shenmeshiciweifaze?zhuyaoshizhirenjijiaowangzhongde“xintaijulixiaoying”,qiangdiaodejiushirenjijiaowangzhongde“xintaijulixiaoying”。
一、什么是刺猬法则
suoweide“ciweifaze”,yejiushiciweixiaoying,laizishubenhuadezhexuezhuzuo,taqiangdiaodeshirenjijiaowangzhongde“xintaijulixiaoying”。
weileyanjiuciweizaihanlengdongtiandeshenghuoxixing,shengwuxuejiazuolegeshiyan:bashijizhiciweifangdaohuwaidekongdishang。zheixieciweibeidongdefadou,weilequnuantamenjinjindikaozaiyiqi,erxianghukaolongzhihou,youyinrenshoubulebicishenshangdezhangci,henkuaijiuyouyaogezifenkai。keshitianqishizaitailengle,tamenyoukaozaiyiqiqunuan。
ranerkaozaiyiqishidecitongshitamenbudebuzaiyicifenkai。aidetaijin,shenshanghuibeicitong;lidetaiyuan,youdongdenanshou。jiuzheiyangfanfanfufudifenleyouju,juleyoufen,buduandizaishoudongyushoucizhijianzhengzha。zuihou,ciweimenzhongyuzhaodaoleyigeheshidejuli,jikeyixianghuqunuan,youbuzhiyubeibicicishang。
yunyongdaoguanlishijianzhong,jiushilingdaozheruguoyaogaohaogongzuo,yinggaihexiashubaochiqinmideguanxi,danshizhei“qinmiyoujian”deguanxi,shiyizhongbuyuanbujindeqiadangdehezuoguanxi。
1、yuxiashubaochixintaijuli
tongguoduiciweifazedeyanjiu,guanlixintaixuezhuanjiarenwei:lingdaozheyinggaiyuxiashubaochimiqiedeguanxi,danzheishizhi“qinmiyoujian”deguanxi。weishenmeni?yinweiruguolingdaozheyuxiashuqinmiwujiandixiangchu,rongyidaozhibicibufen、chengxiongdaodi,zaigongzuozhongsangshiyuanze。yinci,lingdaozheyingyuxiashubaochixintaijuli,jiyaobiaoxianchuqinheli,yeyaojirenjingweigan。
2、qiaoyong“kongjianqinfan”
shishishang,xianshishenghuozhong,renyurenzhijianruguoxiangbaochihexiexiangchu,yeyaobaochiyidingdekongjianjuli。yibanlaishuo,moshengrenzhijianhuibaochiyimiyishangdekongjianjuli,zheiyangcaihuirangbicideganjuehaoyidian。kaodetaijin,rongyijibicizaochengweixie,zheizhongxianxiangzaixintaixueshangjiao“kongjianqinfan”。
3、bawoqiadangdeshijianjuli
ciweixiaoyinggaosuwomen,baochishidangdejuli,cainengjihuxiangqunuan,youbuzhiyucishangduifang,zheilidejulidangranyebaokuoshijianjuli。meigerendouyoushuyuzijideshijian,ruguowuduanzhanyongbierendeshijian,yingxiangbierenzhengchangdeshenghuo,shiduibierendeyizhongbuzunzhong,haihuiyingxiangnimendeganqing。biru,zaiduixiashuyunyongkongjianqinfandeshihou,ruguoqinfanshijiantaizhang,huirangxiashuchanshengyanfanxintai。yinweizongyouyigerenzaishenbian,huiyingxiangxiashuzhengchangdegongzuo,zheiduitigaogongzuoxiaolvbuli。
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