离婚的直接原因到底是啥?

 liyidezhijieyuanyindaodishisha?henduorenzhikandaolehunyinshenghuobiaocengdegezhonggeyangfenqi，lihunhouzenmebanquehushileshenhoudeyagennanti。lihundazhanhunyindeyiyishiyichangxiezuo，jiaruyifangluowubianhuibeishuaixia。

婚姻的意义是一场协作，假如一方落伍便会被甩下

 yaoshiqianshedaoxiezuo，jiucunyouziyuanpeiduidenanti。jiaruzaihunyinshenghuodezailvtunifeidetaikuai，bianhuibalingyifangshuaikai，nifeidetaimanle，niyejiuhuibeilingyifangshuaikai。yinci，yaoxiangweichitongbujiudehuxiangbangchen。

 weihexiangcundehunyinshenghuozheibandelaogu?youyu，liangkouzidoumeishafazhan，jichuyibeizidouchuzaitongyishuipingxian。eryuefaqicai，yuefachuangyezhe，yuefadapaimingxing，yuefeichangrongyiliyi，bingbushiyouyutamenyiqingbielianle，zhishifeidetaikuai，lingyifangwufagenshangjiaobule，liyishibiding，fuqizhijiandegaokuanbicunyoudachabieshi，zheileiguanlianshibunengdiaohede。

 congzheiyishijiaonenggoukandechu，fuqijianzuikongbudeguanlian，bianshiyifangzaiqianxing，yifangzaiyuanditabuzou，dangzishendezhangfufeidetaikuaishi，nibuyaoxinxi，zhishiyingdangyoujinpogan……。nvxingjiaodadebuzhengque，bianshiweizuiaiderenfangqilegongzuo。meilegongzuojiuyibuyoufengcai，nanshengshizhongshangxiyouzishenzhuiqiuwanmeidenvxing。zheileifengcaiyongyouzhimingxingdeyouhuoli，wuyouguanpiaoliang，qiancai，xingqing。qipanmeihaoaiqingdemeinvmen，xianqinfenrangzishenjuyouzhideyongyouneifenxingfudebenzhihewaizaiba。

女性的发展比取得成功更关键

 wohenxihuanneiyangdenvxing，chuandeqijiqiankuaidezhangdayi，yebuxianqijishiyuandetxu;xiangyoudelegaoduandekafeiguan，yeyandexiamalubiandechuanchuanxiang;zuodeqigaodangjiaoche，yeholdzhu11lugongjiaoche;canjiadeleyouyadeyanxi，lihundazhanyehaideqijiemeimendejuhuihuodong;nenggouwenroutitie，haikeyizishiqili。

我看到过那样一个真人真事：

 nvrenhenanrenshidaxuetongxue，biyezhihou，nvxingbuguanbuguqinrendedizhi，guoduanjiageileyipinruxidenansheng。zaiyigexuanxiaodechengshili，kaishiletamendejiandandeshenghuo。yinweigangdaxuebiye，jingjihenshiqianque，yinertamendeqiongkunliaodaolaidao，meidunfanzhizhuyigeshucaijiuzhebaimifanchidechengdu。

 nvxingdefazhanqushiqueyizhihenchenggong，wunianyihou，tazaoyishiqiyedegaocengzhuzhaiguanlifangfale。yuanxianyijianyifuyibaikuaiqiantadoubushedeweizijimai，danshirujinyijianyifushangqianyuan，tadouburongyizaihule。danshinanshengdegongzuoquecongmeiyouchengxiao，tazongshibuduanhuangongzuo。zainvxinglaikanrujindetazhenshiyixiebuqiushangjin。zongsuanyouyitian，nvxingjuedexianghuyibushihe，zuizhongtamingquetichulilehun。lihunhouzenmebanrennanshengzenyangyongqingtaishendiwanhui，yaneryouxindequebaodoumeinengchudonglaopo。fanershilaopoyiliangjuhaotaodakudexunwenshitawuyanyidui。laoposhuo：“dangwomenfengyujianchengdiquxuexipeixun，dangwomencheyecheyedekuxuezhuanyejineng，dangwomenjiabanjiadiandaoshengengbanye，mangdegubushangchiwufanshi，nizaizuoshenmeni?”nanshengditoubuyu。taranhoushuo：“niyizhizaiwanyouxi，huoshizaishuizhangjue，youhuoshizaihujiaoduiyouzaihongdengjiulvzhongxiaosarensheng!wunianlai，wojiguonijihuijiyule?niwozhijianzaoyigeleqianshanwanshui，jiuqianwanbiezitaomeiqudewanhuileba!”