人一旦拥有离婚的想法该怎么办

 yiduanhaodehunyinshibixuliangrenxianghuyunyingde，keshijiaruhunyinshenghuozhongdeshuangfangdouxianghuzhijianbuqingchugongxiangyudanfu，neimazheiyangzihuirangbiciyuelaiyueyulaiyulengdan，lihunguizezuizhongzaochengliyideniantou。xianglihunzenmebancikeyingdangzenmebanni?

人一旦拥有离异的想法该怎么办

 diyidianbianshiyaopouxichuyuangu，nenggaizegai。dierdianbianshiyaojiyulingyifangxinlaiheyikao。disandianbianshigaifangkaishoushijiufangkaishou，hailingyifangsuiyi。yidanyouyifangnaizhishishuangfang，douhuihunhoushenghuozhongyongyouliyidexiangfa，neimadajiadehunhoushenghuozhongjiuhuiyuelaiyuegengweidetongchuhebukanrumu，yinci zuoweilingyifangwubiyaoyuelaiyuegengweidezixihetiexinqufajuelingyifangdexinlizhuanbian，niyijutamendexinlizhuangtaiquzuochuyixiezhengjiudecuoshi，jiaruruguokeyidehua，wanhuilaogongshishidejiejuefangan，keshijiarudajiazhongjiandedequequecunyouyixienanti，pobudeyitiaoxuanliyidehua，neimajiuzuochuyixiexuanze，bubisunhaidaoxianghudangduanzeduan，youyuzheishihoudehunyinshenghuozaoyirangdajiayouyuanwufen，nitihuibushangyiqiedekaixin，liangzhezhijiantongchudewusuozuoweibibushangzhenshifangkaishouweizijiyigexindejianglai。

剖析缘故

 yidanyouyigerenyongyouliyidexiangfa，neimabiranshiqingganchuxianlenanti，yexushiyigerendenantiyexushiliangrendenanti，huoshishizishendenanti，erzishenbingmeiyoufajue，zheizhongdoubixudajiakaizhangoutongjiaoliuhegoutongjiaoliu，genjugoutongjiaoliuhegoutongjiaoliudajiahuifajue，nantichuzainaersuihouzaixunzhaojiejuefangan，neiyangqingganbianhuihuodewanjiu，cikeyidingyaohelingyifanghaohaodidegoutongjiaoliu，pingxinjingqidegoutongjiaoliuruguoshizishendebuzhengquejiuxuyaoganyufuzeren，ruguoshilingyifangdejiuxuyaowanzhuandegaozhita，kuanrongdelingwaihaiyaokuanronglingyifangdexintai，gaoqingchulingyifangcuowudeyongyi。

给与信赖

 jiaruqingganzhonghuxiangbuganxiangxinbuxinren，neimaliangrenhuichuxiangeshigeyangdefenqihewujie。lihunguizejiaruyigerenyongyouliyidexiangfa，henkenengbianshiyouyuzheizhongwujie，rijiyuelei，zuizhongxiaojizizuizhongbianweidawujie，yinci ni，yinci pengdaozheileizhuangkuangdehua，bibushangxianlizhiyiduanshijian，jiyulingyifangxinlai，ranglingyifangyishidaonidebumanyihebuduijinger，jiarulingyifangzhendeshijiangnifangzaixinli，tabianhuifajuezheiyizhuanbian，yebianhuiyincizuochudafu，jiuliruhuiyuenixianliaojiaotanxunwenniyuangu。zaizheigejibenxihuanniwubiyaoxinlailingyifang，xinlailingyifangjinideaishizhenxinshiyide。

该放开手时就放开手

 henduorenyongyouliyidexiangfadoubushiyigerendenanti，youyutamenyifangmianduizishendelingyibanjuedebumanyi，yifangmianyoushiyouyulingyifangyehenbuzaiyizishen，yinci caihuizaochengleliyidexiangfa，liyixiangfaxuduozhuangkuangxiaquanshilijingshenzhongkaolvcaikaocaikaolvdaode，yinci zheiyixiangfabianhuizainixinlichixudeshenggenfaya，zuizhongjinizuochuliyidejuece。xianglihunzenmebanwanhunbingbushinaozhewande，keshiwanhunwubiyaoduiliangrenchengdan，dangliangrendoutihuibushangwanhunchanshengdekaixinhehunhoushenghuozhongdexingfukuailedeqingkuangxia，neimabibushangjiuzhenshifangkaishou，dangduanzeduanjilingyifangsuiyi，xunzhaoyigexindexingfukuaile。