约人怎么说话技巧 高情商聊天约会技巧

 zainannvzhijian，yuehuidechenggongyunishifounengzhuishangtazhijiexiangguan，yinweinvhaitongchangfeichangguanzhudiyiyinxiang，diyiyinxiangjibierenyizhongbuhaodeganjue，ranhoutahuiduinifeichanglengdan，xiamianfenxiangyixieyuerenzenmeshuohuajiqiao。

1.不要按时约会

tiqiandaodayuehuididian，buyaozhunshidaoda，lushangkenenghuiyouyixiangbudaodejinjiqingkuang。

 ruyouteshuqingkuang，qingtiqiantongzhinvhai，bingyiheliliyouyinman。liru，daiyifenbutaiguidexiaoliwu，chidaohouduinvhaishuo：“denglehenjiu，jinixuanlegexiaoliwu，tiaolaitiaoqubuzhidaoxuannagehao，suoyichidaole。”

xuyaoyuyuededifangjidetiqianyuyue，buxuyaoyuyuedecantingjidetiqiananpaihaohaoma。

2.用自嘲破冰

 dangshuangfangdouyoujuliganshi，zichaokeyixunsusuoduanjuli。liru，nikeyiconggongzuozhongdeshiqingkaishizichao，shidangdiquxiaoziji，rangnvhaiganshoudaonideyoumo，leguanhechengshu，mianduikunnanyekeyikaiwanxiao，ziranduiniyougenghaodeyinxiang。

3.餐桌礼仪

 tiqianzhidaonvshengxihuanchishenme.nikeyicongtadehaopengyouneilizhidaonizaiwanshenme，yekeyizaipingshiduotantanzheigehuati。ranhougenjunvshengdexingquxuanzeyuehuididian。

 ruguoyigenvhaibuzhidaoqunali，nikeyitigongliangsanjiameiweidecantinggongtaxuanze，huozhezhijiedaitaquyijianirenweizuidecanting.shuxideshangdian。zuihaoxuanzenishuxidedifang，duizhouweihuanjingyouhaochu.jiaotongdengderuzhizhang，fangbianfanhouhuodong。

 diancanshi，xianwenduifangyoumeiyoutebiedejinji，birunengbunengchila，yinliaoshixihuanliangdehaishirede。jinliangbuyaodianbuyadeshiwu。.chiqilaihenxinku.huozhechiqilaibufangbianshuohuadecai，

chifandeshihou，rangnvshengxianchidiyikou。ruguonixiangjitajiacai，jideduoyongyishuangkuaizi，qishihenshaoyourenzhuyi。

4.避免尴尬聊天的聊天技巧

 yuehuiqianzhunbei2-3gekeyihetahudongdehuati，birushixialiuxingdeshijian，biruzongyijiemu.dianyingdeng，jiangshunengdadongtadegushi，huozhenengrangtapaochuguandiandehuati，rangtayouzhudongqingsudeyiyuan。

 gaosutadeshihoujiderangtacanyu。nikeyiwenta：“caicaihoulaifashengleshenme”zheiyangkeyidiaodongtadeqingxu，tayeyoucanyugan。

 nvhaimenhenrongyiyutamenganxingqudehuatichanshenggongming，jishitamenhengaoxing，tayehuiyizhiheniliaotian。suoyizhaodaotadexingqudian，nibubidanxinhetawuhuakeshuo。weiraozhetadexingquliaotianshidiaodongtaliaotianreqingdezuihaofangfa。

5.约会结束后，送女孩回家

 yuehuijieshuhou，womenyinggaizhudongsongnvhaihuijia。dangran，nvhaiyinggaiwanju，buyaoqiangpo。takeyizhudongbangnvhaijiaochuzuche，yizhikanzhetalikai。jianeryanzhi，nibixukanzhenvhailikai。nvhaihuijiahou，jidezhudonghetaliaotian，gaosutajintianhetazaiyiqihenkaixin。

 yuerenzenmeshuohuajiqiao，zuihouzhongdian！！！nanshengyuehuishiyidingyaozhuyizijidezhezhuang，qingshuangganjing，congneidaowaidouyaozhuyixiaoxijie。