交友之道中要注意什么：与人相处说话技巧是什么

 shejiaomeitinankanlaiyuanyuyuyizhongzaitarendeningshixiameiyouchuxian“yiqiezhengchang”huo“shehuifazhanjubuweijian”dejuede。yinweiduiyutarenduirenmendeguandianheduishehuifazhandeqidaierzaochengdehaipaheyoulv，jiaoyouzhidaozhongyaozhuyishenme?yurenxiangchushuohuajiqiaoshishenme?ruhe ☞tuodan ？

一、交友之道中要注意什么：与人相处说话技巧是什么

 shejiaomeitinankanhuizulanrenmenyubierenkaizhanchongzudehudongjiaoliu，youyukongjubeitarenquxiaoyizhiyubeidichu。neimazuibenderenruhedongdeshuohuani?

 yidannisixiangyishidaomeigerenkongjuzaishejiaomeitishangnankan，erqieyoufangfacongyazhihexinxindenankanxingejuzhongjixuqianxing，neimanijianghuigangkaishijienashejiaoxingerbingbushiduitamenzaochengcaiyi。jiaoyouzhidaozhongyaozhuyishenme?yurenxiangchushuohuajiqiaoshishenme?

1、思想意识到你并不孤单

 nihuijuedenideluguishangdemeigerenshishejiaomeitichangshunde，keshishishang，dabufenrendanyouzaishejiaomeitichangsuonankan。tamendanyoudajiashibushixiaitamen，tamenshibushijirenliuyouhaoyinxiang，huoshidajiashibushiduitamenjuedeyanjuan。

 nijianghuijuedezhoubiandeyixierendaziranhuimimanzhexinxin，erwuxudanyoutamenshizenyangtuoshende，danmeigerenduirenjijiaowangdeyixiecengmianjuedezaodongbuan。shijishangdajiadouqidaibierenxiaiheyoupenyou。

2、问一问自身你的难堪感来源于哪儿

 zhenduihenduoqinshenjinglishejiaomeitinankandereneryan，zheizhongganqinglaiyuanyujiaolvqingxu、haipa、buanquanganhuodixinxin。jiaruninxiangyaoyiciyidiandicujinnindejiexianbingxunzhaochuangjianzixinxindefangshi，zenenggouchulizheizhonglaiyuanyuzhongdemeiyige。zaimeigezhuangkuangxia，shizhezhaodaodaozhinijuedenankandezhijieyuanyin，bianyuninenglijichulita。yuekuailejiezhenshidelaiyuanyu，yuekuainenggouchulita。

 juedeziworentongyeyouxuduobiededeyuangu，liruyiwangqinshenjinglibutaihao，juedezishenmeiyoubeilejie，tihuidaozaiqingjingzhong(rugongzuozhong，huobanhuobabamamadegongzuoyalideng)hudongjiaoliudegongzuoyali，huoshiduizhoubianderendexintaihegerenxingweijuedeyihuo。

3、勤奋摆脱羞涩

jiaoyouzhidaozhongyaozhuyishenme?yurenxiangchushuohuajiqiaoshishenme?xiusehuiyizhinideshejiaoxing。

 miantianjianghuiyuzhoubianrenherenjuedexiuse，huojinjinyixierenqundabuyiyang。yinweikongjunankan，nijianghuibuxiangyaohudongjiaoliu。ninengzaishejiaoxingzhongtihuidaogengqingqingsongsongdejuede，erqiedaliangdicongnideqiaozizhongzouchuqu。dangnixiuse，nijianghuixiangbaomingcanjiashangwuhuodong，danjuedekongjubeinankanhuohulve。

4、不必担忧他人对你的观点

 jinguanshuoqilaifeichangrongyizuoqilainan，danfangzhishejiaomeitinankandeyigeguanjianfangshishizhongzhiguanzhutarenruhekandaini。dabufenrendouhuidanyoutarenruhekandaitamen，ruguonigangkaishidanyoutarenduinideguandianshi，tashizuigaitishizishende。

 dangnitaidanyouyunigoutongjiaoliuderenqueshizaixiangzheni，neimanijiangshizhongmeifashifangyalihuoxiangyoushejiaoxing。yidannisheqilezheiyidanyou，nijiuhuifaxianzishenyuelaiyuegengfeichangrongyi，daziranlaijianglizhidishuohua。

 tishizishenshenmejianyihenguanjian。huoxuyigerentaoyanni，danninengzaidujiandaozheiyirenma?duiyunidepenyou，zhenxinpengyouhuijianchibuxieyuni，jibianniyizhizaizheierheneibiangaoza。

5、了解你是不是有社交媒体焦虑情绪

 shejiaomeitijiaolvqingxushiyizhongrenmeifazaishenghuozhonggenghaodifahuidebingzheng，baohanxiaoyuannei，gongzuozhonghuoshangwuhuodongzhong。yigeshenhuanshejiaomeitijiaolvqingxuderenquxiangyuqinmijiechuqinrenhezhidexinlaidepenyou，bingfangzhiquanbugonggongxingrenjijiaowang。shejiaomeitijiaolvqingxulaiyuanyudajiachixukongjubierenyijingxixinhechabingren，weiciwuruhuonankantamen。

6、认可你的体会

 jiaoyouzhidaozhongyaozhuyishenme?yurenxiangchushuohuajiqiaoshishenme?ruguonijuedenankanhejiaolvqingxushi，genjudaliangdisixiangyishidaozishenderentijuede，ninengqingxingdilejiedaonideshenshangxianjisuyijingshuiyanni，bingzaochengniyaomanpaohuozangni。

 liuyinishibushijuedechuxianyichangwennuan，liuhan，zhandong，zaodongbuanhuoguoduoliuyidaowomendeshenti。zhuyinideniantou，kanyixiatamenshibushitaiguotichupipingnideshejiaomeitibiaoxian。lingwailiuyinidexintai，buguannijuedewunaihuanshimeiyong。yuzheizhongjuedebaochiyizhi，neiyangjiunenggoudongdejianbietamen。