henxihuandeyijuhua,shuo:“zhaogepengyouhuoshiairen,diyikanweiren,dierkanyouyisi。ruheduanshijiankanchunanrenrenpin?qianmianyizhongjinidiyulepingdandeshenghuoli80%dekunjing;houmianyizhongjinijiashanglepingdandeshenghuoli80%dekuaile。”duxinshuceshiduifangxihuannikaopuma?
buguannanshenghuoshinvxing,zuiyingdangyinrenzhuyidediqushiweiren,youqijiushinizhunbeiyulingyifangzhangqixingjiaowangde。
yiqieguanlian、qingganjiarubuyinweirenweizhichengdian,zairuhezouquanshizouxiapo,bingqietaobuguotongchudejieguo。yuelongbodoutaijiu,benshenyibianchengelong,
ruheduanshijiankanchunanrenrenpin?ruguonizongdianjizhequgenggai(shoufu)lingyifangdeqingkuangxia,qibuzhineiduinilaijiang,yeshiyigebeigenggai(beishoufu)dequanguocheng。
shijishangdadaolidoulejie,jinjinrenherenzhijianzaichujianhuanjie,quanbudezhenzhengdoushihuibeiyanzang,zhijiandaobicizhijiandexingfu,ciwairenyebushijueduilixingdexiaodongwu。
feichangrongyiyouyuqingganerqueshipanduannengli,yefeichangrongyiyouyuqingganerzishenxiangxiangyumengpian。
neimaweirenzheigedongxi,jiujingyingdangruhekan,ruhequfenbian?youhuoshizhenduiyigenvreneryan,zaishenmeshihou,zuinengkandechuyigenanrendeweiren?
1、在他最疲倦的情况下。
qianzhongshuxianshengzai《weicheng》liyoujiangdao:
“xiangwomenzheileilvyou,zuishiyandedaoyigerendepinxing。lvyoushizuiweilaodun,zuibubian,zuijiaorenzhenxiangbixiandeqingkuangxia。”
nanshengzuipijuandeqingkuangxia,baohandanyoubuxianyulvyou,youyuzaishifencaogaodeshiqinghuoxintaiyanqian,tashimeiyoubanfazaiquyanzangzishende,jinerzhuyaobiaoxianchuzishendezhenzhengweiren,yebidinghuiyongzishenzuizhenzhengdepinxing,laiyingdui、jiejueyugenggaishixiaqingkuang。
yincinixukantazaizuipijuandeqingkuangxia,daini、daifuwushengshiyizhongruhedexintai。
shifouyoujiqiejiangzishenxinlidebumanyixuanxiechuqu,erbuguanbugubierentihui,jiqishifouhuisunhaidaobieren,baohanyantanjuzhishangdewuruhedihui。
2、在他最狂躁的情况下。
shitajuedefahuonaonudeqingkuangxia,jiqinaixinbeihaoguangdeqingkuangxia,zaiqianshedaobenshenquanyideshieryanqian,tashibushiguodujiangzishendegerendeshibaizaishouwei。
baohanrangmoujianlingsui,mouyiyiwuweihaidaotayijingxiangyouzhemouleikaixin。
如同有句话说:
nibiekantahaodeqingkuangxiaduininyouduomehao,erxukantabutaihaodeqingkuangxia,duininyouduohuai。
naonuhuirangyigerenshiqulizhi,xiediaoyanzang,jinerxianxianchuzishenzuizhenzhengdeyimian,yaoxiangkandechuyigenanrendezhenzhengweiren,quanyishizuihaoshideyinyangjing。quanyibuyidingbianshiqian,zhishiyiqieduitayouyideshier,baohanyouyitadexiangyou,youyitadezisi。
yidannongqiaochengzhuole,tasuozhuyaobiaoxianchuqudemoyang,chukaishibaotiaoruleide,haijiazazhexintaishangdejingong。
3、在他讲前男友的情况下。
wulunyinweishenmeheqiannanyoufenli,zuishaobukeyifoudingliangrenzhenxinshiyicengjingaiguodekeguanshishi,yincizhihou,yemeibiyaozaishenhousiwujidanwumieqiannanyou,laitaozaizhidegaoxing。
yincizainanshengjiangqiannanyoudeqingkuangxia,shizuikejianweirendeqingkuangxia。
zhongshigushidekaishi,yezhongshixiaogushidewanbi,sheiyemeibiyaozaishenhouwumieshei、dihuishei。jiaruqueshineiyangganle,zugoubiaomingtashiyigeweilegenghaodizuodaomudierbuguyiqiederen,zaitayanzhongsheidounenggoufangqi,laimanzuzishendequanyi。
yibanzheiyangderen,yeshishanyutaobizerende,yagenjiukanbujianzishenbixufazhandeyibufen。
jiaruniqutiaoxuanairen,yidingyidingyaoraokaizheileiren,shizhongyizishenweiguanlizhongxindeyucitongshi,haixinxiongxiazhaixiaijihen。
4、在他对弱小的情况下
kantazaishehuifazhanshangdeyixieruoshirenqunyanqian,baohannianlaotiruo,shizongbaichengyifuzhigaoqiang,zihaoganshizudemoyang,huoshinengpojulianminzhixin,jiqitongqingzhiqingde。
yigerennenggoumeiyouliyirenzhixindebuqiuhuibao,danshizainianlaotiruoyanqian,zuishaoyingdangyouzhishaodelianmin。
yidanjinyouzhigaoqiyangdexintai,qishizhitongchangshihenli、lengdanhejueqingde,gensheihaodeqingkuangxiatebiehao,keruguobuhaole,shenmeshiqingtadouzuodechuqu,haibiranyaobarenpengdaonitan。wulunneishifoulingyifangdewuyizhiju,jinjinzishenzhuguanyishidijuede。
yucitongshibanshidoumeiyoudaodedixian,jiazhiguannianyebukeyiguanshudaotanaxie。guigenjiedi,zhikanzheniduitashifouyouyunyongshiyongjiazhi,xinliquefaleyizhongjijizhudongshenxinjiankangdexinxin。
5、看他对爸爸妈妈的心态。
讲一个真正的事例。
yigenandejiazhongyoujishi,yinciqingshenpangpenyoulaibangzhu,linjinxiawushi,mamazouhuilaijiaodaiyiju,ganwanyaobapenyoujiedaihao。jieguotalikeyineileiyouqixionghan、manbujiangli、yanjuan、qiangdadexintaizhiyimama:“nandaoshuowoyebuzhidaoma?”
shenpangdepenyouzhihoucaizhangwodao,tazaijialiduibabamamayizhiquanshineiyangdexintai,keshizaiwaimiandequeyigeshizudelaoshiren。
daneiyihou,shenbianrendoubuyuanyizaiyutajiaowangle,youyigepenyoushuoshuohuahenjishi:
“nigenzishendebabamamadoumeishenme,gendajiayounengyounaxie?”duxinshuceshiduifangxihuannikaopuma?
yincikantaduibabamamadexintai,jiunenglejietashifouyigeyouxinhuaiganenderen,babamamaduininyouneimedadeyangyuen,niyebuxinhuaiganen,shenpangpenyouduinizaihao,nandaoshuohaibideguofumudeenqingma?
yigebumingbaiganenderen,zhinengbatarendetourudangyingdang,naizhishiyigeshizhongdoutianbumanyidewudishentan,nongfuyushedexiaogushi。dangran,xinhuaiganenbingbushimabaonan。
zhishangbianshihuizongdewudian,zuinengkandechuyigenanrendeweiren。
shijishangweirenzheigedongxi,shinengkezaiyanzhongde,xingqingxiezailianbu,shenghuoxiguanchengxianyushenxing。xuduoqingkuangxiajinjinwomenzijiguannianbushang,zhenzhenzhengzhengyoujingyanderen,chedinenggougenjudajiadeyantanjuzhi,likefenbianchudajiadeweiren。duxinshuceshiduifangxihuannikaopuma?
始终都需要还记得。
dajiadexingwei,yantanjuzhizugouzhengshiwomendoushiyigeshenmeyangderen,weirenjiaojirendeyinxiang,shixinniangenggaibushangde。
ruheduanshijiankanchunanrenrenpin?guanjiandianjianhuida,guanjiandianshizuizhenzhengdehuida。ciwaiyeyouyidian,nenggougenjutadeweixinpengyouquanqufenbianyigenanrendezhenzhengweiren,zhengsuoweiwuyileiju、renyiqunfen。
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