大学生恋爱观如何树立

 daxueshengtanlianaishigeyonghengdehuati，dajiadouxiwangnengzaidaxuelitanyichanghonghonglielie、tianzhangdijiudelianai，keshishijishang，youhenduorenzailianaizhongshibai、shoushang，shenzhimishiziwo，duishenghuorenshengshiqulexingqu，weishenmehuizheiyangni？womengairuhemianduishilian？lianaihexueyeruhezuodaopingheng？lianaizhongjishishifaxianbuheshiyouzenyangbushanghaidaoduifangerchengweipengyouni？henduowentiduichulianderenlaishuobingbuhuixiangdao，dengdaowentichuxianshiyouwufawanjiu。jintianxiaobianzaizheilijiandangaosudajiayixiebijiaozhengquedelianaiguan。

一、大学生恋爱观如何树立

1、yaozhengqueduidailianai。

 zhengquechulihaolianai、xueye、shiyesanzhezhijiandeguanxi。lianaishirenshengdeyijiandashi，danbingbushirenshengdequanbu。daxueshengyinggaiyixueyeweizhong，yinweixuexishidaxueshengdezhuyaomude。shiyegaoyuaiqing，zhuzhangshiyeweizhu，buyiguozaodilianai。danyebuyaorenweiaiqingshishiyedebanjiaoshi，chulidehaodehua，aiqingyenengduishiyeqidaocuihuazuoyong。chuzhongshenglianaishibuhuikaolvzheixiewentide。

2、yaopeiyangaidenengli。qiaidenenglibaokuoyixiajizhong：

diyijiushiyaoyouyingjieaidenengli。

 ruguoyigerenxinzhongyouleaijiuyaoganyuyongzhengquedefangshibiaoda；ruguomianduibierendeshiaishiyaonenggouqushe，bingjishizuochujieshouhuojujuedexuanze。nenggouchengshouqiuaijujuehuojujueqiuaidexintaikunrao。dierjiushiyaoyoujujueaidenengli。duiyuzijibuyuanyijieshouhuorenweibuzhidejieshoudeaiqingyingyouyongqijujue。jujueshiyingzhuyiliangdian：yi、ruguobuxiwangaiqingdaolai，jujuedeyuqiyaoguoduanjianjue，rongbudebandianyourouguaduan，fouzeduiduifangzaochengdejiangshigengdadeshanghai。er、yaozhangwoqiadangdefangshi。yaozhangwoshuohuadefangshihedu。suiranmeigerendouyoujujueaidequanli，danshiyeyaozuodaoduibierenqimadezunzhong。chuzhongshenglianaishibuhuikaolvzheixiewentide。

3、yaozhengquechulilianaicuozhe。

 diyijiushiyaozhengshixianshi。shilianzhikuzaiyuyige“lian”zi，aiqingshishuangxiang、xianghude，yishuangfangdeaiqingweijichu，shiqurenheyifang，aiqingjiuhuishiqulepingheng，lianaijigaozhongzhi。zheishishiliandeyifangwulunduilingyifangaideyouduoshen，doushibuxianshidele，zuoweiyoulizhidedaxueshengyinggaizhengshizheiyixianshi。dierjiushiyaohuanweisikao。yaosheshenchudideweiduifangzhexiang。zheiyangzuoyouzhuyunilijieduifangzhongzhiaiqingdeyuanyin，youzhuyunijieshoushilianzheiyitongkudexianshibingjizaozouchushiliandeyinying。

 4、qingjingzhuanyi。shilianhouzhisuoyinanyibaituolianqingdekunrao，jiuzaiyushenghuodefangfangmianmiandouyuxiridelianrenyouzheqiansiwanlvdelianxi，suoyiyaoxiangbaituoshiliandetongku，jiuyaohuanyigezhanxindehuanjing，zanshilikaicengjingshuxidehuanjing。bazijizhishenyuyigehuanledehuanjingzhongqu。ruduojiaoyixiepengyou，duocanjiayixiejitixingdeyulehuodong，huozhekeyizhaorenquguangguangjie，chuqulvyousansanxindeng，zheiyangyouzhuyuxinqingdekaikuo。lingyifangmianshiyouyushilianhouyouyizhongkongxugan，zanshinanyishiying，suoyikeyiyonggongzuohuoqitashenmefangfalaichongshiziji，burangzaiyoukongyudeshijianhusiluanxiang。

 5、shenghua。yaojinkuaibashilianshenghuaweiyizhongfenfaxiangshangdedongli，jinkuaitourudaoxuexihuozhegongzuozhongqu。qiebukeyinweishilianeryijuebuzhen，renweishenghuo、renshengdoushiquleyiyi。yaozhidao，lianaishishenghuodezhongyaozuchengbufen，danbushishenghuodequanbu。yaozhengquedekandaiaiqing，baizhengaiqingdeweizhi，chulihaoaiqingyuxuexi，aiqingyurensheng，aiqingyuhunyindeguanxi。chuzhongshenglianaishibuhuikaolvzheixiewentide。

6、端正恋爱动机。

 lianaishiweilaixunzhaozhitongdaohe、baitouxielaodezhongshenbanlv，erbushiweileanweijiemen，xunzhaociji，gengbushidanchunweilexingdemanzu。lianaiduixiangdexuanzeshiyigefuzadeguocheng，bunenghushilejingji、zhengzhi、wenhua、gexingdengyinsu，danshigongtongdelixiangdezhixiang、gongtongdepindeheqingcaoshizuigenbende。lianaidongjidehaohuai，zhijieguanxidelianaidechenggongyufou。daxueshengzuoweixinshidaideqiaoliang，qilianaiguanyinggaishilixiang、daode、shiyehexingaideyoujijiehe。chuzhongshenglianaishibuhuikaolvzheixiewentide。

 zaixuehailikukufendouleshiergechunqiudexuezimen，zaijiuyuezhongyupizherongyaokuajinledaxuezheigeshenshengdediantang，chengweitianzhijiaozi。raner，suizhierlaidejimoquechangchangrangtamenbuzhisuocuo；yushi，zaizheixiangyatalibianduolexuduolangmandegushi，neibianshidaxueshengdeaiqinggushi。yishangziliaojiushidaxueshenglianaiguanruheshuli，xiaobianzaizheilibingzhuyuanyouqingrenzhongchengjuanshu。