为什么泡不到妞？为什么老实人泡不到妞？

 ruguonishiyigepaoniuchuxuezhe，neimahenxingyunnikeyijiandaoxiabiandeneirong，yinweitadequekeyilikegenggainiyunvxingjiaowangdeqingkuang，erbushizaoshouyixiesuoshuodeniuxfangfadeqizha，jiarunizaoyihuipaoniule，weishenmepaobudaoniu？neimajiexialaidexinxijiangduinishuo，niweishenmenikeyizhuidaomei，jiqiweihenizhinengyikaoqingkuangpaoniu。

yixieliaobulemeidetongxuemen，youyigechangjianwenti：buqingchuziyidaodishishei，duizishendeshiyongjiazhiyiwusuozhi。

 yincitamenyudaoyigejipinnvshendediyiniantoubianshi：“zheiyixiaoguniangtaipiaoliangle，zhenshishijipinnvshenyibandecunyou，keshiwoni？jinjinyigepingchangren。”

 zheileiniantou，huigenjugerenxingweizhanxianchu。ji：tamenhuitiaoxuanbikai，naizhibikaizheiyinvshengdeyanguang。dengxiaoguniangzouyiwangyihou，zaixihuantaroumeideshenying，suihouguaizijiweihebingbushiyigefuerdai，daozuizhongdiaozhengqingxu，biexiaxiangle，neibushininenggouhuodedenvxing，haohaoxuexiba。

 youyuduigerenjiazhirenzhinenglideqianlou，zaochenggerenxingweishangdelow。shubuzhinvxingqiahaoshigenjugerenxingwei，laifenbianyigerenshifoulowde。dangnvshengjiandaolowdegerenxingwei，bianhuiquedingzheigerenshigelowde，suihoudechuxiangduiyinghuaideyijianfankui。

 zheigeshihou，nvxingdehuaideyijianfankui，jiubianchengziworenshidebangyang，wanquancuihuiyigerenduigerenjiazhiderenzhinengli。naizhifourenzishendeshiyongjiazhi。

neimazenyanglaigaijinduigerenjiazhiderenzhinenglini？

qingchuderenshidao，shiyongjiazhilaiziyuzishenduizishendehaowuyiwen，bingfeibierendeyijianfankui。

 weiheneimeshuoni？woshiyigedahualaoshiji，zhixuzaijieshangjiandaohenhaodemeizhi，wodoushihuibuyongsisuodimianshangquyaohao。suihoubianhuichanshenggeshigeyangdeqingkuang。youdemeizhifanyinghao，youdemeizhifanyingcha。fanyinghaode，wonengqingjingdihetaliaoshangshijifenzhong，naizhilijizhuanhuanchangdiyouhui；fanyingchade，mawojingshenbingdeyeshiyou。

jiaruyizhaotarenduiwomendefanyinglairenzhinenglizishendehua，neimawodaodishijianxinfanyinghaode，huoshifanyingchadeni？

 lingrenfeijiedeshi，duiyuwofanyinghaode，zaiqizhongbuqueshenxing、xiangmaodoutebiedegao“gaofenshuniu”，duiyuwofanyingchade，yeshiyouxuduoworenweizisehenpingnvxing。

 zhaolishuogaofenshuniuyingdanggenglengao，yibanmeizhiyingdanggengheaikeqincaidui，danshishijishangquebingfeizheiban。zheigengnengbiaoming，genjubierenyijianfankuilaifenbianbenshenshiyongjiazhi，zishenyeshishifenherende，shifeichangdianxingderenzhinenglibushangzishendeshiyongjiazhidezhuyaobiaoxian。

ziwokendingbianhuiyoushiyongjiazhime？

 zairenjijiaowangzhongshiyongjiazhizishenshigexiangduixingdedingyi，nvxinggenjunidefangshifenbiannishibushiyoushiyongjiazhi，erbushiniqianjialidezhibi。erkaishijiangle，nidegerenxingweishiduigerenjiazhiderenshisuoquedingde。

 zaidulepugaodeqingkuangxia，woyouyigefuerdaipenyou，tahenhuipaoniu，meiyicidoukeyibameizhigaodeaitaaideyusiyuxian。danshimeiyourenbiwogengzhangwota，tamenjiashifuyou，danshitadiezunxundeshihaiziyaofuyangdedingyi。

 yincitabiwodouqiong，youshitameiyouqian，hailaizhaowoliaojiekuan，yongjiedezheiqianqupaoniu！danshijinguantameiyouqian，keshitajiazhongfuyou，tapaoniuyekendingyouzixin，zhihoutanaizhinengbaozhengrangmeizhitaoqian。

 congneigeshihouwobianzaizhujiankexueyanjiu，zheiyiquanshijieshifouyouyizhongwupin，keyirangyinweiwoyouzhetazheileizixin，neiyangwohainengxiangtayiyang，buyonghuahenduoqian，yekeyirangmeizhiduiwoxihuandeyusiyuxianni？

 henxingyun，queshiyou。huoxushixiyinfaze，zhihouchupenglelianaixue。lianaixuegaozhiwomenyaozixinxin，yaoxuehaoyongguojiguanli，yaoyongganshuobu，yaoyouguifan，yaobianchenglipin。

 woxunsujiuyonglianaixuerangyigemeizhiduiwoxihuandeyusiyuxianle，neishiwoyonglianaixueliaodediyigemeizhi，wodangchuganjuehennanyizhixin，wojinyonglesitianshijianjiuqudeletadexinherenti。

 danshi，zhihouwofaxianle，wopaoniudeqingkuanglaoshiyoubodong，qingkuanghao，guojiguanligezhonggeyangyong，juedenaxiemeizhidounengnadao，qingkuangcha，naizhibibushangyiqianneiyigecuonandezishen，heyigenvrenbushangsanjuhua。woxianshenrufenxi，shiyaoxunzhaoyigenengrangzishenqingkuangquyuwendingdefangshi。

yinciwozhujiankanmeimenpaixidejichulilun，bingjinkenengxiaohuaxishou，jieguo......

 wozhongyuqudechenggongdihunfeiposanle！tamendejichulilunfangfodouhenyouxiedaoli，danshiyongqilaiyouyixiediquyoushifenmaodun，woyuelaiyuebunenggouyiqiezhengchangshuohuale，rutongshenmejiangwoluojisiwei、houlongsuodingleyiyang，zheizhongganjue，bushufushuipingbuxunyutunyiwangengangding。

ershikangudaiwuxiaxiaoshuo，youxierenhunfeiposan，bianhuizaoshougaorenzhidian，yihouhuakaiquanbudezuai，yifeichongtian。

 woyebuchuwai，womingbailelaoshijidedianba，tagenwoshuo，paoniushiyoudiandaomian，nixuyaoxunzhaoneiyigedian，yejiushirenzhinenglidaozishendeshiyongjiazhi。

 ruguonimingbaiderenshidaozijideshiyongjiazhi，nideyixiezishidoushihuigaozhinvxing，nideshiyongjiazhi。bingqieneixiequanshidangranliuluchude，yincinvxingnaizhiburongyiqujianceni。zhihouwojiuyongzishendefangfa，zhaodaowoduigerenjiazhiderenzhinengli。

 cengjingdewozaipengyouquanshuoguoyijuhua：“renshijishangshimeiliyouqufourenzigede，youyuzheizhongquanshijie，zhiyouyigeni，nikendingzhaobudaodiergeyuniyimoyiyangderen。”

youyuzheileiduyiwuer，dajiayoumeiyoushenmejiekouqufourenzigedeshiyongjiazhi？

 yigenvrenyujianleni，neimabianshitadehaoyun，youyuquanshijiezaimeiyoubiedenansheng，keyiyongnidefangfaquaita，bingbushime？

 weishenmepaobudaoniu？jiarunizhendeshineimexiang，neimaniyinggaikeyirenshidaozishendeshiyongjiazhileba。yidanrenzhinenglidaozijishiyongjiazhi，nikendingbuhuizaiqienuoheyigemeinvjianghua，nideyuyan，muguang，zhitidongzuodouxieluchuquzineixinshenchudezixinxin，nijiangzaiwanchengganqingsuiyideguangmingdadaoshang，qianxingqianxing。keshiwo，yehengaoxingkeyixiezhudaoni。