婚姻生活有名无实但有小孩该不该离婚

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婚姻生活有名无实但有小孩该不该离婚

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第一点寻找小孩的建议

 jiaruniyaoxiangyibudanxinjiujingshibushiyingdangwanbiyiduanyoumingwushidehunyinshenghuo，neimaniyejiuyingdangqubaozhengdiyidian：quxunzhaoxiaohaidejianyi，zhongshixiaohaideniantou。jiaruniyongyuanbuzhidaogaibugailihun，jiarunidanxinliyihuisunhaidaoxiaohai，neimashijishangninengquxunzhaoyixianizijixiaohaidejianyi。shijishangxiaohaizaoyishikeyimingbaibabamamaqinggandezhuanbiande，jiarunixixindequgaozhixiaohaineimafuqijiandezhuangkuang，quxixindehexiaohaibiaoshu，neimatajiuyidinghuikeyilejiedajiadezuofa，xiaohaiyekeyiduinishuotazijixinlideniantou，neiyangdehuaniyejiunenggou yibudanxinchiyile。jiarutajuedefuqilihunhuidailaitasunhai，neimaniyejiutiaoxuanrenyixia，weilebaobaodekuailechengzhangmeiquliyi，danjiarutajuedejiusuanfuqilihun，tahaikeyijiena，neimaniyejiunenggou tiaoxuanqulilehun。

第二点遵从自身心里真正的念头

 jiaruniyaoxiangyibudanxinjiujingshibushiyingdangwanbiyiduanyoumingwushidehunyinshenghuo，neimaniyejiuyingdangqubaozhengdierdian：zuncongzishenxinlizhenshideniantou。jiujingyaobuyaolihunshijishangjinjinnizijidetiaoxuanbale，youyuniderenshengdaoluyounizijizuozhu。jiarunixinlishizhenzhengyaoxiangliyide，neimajiububiquxiangneimeduoqujianjuedequlihunba，lihunleqianwanbierangnizijizairichangshenghuozaihunyinshenghuodetongchuxiale，jiarunixinlishibuyuanlihunlede，niyaoxiangzaiyaozhengjiuyixianidehunyinshenghuo，neimaniyejiububiquliyi，zaiqushizhezhegaibianxianzhuang，zaiqushizhezhezhengjiu，quxiufunidehunyinshenghuo，shengduorangzishenzhihouhouhuimoji。yinci zuncongzishenxinlizhenshideniantou，neiyangcaikeyijinizuochuyigezhenshibuxunihouhuimojidejuece。

第三点寻找情感专家的建议