分手后学会如何断联男人便会重新爱上你？断联期间如何心理博弈

 wojinnian23sui，nanpengyouyuwotongling，dajiaxiangchuyinianle，duanlianduojiutianxienanhuizhaoni？wonanpengyouduiyuwohenhao，xieshengkaiguoquanshitadizhetoubangwoxi，waichushenchushoujiubangwotibao，shifentiexin。duanlianqijianruhexinliboyini？

 keshiwoxingziyizhiyilaidoubingbushifeichanghao，dajiajibenshangmeizhoudouxuyaozhengchao，yuanxianquanshitalaihongwo，zhihouyoujihuiwoguofenyedougentazhiqianhehaola。

 jinyoucici，wofalexingzihou，tajiubuliwole，woyejiechuantashuodao，shitajiangwowangzaitamenjiadewupinhaijiwo，tayebuliwo。

 duanlianduojiutianxienanhuizhaoni？suihouyouguoquleyitian，wojixujitamenfaxinxi，xunwenta：“nijigeyisia？shifoubuyuanhaolaa。”

 huoshimeiyouliwo，yihouwoyewoyonghaoguimideshoujishangdajitamen，tajiujiele，woxunwentazaiganshenme，tashuodaotayoushier，dengtamangwanzaiyuwojiang，suihoujiugualele。

 guoquleshiduofenzhong，tacaihuiwoxinxi，hewojiangtafeichanglei，yaoxianglizhijiri。woneishihouyebuzhidaoruhexiangde，jiuhetashuodao：“neisuanleba，sanleba。”

xiangbudaotalijiyunxule，woneishihoulenglehaozhangyiduanshijian，buqingchuhuinaxie，jiuyizhimeihui。

womingbaitaneixinhaowuyiwenhuoshiaiwode，yinweiwohenhouhuimojihetashuodaotichufenshou，woxiangzenmezuocaikeyiwanliuni？

 da：kanguonidexushu，congxiwangzhixianlinengjuedechunishihenaizheninanpengyoude，jinjinzaiqingganzhong，niqueshishibumingbainansheng，yebumingbaizenyangjingyingganqing，gengbumingbaizenyangaiyigeren。

zainiyanzhong，ninanpengyoujiushinideshouqibaoma？huoshijieyawanju？

 bingdongsanchifeiyirizhihan，yiqianneimeaizhenideta，bingbingbushihuranyuelaiyuelengdande，nijuedenimenmeizhoudouxuyaozhengchao，tahaiyizhihongren，niyoumeiyouxiangguoyouyitiantayehuileini？buyuanhongxialaileni？

 meiyigerendeqidaiherenshouquanshiyouchengdude，jiaruniyiweidifangzongsuoyao，buzhidaotouruyizhi，neimafenlideneiyitianbingbushijinribianshimingribale。

 jiaruniyaoxiangwanliu，jiuxuyaotiaoxuanyongyouxiaodefangfaquxuanxiezishendexingzi，jibianlingyifangjiushininanpengyou，yemeiliyoutinidanfuquanbudexingzi，zheizhenduitashibuhelide。

短期内分手

 zainixushuzhong，ninanpengyouxianzhudizaoyifashengletaobixinlizhuangtai，zheiduanshijiandetaneixinyetailuan，buqingchuruheyingduini，huiyingni，yincicailengzheni。

danzheiyebiaomingletaduinishihenxinhande，zheileixinhanshileijixialaide。

 ninengduanzanxingdifenshouyiduanshijian，youyucikenilaizhaota，fandaohuijitamengongzuoyali，shitaganjuejibianhehao，niyeburongyigai，huishitazaochengzhangtengbibushangduantongdexinlizhuangtai。

 yincizheiduanshijianzuihaoshibubilianluolingyifang，jibicizhijiandabangeyuedeshijianhaohaodilizhiyixia，neiyangniyebaliuchuziwofanshengdeshijian，haohaodiqugenggaiyixiazishen。

预置合理性宣泄方法

 fenshoudezheiduanshijian，ninengbazijixingzilidebaofadian，jijiluxialai，jiarubuqingchuninenghuiyiyixianimenmeiyicizhengzhishideqingjing，nimenyinweishenmeshiercaichanshengdezhengzhi？

liru：lingyifangdeyixieguandian，xingwei，huoshizishendeguoyubijiaomingandeshier？

 xunzhaozishendebaofadianhou，jiuxuyaoxiangdaochangjingshiyuzhi，liruxiayicinimenzaichanshengxiangjindeshierhou，niyinggairuhexuanzegengyouxiaodeqingxuxuanxiefangfa？

 jiaruniqueshikongzhibuzhuzishendexingzi，nenggoutiaoxuanlengbaoli，rangzishentaobilingyifang，zaiqianyizishendezhuanzhuli，dengzishendexintaimanmanpingjingxialaihou，zaiquchulizheizhongfenqi，zhuangkuanghenyoukenenghuigenghaoxuduo。

积极联络致歉

 lizhiyiduanshijianhou，lingyifangdexintaiyehuixiangduixingwending，cikenizailianluolingyifang，caiburongyineimedichuni。duanlianqijianruhexinliboyini？

ninengbalingyifangyuechuquliaoyiliaonimenzhongjiandeshier，zhaoyigeziranhuanjingbijiaohaodekafeiguan，huoshigangshichacantingzheixie。

zheiyanganjingshufudeziranhuanjing，gengyouliyujianqingnimendenankanxintai，yebuhuiranglingyifangyouhendagongzuoyali。

 jiaotanzhong，bubitanjihekaixindeshi，zuixianshixianglingyifangdaogeqian，shuozishenzaoyisikaoguoqule，dequeyouhenduozuodecuowudediqu，sunhailelingyifangzheixie。

 zaijiangzijizuoleshenmedegenggai，pingjingxialaihouhaohaodihuiyicaifajueyiqianhentaiguo，jinrizhixiangyaohelingyifangdaogeqian，suihoudianzhijiukeyijiuhaole。duanlianqijianruhexinliboyini？

 zhengzhongjianduohelingyifangliaoyiliaoyixieyouqudeshi，wenyiwentajinqidouganlenaxiezheixie，duojiangyixieqingqingsongsongdehuatitaolun，gengnengranglingyifangjienani，haikeyirangnimenqingganxunsushengwen。

zaiqingganzhong，wulunlingyifangyouduodadekuanrongli，niyiweidifangzong，yehuiranglingyifangyounanyirenshoudeyitian。

duanlianduojiutianxienanhuizhaoni？yinciwulunshenmeshiqingbunengyongxingziqujiejuekunnan，neijieguozhinengshizhishangyoushangjibale。