congnidezhuangkuangkanlai，dajiagangwanhundeqingkuangxia，nishijishangbingmeiyoufeichangaita，jinjinyouyunigangtichufenshou，shitamibuleniqinggandekongque、

bingqieshiyouyunijuedetaxintengni，yincidajiacaijiedehun，wanhunyihoudaliangdeshiduijiazhongdeshiminggan。

 zainilaidaotadedachengshi，shinimamazhaoguxiaohaiqinei，tagennimamahuifashengfenqi，keshiniyizhizaizhengzhongjianbingmeiyoujuyoufeichanghaodehuanchongzuoyong。

yinerkandechu，zainixinliduitashiyouzhongduobumanyide，bingbuyuanyiqudanfuqidiaozhengtamenguanliandeyiwu。

fandaobadaliangdeyiwutuidaotadedeshenshang，zheizaocheng tamenzhongjiandefenqiyeshiyulaiyutuijin。

 ciwai，youyumaifangjialihunmaifangdeshi，tayiranmeiriguanzhuwenhaoniyuxiaohai，zhunshijishenghuofeiyong，neiyanglaikantabingmeiyouyinerhulvejiazhongzhongdeshiminggan，yiranzhaoliaoaihunihexiaohai。

 keshizainixinli，nizishizhizhongduitayouzhongduodebumanyi，buguantaruhexintengni，nidoushihuiganjuetabushiniyaoxiangzhaoderen，neiyangnizishizhizhonggentawufachuangjianqizhenshidehunyinguanxi。

 yincishijishangniyizhiqipandehunyinguanxi，daliangyuangubushitajiatinglengbaoli，zhishizainidexinlibingmeiyouchedidequjieshouzheigeren。

 yizhiyubuguantaganshenme，duiniduomehao，nizishizhizhongzhaobuzhehunyinguanxidejuede，zheiyejiushinizaishenqingbanlilebanlihunshouxuyihou，chiyishibushizaihundeguanjianyuangu。

 shijishangzaihunyinshenghuoqingganzhongbingbushiyigerendewujintouruqukaolvlingyigeren，daliangdeshibicizhijianshangxi，yitongdefazhanhemoheqi。

对于你的状况，教师让你几个方面提议：

 yi、xixinquhuiyiliangrenzaizheiliduanguanlianzhongdejiaowangxingweimoshi，jiqizhengquerenshizaizheiliduanguanlianzhongbenshencunzaidebuzu，erqiekeyiqudiaojiehegenggai。

er、lijingjinshensisuoyihou，kaolvdaobingjueceshibushizaihun。

 jiaruzaihunjiuxuyaoqudiaojiebenshenzaizheiliduanguanlianzhongdenanti，kefoukeyiqujieshouzheigeren，jieshoutasuoyoudehaohebutaihao，erqiequrentongta。

 erbushihuaizhezishizhizhongxianggenggaitadeniantou，danfuqidiaozhengtayumamadeguanliandeyiwu，zhengqueyindaodajiaxiangchumoshidiaojie，chuangjianqihunyinguanxi。

jiarurengranbukeyijienata，nenggoutiaoxuanbuzaihun，bicizhijianzhizhixingduixiaohaideyiwu，suihouzhongxinxuanzelingyiban。

san、wulunshibushizaihun，zhenduibenshendefazhanhetishengshibukehuoquede。

 haozhebulihundejieguoshishenme？zuixianzaigongzuozhiyufazhanqushizishendegerenaihao，bazijiderichangshenghuofengfuduocaiqilai，zhaoguzijiderichangshenghuo，zhaoliaohaobaobao，haohaoaizijicaikeyigengqiangdeaitaren。