丈夫是钢铁直男想离婚了咋办

 zhangfushigangtiezhinanxianglihunle，keshiwoquebuqingchugaibugailihun，henduorenna，zaiwanhunyihoudoushiyouzheileiniantou，zishendezhangfushigangtiezhinan，erzishenbuqingchuyingbuyinggailitazaicizaiyiqile，lihunguizeshijishanga，xianglihunzenmebannihebuzunzhaozishendexinligensuizishendexinlizou，jiaruniyaoxiangliyineimejiuliyi。

丈夫是钢铁直男想离婚了

 hebuxianshudaoyixiazishen，weizijichuandiqiadangdeguannian。yuzhangfuzuoxialaigoutongjiaoliuyixiatashigangtiezhinan，zheiyishieryinggaizenmeban?liangrenkanyixiahainengbunengzaiyiqi，bunengzaiyiqijiutiaoxuanliyi。henduorenna，zaiwanhunyihouchajuezijidezhangfuqueshishitaigangtiezhinanle，jiehunqianrenweizishenkeyijiena，keshijiehunhouchajuezijibingbukeyijienajienabushang，keshitamenbuqingchugaibugailiyi，tamenshijishangshiyaoxiangliyide。keshinibuqingchu。zenmejiangbuqingchugaibugailiyi，shijishanga，jiarushiyouyunidezhangfugangtiezhinan，nixianglihunle，worenweineimeiyoubiyao，nihebuxianshudaoyixiazishenwenyiwenzishendexinli。daodishiyouyutagangtiezhinanerxianglihun，huanshiyouyuniyongyoubiededeniantou，yongyoubiededeguannian，yinci caixiangwanbizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo，lejiezijidexinli。nongqingchuzishenxiangdejiujingshishenme，suihouzaijuece。shifouyingdangzaicibaochizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo。

先疏导一下自身传递恰当的观念

 jiarua，youyunidezhangfushigangtiezhinan，yinci nixianglihunle，burunixianshudaoyixiazishen，guanxinzishenqiadangdeguannian，gaozhizishenbuyinggaiyouyuzheizhongsuoshierqutiaoxuanliyi，zhengyouyunigennidezhangfulianaideqingkuangxia，nizaoyilejietashigangtiezhinanle，keshidajiawanhundeqingkuangxianiyezhidao，neimameiyoubixu，youyutashigangtiezhinanerliyi，zheishiyouyunisuozhangwota，yinci yelejietashizenmexiangde，jinjinyouyuta，henyoukenengtaibushanyubiaodazishendeniantoule，huoshitataishanyubiaoshuzishendeniantoule，yinci caihuizaocheng jinizheileiniantou，shidudeshudaozishen，guanxinzishenqiadangdeguannian，lihunguizeneiyangjiuburongyixianglihunle。

与丈夫坐下来沟通交流一下这一事儿应该怎么办

 yuzhangfuzuoxialaigoutongjiaoliugoutongjiaoliuyixia，dajialiangrenyingdangzenmejiejuezheiyishier，shifouyingdangzijizuoyixiegenggai，suihounidezhangfuyezuoyixiegenggai，jinershidajialiangrendehunyinshenghuozaicizaiyiqini，meiyoubixuyouyuzheiyidiansuoshiertiaoxuanlihunba，gengshiyouyunizaoyilejietashiaihunitengnidele，keshininikongzhibuzhuzishenneimexiang，yinci meifangxianghugoutongjiaoliuyixiazishenxinlideniantou，kanyixiaruhequjiuzheng，suihouzaijuecezheiyiduanhunyinshenghuodaodishiqushiliu。

看一下两人适不宜在一起

 kanyixialiangrenshibushihaiheshizaiyiqi，jiaruheshizaiyiqineimajiuzaicibaochizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo，xianglihunzenmebanjiaruliangrenbuyizaiyiqile，neimajiumeiyoubixuzaizaicijiaowangxialaile，zhongjiuliangrenjiarubuyizaiyiqile，neimayigerenjianchibuxieyeshimeiyouyongde。jiranzishenzaoyijuedelaidaoxianglihunle，neimajiukankanliangrendaodihaishibushizaiyiqi，suihouzaikaizhanjueceliyihuanshibuliyi。