能怎样摆脱离婚的痛楚?

 jinyouxianmianduitongchu，jienatongchu，caikeyiyingduitongchu。yinci，zailihunzhihouyidingyaorongxuzishenyouyiduantongchudeshijian，tashilihunzhihoubijingzhiludetujing，nibutaikenengraodekai，niyaoshiquzoujiuhaole，wuxuxiangjinbanfaquraokai。lihundazhanjiranhuizhiwanyi，neimawulunqingxuyouduocaogaowomendouyaoyingduita。buyongyouyitaobi，duifangshuolihunbayebuyongyayiganzishen，jienaliyizheiyikeguanshishishiyigerenshulizishenxintaideqishidian。

积极主动应对离婚之后的日常生活

 jibenshangquanbuzaoshouliyideren，benzhiquanshixiaojide，tamenbujinzaiyebuhuinaxieqingxugangkaishiyiduanxindeqinggan，naizhizhenduijianglaiderenshengdaoluquanshixiaojide。tamenxiangqijianglai，doushihuihenxiaochen，kanqilaimeiyouxinxin——nizenmeduidaizheishijie，zheishijiejiuneimeganenhuikuini，cike，niderichangshenghuoziranbutaikenenghaoqilai。yinci，niwubiweizijiyixiejijizhudongdezhenglianzhengqueyindao，kaishi，rangzishendexinlichongpeiqilai，rangzishendebenzhimanhuaixiwang。bubibayanguangyizhizhiliuzaiwangri，zhishiyingdangchaoqiankan，erqieyaoxuehaoquqidai。liru，nixiangyixiang，zishenqidaiguoshangnaxiederichangshenghuo，nijiuyaokehua，jiusuanjinjinyizhongxiangxiang，shijishangyeshiduijinixiezhude。

zenyangbaituoliyidetongchu?

1、开朗应对法

 jiranliyichengweishishi，jiubuyaoqujiuchanbuxiu，jiubuyaoqumaiyuanguoduo，duifangshuolihunbajieshouxianshibuchenggong，zhongjiurenshengzhiluhaizhang，kailangyingduiyiqie，buweiliyichanshengsunhai，yebubijupaweilaideshenghuo。guzuyongqizhenzuoqilai，jiusuantongchunanguo，yaoshixinliweichikaixin，yaoshikailangjijizhudongyingdui，yiqiedoushihuibianchengnideguoqu，bumilianyiwangxingfu，yebubihouhuimojishangxin。fufuyuanchangkuaisan，zhongdedaobieqingkuangxia，meifashizhijinkouyibeizi，neimejiuxiaorongshuoliyi，fenbiexunzhaokuaile，daizhutimiandisheidoubusunhaishei，zuishaohainenggaohaopenyou。

2、感情迁移法

 liyichanshengdeganqingwaishang，jinguanhuibansuizheshijianliushi，jianjiandihuichongdan，danshangbarengrancunyou，yibuxiaoxinchuyudao，yehuirangzishenshenxianbeishangzhong，yincinenggou shizheyongganqingqianyifa。jiranzaoyigaoyiduanluohunyinshenghuo，xiufuleyigerendeshenghuo，neimejiuwuxudanxinyiwang，zaiciquzhaoleshihemubiao，huoshiganyuzaiduqutanchangtanlianai，wangdiaoguoqudebuyukuai，dianranzishenaiqinghuohua。ruguonizhuanyizhuyili，lihundazhanzijintourumeihaoshenghuo，liyideganqingsunhai，yejiujianjiandijiangdi，lingwaitanlianaidailainikaixin，rongguanghuanfazhongshixinxin，jiuburongyihaipahunyinshenghuo，ziranhaiyaopengdaoshihederen。