主动帮助别人的人才能真正拥有好的人脉

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一、主动帮助别人的好处有哪些

 1、jihuishiliujiyouzhunbeideren，ruguoniyizhichuyubeidongzhuangtaijiuhenyoukenengcuoguojihui，dangnizhudongzhaobierendeshihou，xiayicipengyouyoushenmexuyaojiuhuihenrongyixiangqini，zheiyangnimenzhijiandeguanxijiuhuizhankai。

 2、ruguoyizhidoushipengyouzaizhaoni，nizhishibeidongdejieshouhuirangtarenjuedenihengaoleng，hennanjiejin。dangnizhudongkaishihepengyoudazhaohu，bangzhupengyoudeshihou，pengyouhuitihuidaonidereqing，ziranjiuhuixihuanhenijiaopengyou。

二、为什么大多数人不愿意主动帮助别人

1、缺乏主动意识

 henduorenjiguanxibuhaoderentamenzaiherenjiaowangdeguochengzhongshiquefazhudongyishide，bunengfaxianbierendexuqiu，dangbierenshenchukunjingdeshihoutamenbuzhidao，suoyizaishenghuozhongyaoyouyishidepeiyangzijidezhudongxing，faxianbierendexuqiu。neimezenmecainengfaxianbierendexuqiuni？zheijiuxuyaowomenpingshichouchuyibufenjingliguanchabieren。womenkenengmeiyoubanfagujisuoyouren，danshiwomenzhouweiderenjuliwomenzuijin，zaigongzuohuozhexuexijianxikanyiyan，liaoshangyiliangju，tadexinqing、jingshenzhuangtaijiunengbeichajue。

2、taizaiyibierendepingjia

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3、danxinzijidebangzhushiduoyude

 danxinbierenhuijujuezijidebangzhu，rangzijihenmeimianzi。yibanqingkuangxiaruguozheigerenzhendexuyaobangzhu，tashibuhuijujuewomende，danshiruguotajujuele，womenyaofenqingchutajujuedeshiwomenbangzhudezheigedongzuo，haishijujuewomenzheigeren。ruguoshitajujuewomenbangzhudezheigedongzuo，zheijiushuomingtashikeyigaodingzheigexianzaimianlindekunnande，danshiwomenfachudezheigeyoushandexinhaotashijieshoude。haiyouyizhongqingkuangshitajujuewomenzheigeren，zheiyangjiunengfanyingchuwomenhetadeguanxishiyouwentide。

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