怎么和女生聊天，才不会冷场？与女生聊天的话题

 zaizhuiqiunvshengzhong，genxihuandenvshengliaotian，shinimenbicizhijianzuilijidegoutongjiaoliufangfa。xianliaodeyoulie，jiulijiyingxianglenimendeguanliandetuidongsulv。erzaixianjieduandehulianwangneimexianjindeqingxingxia，yunvshengliaotiandehuati,dajiajuedaduoshuxianliaoquanshiwangshangkaizhan。erhulianwangshangxianliao，youyigebutaihaodiqu，bianshiwenben、shipinyuyindemiaoshu，suochuandichulaideganqingshiyoujuxiande。bingqieyiyangyijuhua，nilejiedaodehanyi，helingyifanglejiedaodehanyichedibuyiyang。yeyouxuduonanhaizi，xianliaogongzuonenglibuqiang，gennvhaizizaiwangluoliaotian，jiushichanghuifashenggaliao。zheizhenduinvxingeryan，yunvshengliaotianhuatidaquan，nihaowuyiwenshizainvhaineixinliuyoulebutaihaodeyinxiang。neimayaozenyangliaotian，caikeyibugaliao，rangnvhaijuedeshifenyouyisi。

1、聊共同话题

 yunvshengliaotianhuatidaquan,zaochengxianliaogaliaodeyuangu，henyoukenengshimeiyouxunzhaodaohaodehuatitaolun。nijuededehuoshilingyifangshuode，quanshibicizhijianbulejie，huoshitaoyandehuatitaolun，nilailiaodeqingkuangxia，dangranlingyifangdoubuyuancanjiajinlai。yaochulizheigewenti，qishibushihennan。bianshigenjuduilingyifangdeweixinpengyouquanheshejiaowangluopingtaixinxineirong，quhuoqugongtongyuyan。zheiyiwentinenggoushigerenaihao、gongzuo、tesemeishi、xiaochongwuzheixie。ruguonizhaodao，jiukeyiqudakaizheizhonghuatitaolun，neimalingyifangdangranhenxiangyaogennihudongjiaoliu。keshizailiaoshi，kaijubunengyongyiwenjudexingshiqukaiju，neiyangranglingyifanghuichuxiangongzuoyali，zheileifangfashifougenninianshujiaoshishinilaijiedawentileisi。womenshihendichude，bingqiezheiyeshizaichixuxiangbierensuoyaoshiyongjiazhi。ninengyongchenshujuqukaiju。lirunimendoushiyougongtonghuatixiaochongwu，ninengshuokanzheniyangdexiaogou，huixuduocaiyibiaoyan，taitaorenxihuanle。

2、擅于聆听和表述见解

 zaixianliaodehuanjiezhong，youshihounizhaobuzhehuiyingshenmedeshihou。ninengbiaoshizigedejianjie，hegongxiangzishendelijing、xiaogushizheixie。zainigongxiangzhong，yehuiyinchulaiyixiexindehuatitaolun，suihouzairanhouzheizhonghuatitaolunquliaojiukeyile。neiyangjiukeyifangzhixianliaoganliaodekunjing，bingqiejijidezishentanluzishen，yeshiyizhongminganxiangduixingdezhuyaobiaoxian，zheinengrangnvhaidaliangdirenshidaoni，jiukeyixunsudigenbierenchuangjianshushigan。zirannihaikeyiwuxugongxiangzishendelijing，ninengrangnvhaitanyitantadelijing。zheiyijiuxuyaoyouyidingdeliaotiandejiqiaole，zheiergongxiangyigexiaoqiaomen。niyaorangnvhaixiangjinijuededaliang，niyejiuyongtonglixinjishuxing，rangnvrenrenweinihendongta，neiyangtabianhuikankanertandigennishuoxuduo。ziranniyizhizaizuoyigelingtingzheshi，jiububiqieduanbierendehua，youshihouzuoyidianxiaohudonghebiaoshurentongjiukeyile。neiyangquxianliao，yejiuburongyifashenglengchangdezhuangkuang。

3、摆脱焦虑不安

 xuduodixionggennvshengliaotian，bingbushitabushanyanci，shitaguodujiaolvbuan，zishenxinlizhuangtaimeiyoudiaojiehao。zenmehuifashengjiaolvbuandexintai？youyuxuduonanhaizizaizhuiqiunvshengshi，jiuzhidingleyigezishendezongtimubiao，neibianshiyaowoxiangrangbierenbianchengwonvpengyou，bianshiyouyuyongyouzheiyigezongtimubiao。tazaihoubiandejiaoliuzhongjiuxiandehentixindiaodan，xiangzainvhaiyanqianbiaoxiandeshifenyouyi。youyutapashuoshuocuo，zishenjiubuzuhaola，nvhaijiutaoyanzishenhuoshiliquta。jinerjiuzhishizishenzaixianliaozhong，jianghuaquanshiyaochiyizaisancaihuihuiyinglingyifang，naizhijiaolvbuandaobuqingchushuonaxiehao。yaobaituozheileijinpogan，baxinlidiaojiehao，zheiergongxiangyixiexiaoqiaomen。yi、bubishedingmubiao，jiubanvhaidangyibanpengyouchu。er、bubiguoduoqinglinvhai，nenggoushidudihuinvhai，laibaochixinlipingheng。san、suzaozixinxin，nenggouzixinxinqianyi，jiangnizixinxindeyimianqianyidao，gennvshengliaotianshangbianlai。gaohaozheijigefangmian，jiunengfeichanghaodibaituoxianliaozhongdejinpogan，neiyangjiaoliujiubukenengfashenggaliaole。

 xianliaoshibixubuduanxuexiheshijianhuodong，jinyouxuexipeixunzaijiashangshijianhuodong，caikeyishinifazhanxunsu，meiyouzhaobuzhenvyoudenansheng，jinyoubunulidenansheng，meishierduokanyixiafeifandewenzhangneirong，yunvshengliaotiandehuati,duohenvshenghudongjiaoliu，niyenenggoubiancheng1gexianliaodashen，zaizheierjianyidahuoerkanyikanfeifanxiedelanmu，feifangongxinshu，libianyouxiangjindetidaoxianliaodeyixiehuatitaolun，jihuihefangshi，youqishikouguanjianzixianliaohetigaoxintaidexianliao，jilao，yiqieyijianshidoushiyoufangshi，jinyoubawohelidefangshi，caikeyimaixiangqudechenggong。