断联10天的男人心理，越是深爱一个男人，越要学会主动和他“断联”

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 tonghuagushiyizhigaozhidajiawangzigongzhuzaiyiqibianshixingfukuailele，zhangdayihoudedajiacaifajue，zheiyi“zhihouni？”queshimeiyoutonghuagushizheimejiandanxingfu，shijideqingganbianshibixuwomenquweihubaoyang，bixuchixuxunzhaohunyinguanxiqiadangdejiaowangdefangfa。

 wanmeideaiqingcongbushigongzhuhewangzi24zhongtoudaizaiyiqi，zhishibaimawangziyuelaiyuechuse，xiaogongzhuyemomodifazhan，yuefashenaizheyigenanren，yueyaoxuehaojijihetafenshou。、ganqingzhongshibixujinpogande，wubirangnanshengyouyuqingguzongdejuede，neiyangnanshengcaihuibuduanduinitouru，gengzhenxi。

 nvxingzaiqingganliweizhunanshengzhuan，buguanghuibuliqinggan，haihuijixudangezishenfazhandejiyu，ruguoniyouzheganqingdeyucitongshibuduanfazhan，jiusuandaozuizhongmeiyouleganqing，yehuibianchenggengchusedezishen。

jiarubashijiandouxiaohaozainanshengdeshenshang，ruguonimeiyouleganqing，bianhuiyouyizhongbeiquanqiupaoxiadejuede。

 jian.aidandudelianaiguan：suiyi，gongping，zhongshi。jinyouxuehaofenshou，weichidandu，caikeyizaiganqingzhongweichizishendegexinghuahejiji，caikeyiyouzhegenghaodeaiqing，bianchengzuihaodeziji。

怎样“积极分手”？

 chenyixunzaigequgecizhongchangdao：wufadedaodeshizhongzaizaodong，beipianaidedoutuierqiuqici，nvxingzaiqingganlizenyangjijifenshou？

 dangnanrenzaixianliuyandeqingkuangxia，wuxumeiyicidoumiaohui，neibanzhinengrangnanshengganjuenihenmeiyouquweixing，lejieninengmiaohui，jiumeiyoulianluonidebulizhile，nvxingjiuyingdangduobashijianfangdaozishendedeshenshang。

xiaozai《qipashuo》shangyiqianshuoguo：“woxihuanni，danwogengaizuozheniyanqiandezishen”。

dajiachedinenggouzaiyouxiandeshijianliduyibenshu，kanyibudianying，xuexipeixunyixiezishenburongyidewupin，buduantigaoziji。

wangerdeshuo：shandaizijicaisuanshizhongshenglanmandezhujian。xuehuiduchu，bubixunzhaonanshengxindefangxiang，zhishirangzishenmangqilai。

 zaisiniannanshengdeqingkuangxianenggoufangdaoxinli，dengtazhangkoushuoxiangniannideshihou，niyejiunenggouduitashuo：yinweiwohensinianni，zainiqinfenaiwodeqingkuangxia，yinweiwozaiqiaoqiaodiduiniyouganjue。

 nvxingyidingyaoxuehaoguanlizijideqinggan，bukeyiyiweiditouru，duinanrenxihuanyoushifen，zhiyouzhuyaobiaoxianchusanfen。xuehao“fenshou”，shiduchouchulaiyidianshijianwan“xiaotui”，rangnanshengneixinyoukongdangdangdejuede。duanlian20tiandenanrenxinliyoushiruhedeni？weihetamenhuiduanlianni？weihenanrenhuixiangduanlianni？nvshengyaoruhechengfananshengdeduanlianxingweini？duanlianduojiuduifanghuixiangni？

 fenshouyexuyaotiaoxuanshidudefenshoushijian，yidingbukeyitiaoxuanzhengchaodeqingkuangxia，neibanbianhuibianwei“lengbaoli”。nenggoutiaoxuanpingwendepingdanqi，zaifenshoudeshijianli，zaicizengjinganqingdebulizhi。

 duanlian10tiandenanrenxinlishiruhede？fenshoudeshijianyexuyaoxuehaozishenzhangwo，fenshouhenjiu，bianshibuduanmoliannansheng，suoyourenbeimolianduoledoushihuifama。liangqingruoshizhangjiushi，youqizaimumuchaochao。yuefashenaizheyigenanren，yueyaoxuehaojijiheta“fenshou”。