我出轨了该怎么办想离婚但是又怕后悔莫及

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我出轨了该怎么办想离婚但是又怕后悔莫及

 danxinhouhuimojijiuyidingyaozaizuotiaoxuanqianlizhisisuo，nenggou zhengqiuzhoubianrendejianyi，qinpenghaoyoushikandajiazhongjiandeqingganzuiqingxide，youshihoutamenhaikeyidechuyiyanghelidejianyi，zuizhongnenggou bazhenshiqingkuanggaozhizishendelingyiban，shitazuochutiaoxuan，zhongjiubuzhengquezaini，talianjuedingquandoubukeyiyoumeiyou?neimenikaizhantiaoxuanshi，yidingyaoqueliwaiyudebuzhengquequjueyuni。niyidingyaokegumingxinlejiedaozishendebuzhengquezhihouzuochugenggai，buranjibian nixintouzijintouruxiayiduanhunyinshenghuo，nidexiayirenyebuhuihuodemanyidudequebao，henkenenghaihuijixuzaicifashengyicibuzhengque，youniangchudacuo。cizhiyidingyaorangnidelingyibanzhenxinshiyidezhiqian，tazuoweinidehelihefalingyiban，youzhipeiquanlejienisuozuochudebuzhengque，yeshiyouzhipeiquanzhenduidajiazhongjiandehunyinshenghuokaizhantiaoxuan。hunyinshenghuotiaoxuanshishuangzhongde，zheiyijuecequanqujueyudajialiangren，bierennengzuochudejinyoutiyi。

理智一段时间思索选择

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将真实情况告知另一方使他作出挑选

 hunyinshenghuoshishuangxiangjiaoliu，yidingyaojiangshierdeshiqingduinishuodelingyiban，lihunguizejitamenyigejuedingquan。jiarulingyifangzaibuzhidaodezhuangkuangxia，nidelingyibanhuranzaiweilaidemouyigetupokoulizhidaoshierdeshiqing，neimanenggou shexiangtaneishihouhuichuxianduomedebenkui。lijirencuo，tuierqiuqicishichengrenkandaiyiqiebanfadeshidexintai。hunyinshenghuodewanbihuanshizaici，bushiniyigerenlaidingde，shibixufufubicidexianghushangyi。jibian nitiaoxuanleliyi，tatiaoxuanleyuanyi，dajiazhongjianyeyeyouhenduodenanti，birulaonianrendefuyang，zichandeqiefen，xiaohaideyangyu。

让周边的盆友明确提出建议

 pangguanzheqing，dangjuzhemi。dajiazhoubiandepenyouhenyoukenengbinigengzhangwonidelingyibandegexinghuahedajiazhongjiandeqinggan。zhenduizheixienianlaideqinggan，ninenglejietamendeguandian。nichuguile，lingyibankefoujienazheijianshiqingbingtiaoxuankuanrong，xianglihunzenmeban    niyaoweilegenghaodiyigewaiyumubiaoertiaoxuanwanbizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuoqueshizhidema?jianxinnidepengyouyeyidinghuijiangdajiazheixienianzhijindeyidianyidilishurangniting。tingwanhoutamendetiyi，niyexukeyizuochuyigeqiadangdefenbian。