不想他只是你生命中的过客该怎么做

 youjuhuashizheimeshuode，youxierenzhudingshinishengmingzhongdeguoke，quezongshichengweinijiyizhongdechangke。buxiangtazhishinishengmingzhongdeguoke，zhicunzaijiyili，jiuyinggaibawodangxiadeshiguang，anliandeyonggandequzhuiqiu，chaojianaofenshoudefangxiaxinlidejiediquhonghongduifang。

一、不想他只是你生命中的过客该怎么做

 buxiangtazhishinishengmingzhongdeguoke，gaizenmezuo?zenyangwanhuitadexin，lejienanrendexuyao，zhuazhunanrendexin。erzaiwanhuiaiqingdeshihounitebietongku，xianggaosuta，niyouduoxiangta，baitianxiangnian，yewanmengjian。zhisuoyihuishuozheixie，chuleshishufaneixindekumen，gengduode，dagaihaishixiwangduifanghuiyincierxinruanhuozhegandong，yuanyihuitou，zaixuqianyuanba。xiangrangtayunigongduyisheng。

1、别倾倒负面情绪

 zaigangfenshoushi，henduorenhuijiejiuxiaochou，fagepengyouquandoushiyipianhuiande，renshengcongcishiqulehuoxiaquxiwangdeganjue。zhuangkelianbotongqing，shizuishadexingwei，zhihuirangtajuedezijihaihaolikaidezao。jishitayikaishihuiyinweidanxin，erhuilaikankanni，dancishuduole，tayehuimanmanmamudiaode。

 yaozhidao，fenshoule，nimenjiushi【lianggeren】le，lianggedulidegeti，nimenzhiqianjulizaijin，xianzaiyebipengyoumosheng，shenzhitakeyiduiyigemoshengrenzuodeguanxin，daolenishenshang，yeduoleyicenggulv，paniwuhui，paniduoxiang，pazaiyicishanghaini，erbuganjiejin。

 gengyoushenzhe，tongguofabuyixieqituzishadepengyouquanhexiaoxi，duitakejian，xiwangyongyalibitajiufan。kenengnihuiyishidecheng，danzuihoutahaishihuilikai，bingqiepaodegengkuai，taodegengyuan，yinweiduitalaishuo，nitaikongbule。

2、从普通朋友做起

 ruguonikeyiwenzhuxintai，meiyoufanqianmiantidaodecuo，neimezhishaozaizheiyike，nihetashi“pingdeng”de。zheigepingdengfeichangzhongyao，bushizhidiweishang，ershizaixintaishang，niyidingbunengjuedezijijiushibeiweide，ditayideng。daizhezheiyangpingdengdexintai，nicainengzirandehetagoutongdao。huandehuanshi、zhanzhanjingjing，doubushihaodexintai，zhihuihuileniwanhuidenuli。

 gaosuziji，buguannizaizenmexiangta，yeyaobatadangchengputongren，yigeputongpengyou。niyueshijuedetagaogaozaishang，renweizijidirenyideng，yueshiwufawanhui，yinweicongyikaishinidexingweijiurangduifangkanbuqini。youqishizhiqiannigezhongzuo，gezhongnaofenshoudehua，xianzaizheizhongfanchagengshirongyirangduifangyanehefangan。

 suoweinanshenhenvshen，bujiuyinweizhuibudao，shuibuzheme?tazainixinmuzhongzaihao，yezhishiputongren，buyaoguodudeyongjiyimeihuatadexingxiang，nishixiangbatazhuidaoshou，wanhuihuilai，bushibatagongqilai。

保持普通朋友的关系，不要让对方觉得你还在对他抱有幻想，有利于减少他对你的戒心，这样一来，你要创造双方交集，自然就容易得多了。你可以和他聊聊微信，约他吃个饭，或者和共同的朋友一起出来聚会，一切要轻松愉快又无比自然的进行。等他开始慢慢习惯你的存在，并且开始主动的对你进行邀约，那你离 挽回 成功就不远了。

二、有些人注定是你生命中的过客

 xuduoshihou，xuduobuyuanyimianduideshiqing，womendouxiwangtazhishiyichangmeng，xiwangtakeyizhonglai，raner，renshengmeiyoujiashe，zhiyouzhenxiangheshishi。suoyiwomenzhinengwangqianzou，wufahoutui。

 youduanshijianwanshang，zongshihuibeiyixieqiwandeaiqinggushisuogandong，yehuizaixinliyihuoweishenmezijimeiyouyudaozheiyangganrendezhenqing。qishizheixiedongrenaiqinggushizhongdejiejubuyueertongdoushitianrenyongge。

 yexuzhengyinweirucicaigengganrenzhishen，rangguanzheweizhixinsuan、wanxi。gengshenshendebeizheifenzhenaisuodadong。renzongshizaishiquairenyihoucaidongdezhenxi。suoyoudewuhuiheyuanhenlaibujijieshi、chengqing;suoyoudeshuhulaibujimibu;suoyoudeguanailaibujihuiying。zheiyiqiedousuizheyonghengdeshiqu，chenglexinshangyidaoyongnanmopingdeshanghen。youxierenzhudingshinishengmingzhongdeguoke，quezongshichengweinijiyizhongdechangke。