怎么和陌生人聊天

 womenzhongguorenyouyigexiguanxing，jiushishuoyoushihouhuigenlurenlashangyijuhua，bumingbaihemoshengrenliaotiandekaichangcijiuhuiyuelaiyuehaogangale，neimayingdangruhehemoshengrenliaotianni？

一、如何和陌生人聊天

1、shidangdechengzanlingyifangdeyifukuzihuoshixiaozhuangshiwu

 nenggouwenlingyifangshinalimaide，weihemai，haoduoqianzheileide。niyubushenbiandepengyouxianliao，yidingyaoshanyuguancha，neiyangcaikeyiyoudaliangdehuati，tuidongxianghudexinlai。

2、kaituochuangxin，jingenshishiredian

 hemoshengrenliaotiandekaichangcinenggouliaoyiliaoshixiachanshengdexinwenbaodao、shimaodejianshenyundong、xiaoquhuozhengye（zhengyehuatiyaofangzhitiaoxuanhenyouyiyideneirong，neibanhuoxuhuiyinqitaiguomengliedezhengbian）。

3、懂得瞎扯

 “xiache”shigenrengoutongjiaoliudeguanjiangoucheng。xuduoneishihou，yigerenbudangyantanjuzhi，daduoshushibuqingchuruhebawotanhuashiji，xunzhaoshihedehuati。tiaoduishuohuadeshiji，zhangwotarendejuede。shehuixuejiazhanmushishuoguo：“genrengoutongjiaoliushi，jiarunengbaozhengguannianshifangyali、meiyouguji、qingyi、xiangqinaxiequeshuonaxie，neitanhuajiunenggoukaizhandefeichangreqing，fenweijiuhuikanqilaifeichanghuoyuexing。”

4、操纵氛围

 fuyijiehualingyifangdetanhua，rangtanhuazaikaixinqingqingsongsongdefenweizhongkaizhan。dabufenrenbenzhijiumeiyouguanniandaogengbierenqinjingoutongjiaoliudeguanjian。tanhuadeneishihoujiarutanyulingyifangtongyangdejianyihuotongyigehuati，lingyifangdaziranhuiduinihenganxingqu，bingqiezaochenghaogandu。

5、学会放下

 jiarudajiadehuihuajuedehaoxiangyingyaobadianziqintuidaofengdingneibanjianxin，neimahuoxuxianzaikaishikaizhanxindehuati，huoshijiulveweitingyiting，linshiquandoububijiangguo，zhongjiunibutaikenenghemeiyigerendouliaodechangshungaoxingde。