与女生聊天的话题,和女生聊天话题大全

 yunvshengliaotianhuatidaquandaodishisha？yunvshengliaotiandehuati,weiheyixienanshengyizhinenggennvxingshuoshuoxiaoxiao、gaotankuolun，eryouderenqueruhedoumeifajifalingyifangdexingqu，naizhiyagenbuqingchushuoqixienaxie？

 meiyoucuo，xuduonanrenzai「shuo」zheiyiyibufenqueshishangxutisheng。yijuguancha，youderenxiantianxingbiaozhunjinguanbingbushizuijia，danshigenjujingzhandeyuyanfangfa，tamenfandaogengkeyibuhuonvrenxin。xiangxinniyidingyecengqinyankandaoxiangjindeqingkuangchansheng。

 helanshengrenfuertaishuoguo：「bangwoshifenzhong，wozhikaozheizhangkaizuibajiunengshuodongyiqienvxing。」ziran，womenwufapanduantamenzhongxianbaidechengfenyouduoshao，danshiwomenkeyidandatuiduan，nanshengdezuichunhaoxiangfazhanqianliwuxian。

 nantishi，yunvshengliaotianhuatidaquan，huijianghuadenanshengjiujingjuyouneixietexing？shishangzhitianwen、xiazhizirandilima？shihuayanqiaoyu、youguaiyoupianma？shizhuangfengmaisha，zhuanzougaoxiaoyoumoxianluma？huoshisuoxingdangge「zuizhongchengdeguanzhong」，suishijiyukuanweiyujili？

交谈大神必不可少的3大能力素质：倾听提问讲故事

 zuixian，niwubixuehao「qingting」degongzuonengli。nvxinghenbuxihuanzheixiekankanertan、ziwopengzhang、qieduantarenjianghua、congtouzhiweizhitujiangzishendenansheng。youyuzainvxinglaikan，zheizuiduoshiyizhongmeiyouanquangandezhuyaobiaoxian，yaoburanbianshixiangzhe：「nidaodixiangzhengshinaxiela？」

 xinshiqidenvshenghenconghui。tamenkanguoduoyetingguoduo，nishuoleshenmehua，naergaidashenmezhekouyouhui，tixianchunishishenmeyangderen，tamendaduoshuxinzhongyoushu。zhuigenjiudi，xuduonvxingzaojiufazhanqushichuguishuyuzigedeyitaobiaozhunqupingdingnanshengdezhenjia。

 qudechenggongdegoutongjiaoliushishuangbiande。tebieshizaidangnvxingkenzhangkoushi，nizuihaozhangkaierduolimianyongxinting。nvxingkenduinijianghuabuyidingyiweizheduiniyouganjue，danshizhishaonizaoyirangtazaochengjibende「xinlai」。dangnanrenhenvrendexiyinzhuchuangjianzaixinlaidefuwupingtaishang，zheiyiduanguanliancaisuanlaogu。

 ziran，qingtingdeshouyaomudizhiyibianshi：shoujixinxineirong。ninenglijicongnvxingzuizhonghuozhi：taqipannaxie、fangannaxie、zaihunaxie，jiqitaduishierdeguannianyujiazhiguannian。zenmezuoni？zhongyaojiuqujueyuyingyongchangkaishideqingkuangquzhengqueyindaonvxingjianghua。

 julishuoming，youshihouhuituranzhengjingqilai：「nijuedegongzuozhongduinieryanzuigaodetiaozhanzainaer？」huozhe「nijuedetanyiduanqingganzuizhongyaodeshinaxie？」huozhe「xiangyaozhidaoniduirenshengdaoludeguandian。nirenweirendeyishengyingdangxunqiunaxie？

 zheijiushishuobaile「tiwen」degongzuonengli。nikankan，qudechenggongdezhuchiren，quanshitiwentidashen。womingbai，shangbianneixienantizhakanzhixiahenyansurenzhen，danshitangruonengzaihelidefenweixiajinru，haowuyiwenyeyouchuhuyiliaodeshijixiaoguo。

 chukaishoujixinxineirong，tiwenyucitongshiyeshishengchanzhizaohuatitaolun、chixuhuatitaolundezhongyaofangfa。xuduolaogongdoudanyoumeiyouhuatikeliao，jiejuefangfabianshixianghupeihelingmindedongchali，yunyong「nanti」dexingshiquzhengqueyindaogoutongjiaoliudefangwei。

 birushuo，jiandaonvhaishoulitizhehuopokeaidepinpaibao，niyejiunenggouhenkendingdepianxiangta：「nalimaide？」dangtahuiyingshuo，shizaiwangluopaimaibiaozhudaodebaoxiang，niyejiunenggoujinru「hulianwang」zheiyizhutifengge，congjingpaikuailedaohulianwangganqing，jiangbuwandezhuti。

 zongdelaishuo，worenweiliaoshenmehuatitaolundaoshicizhi，zhenzhenzhengzhengdezhongdianzaiyu「fenwei」。juedaduoshudeqingkuangxia，wobuxiangyouyijuxianxinghuatitaolun，youyuxiwanggoujiandefenweifeichangjiandan，bianshirangnvrenjuedegenwoxianliaohenshufu、henmeiyoubushigan。

 danshinvrenyaodebuzhishifenwei，tamengengqidaipengdaokeyijiqitamenxinxudenansheng。yejiushishuo，tangruonengshidufabuniduishierdutedekanfa，huozhedianchuweicengbeijuechadexiweizhichu，bingyixiangjin「jianggushi」dejuqingzuoxushu，nijiangshitazaochengshiwuqianlidezaodong。

下边是还可以推动婚姻关系的话题讨论：

 1、nidanrenzuoshenmegongzuo？（weishenmexihuanzheiyigongzuozhong？zhizhongyounaxiejiaodatiaozhan？youshenmejiaodacuobai？zhenduigongzuozhong、jianglaiyounaxieqidai？）

2、zhiqijinweizhi，richangshenghuoyounaxiezhonglinzaojiu？（younaxiezhongtedacuobai？）

3、zuireaishenme？（weishenmeyouxingquaihao）

4、<jinqi>shangnianyounaxieyinxiangshenkededaxishi？（huobeijudeshini？）

5、yonggongzuozhong，nihuizuoshenmeshi？

6、nixiaizenyangxiuxiandujia？

7、xiangchumingma？（weihe）

8、jiaruninyouyibaiwan，huiruheshiyong？

9、jiazhongli，nicongchushengdaoxianzaidechengzhangguocheng，qingkuangzenyang？

10、chengzhangguochengli，niyoushenmeyangdegexinghuayoushi？（shifouyoudanxindequexian？）

11、niqidaifazhanqushichuzenyangdeguanlian？

12、nilanmanma？（zenyanglanman？）

13、nijuedenan、nvyounaxiebutongdian？

14、shashihuirangrenkaixin？

15、shashishinibeishang？

16、ershi，niqidaizhangdayihouganshenme？

17、nirenwei，niyantarenyoushenmebuyiyang？

18、nijianxinyoushenlingma？（duishenlingyounaxieguandian？）

19、zaishenmefanchouli，nirenweizishendexingweiduigenggaishehuifazhanyouyidingdeweihai？

20、nirenwei，xianjieduanshehuifazhanyounaxieguanjianshiqing？（henyoukenengdehua，ninengyounaxiexingdong？）

 yishangdehuatitaolun，youyixiehaoxiangguoduoshejidaogerennanti，youqishiduidiyiciyuehuiderenlaijiang，keshiqingjiwang，feichangshaoyouxierenbuguanzhuzishen，zhixubingbushisibanbanxiangdiaoyanhujiyiyangzhiyilingyifang，sheidoushanyutantaozishendenanti。

bingqieyousangecengmiandehuatitaolunyiqiechangsuoquanshikeyiyongdebianshi：shicai、jiazhong、hezhexuesixiang。

 dayueshizhongguodexisu，diyiciyouhuidezhurengonggaishinanxing，nvxingjiaoweiweiwanxie。nanxingyingjijitixienantizaochengtanxing。biciyaofangzhizhangqidegaliao。youhuishidehuatitaolun，zuihaoshifenweinengkaixindehuatitaolun，jiaotandexinxiguidingjiandanpubian，tichuwentiyaoduan，yaoshilingyifangshanyuhuiying，yekeyihuiying。nenggoutangongzuozhongxuexipeixun，gerenaihao，shenghuosuoshi，bubishilingyifangmangranbuzhierjuedeganga，gengbubiwenyixieshilingyifangnanyuqichidenanti。ruyulingyifangchenmowufanying，yingdangkuaisuhuanyigehuatitaolun。

 shuangfangdoukeyiyoumudedizuoxiejiandanziwojieshao，baohanzishenjiatingzhuyaochengyuanyugerenxingquaihao，zhuanzhangdeng，danqiewuziwochuixu。qiebukerangtazaidiyiciyouhuishishafengjing。cuhuagengbukeyijiang，buran，jiangbeikanzuoshiduilingyifangdebuzhongshi，buwenming，meilimao。

 youhuishiyidingyaoweichigaoxing，kaixindexinqinghexinqing，youyuyouhuibingbushishouke，bubipipinggengwuxuduirengetezhiyouyidingdeganhua，yincihuatitaolunyidingyaoqingqingsongsong。

 jiarutaxiaidafayilun，niyebubiqieduantadetaolun。hebuguangzuoyigezhongchengdeguanzhong。yucitongshinizijiyebuyaoshuoyixiexueshuyanjiudehuatitaolun。

 youhuishi，huatitaolunzuihaoqucunyuzhoubianchangchangchanshengdeshiqing，pirushuodianshilanmu，baokanshehuifazhanbandenglingyudehuatitaolun，huozhexiangguangequ，yingyongzishenshenpangkeaixiaodongwuxiangmao、gou、guanshangyu、youge、niaoeryilei，youyutanxieqingqingsongsongyouqudewenti，gengkelajinnimenshengshudejianju。

第一招：紧紧围绕工作追求完美，找寻话题讨论的“亮点”

 gongzuoshiyigerenlishenchushideyagen。yiqieyigeduigongzuoqinfenxuexi，duirenshengzhuiqiubudaidenianqingren，yidanherenshuoqigongzuozhong、renshengdaolulingyudehuatitaolun，bianhuishencaifeiyangqilai。yinerjinzhuatazaizheixiefangmiandeyixie“liangdian”qufajuehuatitaolun，nimenyidingshangtanderuhuorutu。

 suxinshiyigezerenxinqiangdenvsheng，dantabuaishuohua，youbudangrenjijiaowang，yinerershihaojideguniangle，qijin“xiaoguzijuzhuhuanjingduwulang”。yitian，pengyouweitajiangjieleyimingjingyuanlimingshuguang。diyicijianmian，jieshaorenkekeqiqiyiyangjiangleliangsanjuhoujiulikaile。shengyutamenliangsheiyebuhangsheng，shenxianlenankandechujing。

 suxinyijianzheichangjingyouyixiezaogao，linweibuluan，simanbuzaihudishuo：“nimendangjingchadegongzuozhongjiankubuyongshuo，bingqieshishikekedoumianduizheshengmingweixie，jiazhong、jiarenyegensuishoutuolei，pingchangrenqueshiwufajiena。”limingshuguangyiting，jile，mashangjiedaosuxindehuatou，conggongzuoyulixiang、renshengdaoluyuzhuiqiuwanmei、wusifengxianyusuoyaodengcengmianlunshulezishensuodanrendejiaosedezhongdahezihao。

 2geduozhongtoudeyouhuizaibicizhijiandekankanertanzhongbujingyijianguoqu。mole，suxinxianglimingshuguangsongshangmaimaihanqingdeyixiao。suxinzaiyulimingshuguangdiyiciyouhuide“weinanshike”，jinzhualingyifangaizuohaobenzhigongzuozheiyiliangdianzhaoxunhuatitaolun，fangfokanqilai“wuyijian”，qishishiyouyixiangtapaochuqu“jiazhongyugongzuoshuguanjian”dechuti，laidiaochataduigongzuoyushenghuodezhuiqiuwanmei，budanhelidijiejuelediyicijianmianmeiyouhuashuodenandian，bingqiezuodaoletigaobicizhijianzhangwo、goutongsixiangdemudi。

第二招：紧紧围绕个人爱好，找寻话题讨论的“共鸣”

 meiyigerendouhuiyouzishendegerenaihao，jibianyigezaibushanyancideren，zhixuherenshuoqitadegerenaihao，tayehuilingyalichi。shubuzhi，diyicijianmian，nihaibuzhidaotadexingquaihaoaihaoshishenme，zheigaizenmeban？meishier，hebuxiantanyitannizijidegerenaihao，zailaiyigekaichengbugong，suihouzaibicizhijiandegerenaihaolixunzhaogongming，weicitishengrenshihetuijinqinggan。

 ayueshigenjubaokanshangdezhenghunxinxilejieatongde。diyicijianmianlianggerendoujuedebudazizai。tamenxiangbeitaiciyiyangjinjinweiraofengchuiyudariyuejianyigoutongjiaoliuleyihuier，bianmeihuale。jianmoleyihuier，ayuelingjiyidong，jijijianyi：“womenqukalaok，ruhe？”“kalaok？”atongyouyudixunwenleyiju。“duia，zuozhekazuoli，yibianpinweizhedancha、xianmokafeidefangxiang，yibiantingzhekanggaihaofanghuoqingshenchanmianfeicedegequ，renshengdaoludekunaoyoulv、gongzuozhongdejiaolvbuanpijuandousiyilvqingyansuifengerqu，suizhenidejiangshiqingqingsongsong、youxian、kaixin。”ayuedunledun，bingqingshendiningwangatong，“nijuededuibudui？”“wojinguanbingbudazhongaichangge，dantinglenideyifanjujuchuoxinchanshu，woganjuedaogequduishenghuodegulihenengliang。

 guaibudeyueduzhemenzhizewodezuopinqianqueyizhongreqingli。”“nishishuo，nixiainianshuchuangzuoma？zheiqingganhao，gequyuchuangzuo、wenhuayishuyuzaoxingyishu，benbianshiyige‘dajiazu’ma。”zaiayueyuatongjiaotanbulvweijianshi，conghuideayuezhaoxunjihuibazijidegerenaihaoxianjiangjiejiatong，jiecijihuijiechuanchutadegerenaihaosuoshu。dangtadexingquyuatongdegerenaihaofashengbeilishi，tazaiducongminglinglidibabicizhijiangerenaihaokuozhangdaoyigekuankuodexingye，jinerxunzhaodao“yigedajiazu”degongming。

第三招：紧紧围绕自然环境气氛，找寻话题讨论的“核心点”

 ziranhuanjingqifenshiyigexuankuzhuanbian、suijixingjiqiangeryouyouzhechongzuhanyidehuatitaolun。tabingbushiniqingwoyuanyiyangdefenghuaxueyue、jiaorouzaozuo，zhishigenjupaquzheileihuatitaoluntixianleyigerendesixiangyishi、pinxingconghui、weirenchushidenglingyudechengduhepinwei。

 nenggouneiyangshuo，yigeshanyuguanchashiqing、fenxiwenti、jiejuefenqideren，zhixubazhaoxunhuatitaolundehexindianfangdaoziranhuanjingqifenshang，huatitaolunbianhuiquzhibujieyongzhibujin。

 zaijiangzheyidai，xiangqinyuehuiyounanxingdaonvxingjiazhongdefengsuxiguan。zheiyitian，yiqunzhizouqinrenyuchunhuizaijialiduliyouhui。chunhuizourujiamenkou，qingyidipingjiazhetadejia，danshi，yiqunshiyigedianxingxingdechuantongneixiangxingdenvsheng，dengchunhuijiangwanle，meijianghuachaerjiehao。

 jiaotanjiangchibuxia，quanbuwuzijiujinyoudianshili《haizhugege》jijizhazhadexiangsheng，lianggerendoujingjingdekanxianshiping，sheidoumeiyouzaijianghua。zheishihou，yiqundeneixinzhixinji。shubuzhi，tayouqueshiqianquezhenglianyingshichunhuidedanliang，bianyingduizhedianshijinannanziyuyiyangshuo：“rujindianshijiemufengfuduocaile，fanerquefalejidongrenxindezongyijiemu。nikankanzheiyibu《haizhugege》ba，quanbugushiqingjiechaochaonaonao，meiyouyidianpinwei，doumeiyoushiduoshaoxianshiyiyi。”“bingbushima，nikankanneiyanzi……”

 shiqudehuatitaolunyixiazijifalechunhuidetanxing。“niduifuertaiduziyirendanfujieyujiuyanzi、ziweihuazhizuixingruhekan？”“wohenqinpeifuertaiweirenzhengzhigangzhengbua，chubaoanliang，neiyangdepengyoumenrujinzhenshitaishaole……”

 yiqunzaidiyiciyuchunhuijiaotanfashengkunnanshi，yindizhiyi，bawentidehexindianfangdaozaixianbofangdedianshilanmushang，lingrentingqilaijuededangran、suibian、qingqingsongsong，yucitongshitashanzhangyunyonghuatitaolunxunzhaobixurenshidewupin，biaocengshangshitingchunhuiduifuertaiweirenchushidedianping，qishishidiaochachunhuizijiweirenchushidebiaozhunheshuizhun。

第四招：紧紧围绕社会发展，找寻话题讨论的“兴奋之处”.

 shehuifazhanyingyoujinyou，nizairichangshenghuozhongzonghuiyouyixiezuizhenqiedeganshou、zuixiangshuodehua、zuiyanfanhuozuiaiderenheshi、zuiguanzhuhuozuiqiwanghuodedeshenmeba，neima，niyuhaopengyoudejiaotanfasheng“kazhu”shi，jiusuiyidijianzaiqizhongyigenizuijidongde“dian”qutanba。

 yizhaojieshaorendefenpei，xiaoqingshoushangnazheyibenzazhiqikanzourushengtaigongyuanyulingyigeshounazazhiqikandenanhaierayixiangyu。liangrenxiangtupianzhaopinmianshiyiyangfenbiebaolejiamenkouhou，bianmomowuyandishunzheshengtaigongyuandehepanchenzuiyu。

 xiaoqingjuedelianggerenjiranshilaixiangqinyuehui，zongyingdangliaoliaotian，tigaoyixiebicizhijianderenshiba，doubuhangshengshishenmeni？tameitouyizhou，jishangxinlai。“nishouzhongnadeshiyibennaxiezazhiqikan，nenggoukanyixiama？”“gangmaide《zhongguohuazhuangpin》。zheibuzazhiqikantinghaode，youpinwei。”ayiyibianjiandandixiangxijieshaoyibianbazazhiqikannajixiaoqing。“wa，kanbuchulai，niduimeironghufushishangchaoliuhaitingyoukexueyanjiuli。”“nikeyibieneimekuawo。wozhishixihaobale。

 niyaoa，yiwangmeironghuazhuangzhishishiyigenvrendeshishangchaoliu，rujindajiashenghuoshuipingtishengle，zhuiqiuwanmeizaojiufashenglezhuanbian，nanrenbukeyihuodeguangxianlianglicuicanyidianni。”tamenjinjinweiraozheshishangchaoliu，conghuazhuangtidaofuzhuang，congban“ku”tidaohuntianheidi，zhidaolianggerenfenshoudeshihou，zaojiushensiyiduilianaiyijiudelianrenle。

 xiaoqingdemingzhidedifangjiuqujueyu，taxiangqileyibenshuzongshihuiyinchulaihenduoyushuyouguandehuatitaolun。jibianayinazheshujinjinzuogemoyang，duishuhuoduimouyigehuatitaolunmeishenmexingqu，yunvshengliaotiandehuati,neimajinjinweiraoshusuoyinqidehenduoshehuifazhanshenghuoshangdehuatitaolun，tazonghuiyouyouxingqudeba，yinertamendediyicijiaotanshitebiequdechenggong、xinyoulingxide。