renjiguanxishirenyinjiaowangergouchengdexianghuyicunhexianghulianxideshehuiguanxi。rentianshengjiushishejiaodongwu,meigerendouyouzijidutedesixiang、gexing、xingwei、jiazhiguan、renshengguanheshijieguan,renjiguanxiduiyumeigerendeqingxuheshenghuodouyouzhehendadeyingxiang。neirenyurenzhijiandejiaowangyuanzeheruheyurenjiaowangdejiqiaoshishenme?
一、人与人之间的交往原则
1、平等原则
renyurenzhijiandeguanxishipingdengdeguanxi,zaiwomendeshehuili,renmenzhijianzhiyoushehuifengonghezhizefanweidechabie,ermeiyougaodiguijianzhifen。bulunzhiweigaodi、nenglidaxiao,haishizhiyechabie、jingjizhuangkuangbutong,renrenxiangyoupingdengdezhengzhi、falvquanliherengedezunyan,douyingdedaotongdengdeduidai,yincirenyurenzhijianjiaowangyaopingdengxiangdai,yishitongren,xianghuzunzhong,bukangbubei。yaozunzhongbierendeaihao、xiguan、fengsu。zhiyouzunzhongbieren,bierencaizunzhongziji。
2、真诚原则
zhenchengdairenshirenjijiaowangdeyiyanxuhefazhandebaozheng,renyurenzhijianyichengxiangdai,cainengxianghulijie、jiena、xinren,cainengtuanjie,xiangchuzhencheng、tuanjie,shixiandaishehuishiyechenggongdekeguanyaoqiu。jiurenshengeryan,jinkaogerenweibodeliliangshinanyidaodachenggong、xingfujingjiede。jiaowangzhongyaozhenchengdairen,shishiqiushi,yaoxionghuaitandang,yanxingyizhi。xianghuxinren,zunzhongbieren,qianxujinshen,wenminglimaocainengjianlilianghaoderenjiguanxi。
3、友爱原则
zhongguorujiayou“renzheairen”zhichuantong,zaiwomenshehuili,renyurenzhijiangengyingtuanjieyouai。renjijiaowangzhongyaozhudongtuanjiebieren。rongrenzhe,renrongzhi。huxiangzunzhong,xuhuairuogu、kuanhongdaducainengjianliqilianghaoderenjiguanxi。youaijiushiyaoaitongzhi、aipengyou、aitongshi、airenmin。zhenzhengdeaixinjiubiaoxianzaibangrenyiba,zaibierenxuyaoshi,fengxianzijideliliang。yaoxiangdedaobierendebudaodedongxi,jiudefuchubierenbuyuanfuchudedongxi。
4、互助原则
huxiangguanxin,huzhuhuhui,shirenjijiaowangdekeguanxuqiu,shenghuozhong,meigerendounanmianyoukunnan,xuyaotarenbangzhu;gongzuozhong,yexuyaozaigezidezhiweishanghuxiangpeihe、huxiangzhichi、tonglihezuo。huxiangbangzhushizhonghuaminzudechuantongmeide。yirenyounan,zhongrenxiangbang;yifangyounan,bafangzhiyuan。xianghubangzhujiushiyaoleyubangzhubieren,bierenyoukunnanxuyaobangzhushiyidingyaoreqingbangzhu。huzhuhuhui,yigebuyuanyibangzhubierenderen,hennanyaoqiubierenziyuanbangzhuta。huxiangbangzhubushihuxiangliyong,huxiangliyongbushijianxingzhenchengheyouai。
二、如何与人交往的技巧
1、xuehuiyurenjiaoliu。renyurenzhijiandejiaowangguanjianshixianghuzhijiandejiaoliu。shouxian,jiaoliuyinggaizhudong,zheiyangcainengbiaodachunidechengyi。qici,yurenjiaoliushibunengshuocukouhua、gengbunengdaren。ranhou,buyaosuibozhuliu,zhenshideshuochuzijidexiangfa,buyaofuyan,zhenchengdiyutarenjiaoliu。
2、baochiqianxujinshen。jiaowangjiqiaojiushizaishenghuozhongwomenyaobaochibujiaoao、buzimandetaidumianduishenbiandepengyou,yileguanjijidetaidumianduirensheng、mianduishenghuo,zheiyangcainengshigengduoderenyuanyiyunijiechu,yuanyiyunijieweihaoyou。
3、xuehuikuanyidairen。renyurendejiaowangzhong,shunengwuguoni。suoyishuorenyurenxiangchushiderongna、baohan、kuanrongjirenrang。jiaowangjiqiaojiushiyaozuodaoxinlixiangrong,yingzhuyizengjiajiaowangpinlv,xunzhaogongtongdian。weirenchushiyaoxinxiongkaikuo,kuanyidairen。yaotiliangtaren,yushiyaoduoweibierenzhexiang,jishibierenfanlecuowuhuomaofanleziji,yebuyaojinjinjijiao,yimianyinxiaoshida,shanghaixianghuzhijiandeganqing。
4、chengshishouxin。zuorenyidingyaochengshishouxin,yidingbuyaoqingyixunuo,ruguoyijingxuruodehua,yidingyaojidezunshounuoyanwancheng,qiewuzhishishuoshuoerbuquzuode。
5、kangkaidafang。zaiyurenjiaowangzhong,buyaoweilexiaoshijinjinjijiao,xiaodujichang,jingdaxisuande,duidaibierenjiuyinggaikangkaidafang、shandaitaren,zheiyangdehuacainengshoudaogengduorendezunzhongyuhuanying,kangkaiyeshiyizhongzhihuidesuozai。
6、xuehuijinshen。fangrenzhixinbukewu,hairenzhixinbukeyou。zoushangzhichang,huijiechugezhonggeyangderen,yaohuiyanshizhu,jinshenjiaowang。gurenyun:“yushanrenju,ruruzhilanzhishi,jiuerbuwenqixiang,jiyuzhihuayi。yubushanrenju,rurubaoyuzhisi,jiuerbuwenqichou,yiyuzhihuayi。”jiaowangyaozeshanrenerjiao,zezhitongdaohezhirenerjiao。boyadanqinyuziqi,yiqu《gaoshanliushui》shuxiekuangshizhiyin;liubei、guanyu、zhangfeiqingtouyihe,taoyuansanjieyi,jiechengshengsizhijiao。
7、tanchengduidai。zhenshitanchengshiyurenjiaowangdeyuanze。ruguoniyinpiqibaozaoshuocuolehua,shanglerenxin,niyaoyouyongqichengrencuowu,bingdaoqian:“duibuqi,wopiqibuhao,shuolebugaishuodehua,woxiangnidaoqian。”;ruguoduifangyanerwuxinle,niyeyaotanchengdibiaomingzijideguandian:“pengyou,nishixinle,woyouxieshiwang,xiwangxiabuweili。”
qishiruheyurenjiaowangdejiqiaohaiyouhenduo。xiaobianjintianjiushuozheijitiaobijiaojibende,xiwangdajiaxuehuixixinguanchashenghuo,qinyusikao。zongjiezijidechushijingyan。xiaobianhenqidaiyudajiayiqijiaoliue。
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