高情商男人的撩妹技巧，男生跟女孩子聊天的套路

 dajiadoulejie，nvxingyibandoujiaoweixiaihuaxinnanren，suhuashuodehao“nanrenbuhuai，nvxingbuxihuan”，neiweishenmenvshengdoujiaoweixiaihuaxinnanrenni？nanshenggennvhaiziliaotiandetaoluyounaxie？huaxinnanrenyu“shizairen”youshenmebutongni？zenmegennvshengliaotian？

 youyuhuaxinnanrenyibanhuiyonggeshigeyangdefangfaqushengchanzhizaoyiwaijingxi、goujianlanman，huirangnvhaishizhongchuyuyigejiaoweijidongdeqingkuang，xintaiyihuierdaqi、yihuierdaluo、yihuierjingya、yihuierxiuse。

 er“shizairen”yizhibagennvhaijiaowangdefenweigaodeyouqinankan，rangnvhaiganjuemeishenmekuaile，gennizaiyiqizhongjiupingdanerwuwei。

dajiachangchangshuodaopaoniu，shijishangpaoniudeshuodaoditiaoqinvhaidexintai。

neixiamian，jiujidahuoergongxiangyixieliaomeitaolu：

一、生产制造心态差距

 nanshenggennvhaiziliaotiandetaoluyounaxie？shijishangzaimeiyigenvshengdeyanli，youerdianshinanyidichude，“yiwaijingxi”he“lanman”。erzheilianggecidebenzhishizhibianshi“shengchanzhizaoxintaichaju”。zhengsuoweibantuibanjiu，xianyanhoula。quanshiweilegenghaodishengchanzhizaoxintaidechaju，caikeyishikedebawonvhaidexintai，neiyangcaikeyirangtaduiniyinxiangshenke，shijianjiulecaihuiduinizaochenghaogandu。

二、抑制自身的需求感

 zenmegennvshengliaotian？wulunniduiyigenvshengyouduoxihuan，jiusuanniduitadeaidouaidaoshenchuneixinshenchu，yebubimeitiandenianzheta。qiangliaoburongyiyoushijixiaoguo，zheihuikanqilainihenmeiyoushiyongjiazhi。

 jiaruyigenvshengbeinixiyinzhudao，tahuiduinideyixiegerenxingweizuochuhuifu，dajiabiancheng“xingquaihaozhibiaozhi”，jiarutameiyouzheiyixingquaihaozhibiaozhi，bubichangshiquyongyixiexiangqingchunouxiangjulibiandetingnidezhaoshu，yongshuobailede“zhenxinshiyi”quchudongta。nanshenggennvhaiziliaotiandetaoluyounaxie？

shishishangqingchunouxiangjulidezhaoshuzaixianshishenghuozhongyidianyebutaihaoyong。

 meirimeishierjiugennvshengshuo“zaoshanghao”“wananhaomeng”naizhibinaolinghaianshi，shifoudelaiyigeshengsedeyaoyue“xiabanleyiqichigefan”“mingriyeliyiqiqukankandianying”youshinvhaihuijuenideyuanyinjinjinyigetuocibale。

zhenzhenzhengzhengdeyuangujiushiniduitadeyouhuolihaihaibugou，huoshibasixufangdaozaiwoshiyongjiazhidejibenjiansheshangba。

三、不必思维逻辑去和女孩聊天

 nvshideluojisiweiyibanshijiaoweilixingde，biaodaxingshiyeshipianzhongyuqingxubuwendingde。xianliaodeqingkuangxiayeshisuiqingxu、yixiangtiankaide，xiangqiliaoshenmejiuliaoshenme，jiaoweixiaikaixindefenwei。

 nanshideluojisiweishipianzhongyukeguande，biaodaxingshiyepianzhongyu“jiejuekunnan”。xianliaodeqingkuangxiayeshijiandande、daibande，baxianliaodangzuowendashidehudongjiaoliu，kuzaowuwei。

 yincizaiyixiemeishenmehenvhailiaotiangongzuojingyandexinshoumen，feichangrongyijiubatianliaosile，tamenyizhibanvhaichangshuodehuadangzuogezhonggeyangnanti，renweizhixuzishenjiejuelezheigewenti，jiunengdedaonvhaidehaogandu。yincixianliaoshifenkeguan，liejugezhonggeyangnantidejiejuefangan。yizhiyubaliangrendexianliaofenweiliaodaoquefahuolide，fenhaomeiyouyidiankaixindeqingkuang。

四、有主见和适度的强悍

 nvhaizainannvjiaowangdequanguochengzhong，guangfanshijiaoweimiantiande，qidainanhaizikeyilingzhezishen，bingbiaoshunanhaizideniantouhegaiyoudexintai。zhongjiuzuoweiyigelaoshiji，jiusuanshinvhaizaoyijinrucheneile，nidebawohaoqichefangxiangpan。meizhujianzuibendegerenxingweishisha？bianshixiangkaizhanqinmiwujiangerenxingweiyiqiandouxuyaoxianzhengqiunvhaideyuanyi。

例如：

“我能牵你的手吗”

“我能亲你不”

“womenqujiudiancantinghaome”

niyaoxiangnvshengzenmehuiyingni

“haoya，kuaidianer，wohaidenghaozhangshijianle”

 jiaruniwenyigenvsheng“wonengqinnibu？”nvhai90%gailvhuiyingnideshi“buyuan。”youyunvhaidouxiangweichimiantian，neiyangburongyishiniganjuetasuiyi。yaoxiangwenyigenvsheng，lijiaijintadeliankongqingshenzhushitawumiaozuoyou，jiarutameiyoutaobidenidehua，nilijiwenshanglaijiuokle。

 zenmegennvshengliaotian？meiyigerenneixindouyongyouduiganqingzuixingfudechunzhenhexiangxiang，meiyigenanshengneixinyedoushiyoudichendechongdong。wojiangzheizhongjiaodaoni，shiqidaininyoujiyutiaoxuanshigaishifangchulaihuoshiyizhizishendechongdong，erbushizhiyouqianxinwankuderenshou。