想要拥有真心朋友，先学会怎么了解一个人

 xiaoshihoujingchangtingzhangbeimenshuoyijuhua：renyibeizinandejiaoyilianggezhenxinpengyou。womenyurenjiaowang，zenmelejieyigerenni？zheilitigongyixiezenmejiaopengyoudefangfahejiedudefangshi。dangjingliguogengduoshiqingzhihou，yuelaiyuefaxianzheijuhuayoudaoli，yexurendoushigududeba，hennanxiangbierenzhenzhengchangkaixinfei。youhuoxu，zenmejiaopengyou，yaoshouxianzijidechengweizhideshenjiaoderen，zheiyangnicaiyoujihuijiaodaogengduodezhenxinpengyou。

一、看穿着

zenmelejieyigeren？shouxiandangranjiushikandaotawaizaidexingxianghechuanzhedaban。

 shuodaoxingxiang，zheigeqishishiyouxinxide，zhibuguotashiyizhongzhuanmendexinxi，yibanrenburongyizhangwo，womenjiubuzuotaolun，jiushishuorendemianxiang、tixiang、guxiang，doudaizhetadeshengmingxinxi。

womentaolundeshirichangdechuanzhedabandaichulaizheigerendeshengmingxinxi。

 biruyigereqingsuihederen，womenxianjiangnvxing，tadefuzhuangtongchangdoushiqianyansede，nengbiaoxianchubijiaoyangguang，bijiaosuihe，zheimeyizhongfuzhuangdeyanse。fuzhuangdekuanshiyexiangduilaishuoxiediaohekuansong，bushihenyouyueshudezhuangtai，zheishizheileidenvxing。

jiasheyigenvxingbijiaoyanjin，bijiaoxixin，tadeyanse，douhuipianyulengdiao，tadefuzhuangdapeiyebijiaojincouheyanjin。

二、看言谈举止

 biruzaiyigegongzhongchanghe，youderenhuifeichangrechen，tajiupadajialengchang，tajiuyouyizhongyuwang，xiangshichangmianhuoyueqilai，huozhetaquzhudaozheigechangmian。

 zheizhongrentongchangyouliangzhongleixing，yizhongshiqueshiyouzheiyangyizhongxiediaoguanlinengli，youzheiyangyizhongqingxiang。lingwaiyizhongjiushixiangduilaishuobijiaowaixiang，yemeishenmexinji，kaolvwentiyebuhuitaixizhi。

 yinweizaiyigehensuiyidegongzhongchangheli，ruguoshiyigehenyouxinjiderende，tashouxianshiquguancha，tabuhuixianbiaotai，dangtabazhouweidehuanjinggaoqingchu，bameigerendejibenqingkuangzuolepanduanzhihou，tacainenggouyouzhenduixingdequbiaodashenme，huozhezuoshenme。zheiyangyizhongren，nijiukeyizhidao，tashibijiaoyouneixiu，kaolvwentibijiaotiaolihua。

 youderentaxihuandeshixianfazhiren，yiherenjiechujiuzhishuxiongyi，kouwuzhelan。youderenjiuyidingyaobaduifangdeqingkuanggaoqingchu，youzhenduixingdequbiaodahuozhezuoyixieshiqing，zheizhongrendexiangfashijishangshiheduifangmeiyouguanxideshiqing，tabuquzuo，huozheyouxiehuabuqushuo，zheiyangderenshixiangduilaishuobijiaozixiheyanjinderen。

 tongyangzuoshiqing，houyizhongrenzuoshichenggongdejilvfeichangda，yinweitameizuoyijianshiqingdeshihou，tazaizhiqiandouyaoquzixidesikao。

 erqianyizhongren，bijiaosuihe，bijiaoyuanyiqubiaodayijianhezijidereqingderen，tamenzuoshijiuwangwangqishidongzuokuai，shibaideyekuai，tongshiyoudeshihouyehoujingbuzu。zheixiedoushiyigerenzaijierendaiwudeguochengzhong，suodailaidexinxi。