离婚了孩子怎么办

 lilehunlihunzenmeban？lihunhouzenyangshuoxiaohaicaihuiting？liyijiatingjixiaohaichanshenglexuduosunhai，weilebaobao，lihunhoufumubiciyeyingdangchuangjianyoushan、yuanliangdeguanlian，xianghuaixixiaohai，rangxiaohaizhujianbaituoliyideheiying。xiabianxiangjinkanlaiyixiaba！

一、怎样教育小孩离异的实情

 lihunhouzenyangshuoxiaohaicaihuiting？lihunhoudefumuqianyingjiejuehaoduixianghudenaonuheneijiu，suihouzaibujibuzaodijiaoyuxiaohailiyideshiqing。suiranyubuyiyangnianjixiaohaitanhuaneirongdeneironghuidabuyiyang，dandouyingzhuzhongyidian，jiushishuobuguanzenyang，dajiadoushishizhongaitahezhaoliaota。jilao：xiaohaibingbuyidingduiguanjiandianlejiedehenxiangjin，guanjiandeshitahuilejie，fumujinguanfenlile，dansheiyeburongyizaihaizideshijielixiaotui。jianxinbansuizhehaizichengzhang，tahuigaoqingchu，yehuilejiede。

二、切勿把小孩作为对付另一方的专用工具

 lilehunlihunzenmeban？zaochengxintaizhuangtaichengdan，yehuijitamensuzaobeimiandekaimo，zuochusunhaizhenqingdexingwei。qingninjilao：dangninxianglihunlingyifang“ajiao”deneishihou，zheizhong“jian”yaozuixianshechuanxiaohaiderenticaihuididalihunlingyifangdeneili。

三、切勿过多娇惯或排挤小孩

 yingduixiaohaideneishihou，yifangmianyaojiyuqizhenxinshiyideguanaiheguanai，guanzhutazaiyouzhiyuanhuodaxuedeshenghuo、xuexipeixunqingkuang，tahuiburongyiganjuebeipaiji；lingyifangmian，yeyingdanggulihaizidezijuexing，bubijiaoshengguanyangta。youyuduiliyijiatingxiaohailaijiang，weilaihuiyudaodaliangdejiannan，zixiaosuzaowanqiang、dulidexingqing，duitahenyouyichu。

四、做小孩的身边的榜样

 ertongxiaofanggongzuonengliqiang，huishoufu、mamaxintaideweihai。yineryuxiaohaizaiyiqishenghuodedanqin，yidingyaoshanyukefuzishendefumianqingxu，diaozhenghaobenshendexintaizhuangtai，jijizhudong、wanqiangdijieshouxianshi，jixiaohaisuzaokaimo。neiyang，nindexiaohaicaiyoujiezhu，caiburongyijuedebuzixin，caikeyibuduanjinqu。

五、教育孩子和人相处

 jiaoyuhaizidandadiqudajiaodao、baomingcanjiagezhongshangwuhuodong。fumunenggourangxiaohaiyaoyuexiaohaizilaijiazhongwan，xiaohaizhinenggenjuyuhuobandexiangchu，caikeyiqingchuxinlidehenman，gaijinrenjijiaowang，fazhanqushigexinghua。