交往最忌讳什么？要了解清楚！

 weishenmehaipa jiaowang ？jiaowangxintaishishenme？zuoweilianaibaichidedouhuizheimewen，neimewomenjiuyiqijiejueyixiaba。

一、为什么害怕交往？是不是受过什么情伤？

womenweishenmehaipajiaowangni？weishenmehaipayubushuderenjiaowangni？womenyaozhaoyuantouranhoubazheigefannaojijiejuele。

 haipayurenjiaowangshiyizhongbuzixinzibeiganzaizuoguai，xuyaozouchuqu，bielaodaijiali，duojiechushehui，duoxuexizhuanyejineng，haipaxintaishitaobixianshidebiaoxian，yidingyaoziqiang，cainengbuzibei，cainengyouzixin，cainengshadoubupa，ziqiangshouxianyaogongzuo，manmanjieleijingyanhejineng，congwudaoyou，congxiaozuodaoda，jihuilailejiuhuichenggong，chenggonglejiuchedijiejuelenidesuoyoufannao。

二、交往最忌讳什么？

1、恃宠而骄

 jiaowangzuijihuishenme？buguanshinanrenhaishinvren，zuixihuanxiangshoudeshibierenduizijidetengaihechongai，neizhongxingfuganjueshiyueliangraozhediqiuzhuandeganjue。taiduoderenrongyishichongerjiao。qieji，qianwanbuyaobaduifangdangchenghaiziyang，haoduanduandebanlvbeigongfengchengleshen，daotoulaihuiluodeyizhongaiyuan：woduitaneimehao，taweishenmeyaozheiyang。

2、莫相求

 yijingshiqudejiudaibiaobuhuihuilai，jiusuanhuilaideyebuzaishiyuanxiandeai。zhenxiangweihuhewanhuijiuxuehuiquxiyinduifang，rangtazaiyikaishijiuduinibaozhebuhuilikaidetaidu。tangruozuihoulikaile，qianwanqianwanbiexiangqiu，neishihounizhihuiyouyizhongdingyi，henlow。

3、距离

 libanlvdehaoyoubaochizainidebanlvjuedenimenlianggenbenbushudeweizhijiuhao，jibuhuiyoujiemeitaosixiajuhuishitaiduoguanyunidebagua，yebuhuiyinqibanlvbushi，nannvjieshiyong。

三、与人交往心态是什么？

1、首因的效应

 jiaowangxintaishishenme？shouxian，zaiduifangdetounaodangzhongzhanjuzhudaodediwei，zheiyizhongxiaoyingjiushishouyinxiaoying。suoyi，womennenggouliyongzheiyizhongxiaoying，zaijiaoyou、zhaopinyijiqiuzhidengdengshejiaohuodongdangzhong，jirenfeichanghaodeyizhongxingxiang，weirihoudejiaoliudaxiabijiaohaodejichu。danshizaishejiaohuodongdangzhongxushencengcidejinxingjiaowang，guangjuyoushouyinxiaoyingshibugoude，haixunindeyingjianwanbei，yejiushininzaitantu、juzhi、xiuyangyijilijiedengdenggegefangmiandesuzhi。

2、近因的效应

 yejiushizairenyurenjiaowangdangzhongzuihoujianmiandeyicijirensuoliuxiadeyinxiang，zheiyigeyinxiangzaiduifangdenaohaidangzhongsuocunliudeshijianshizuizhangde。liyongjinyindexiaoying，zaihepengyoufenbiedeshihou，jiyutabijiaohaodezhufu，zaitadexinzhongnidexingxiangyehuisuizhimeihuaqilai。zheiyizhongmeihuahenyoukenenghuiduinirihoudeshenghuozaochengyingxiang。

3、光环的效应

 suhuajiang：qingrendeyanlichuxishi。qingrenzaixianglianshi，renweiduifangdesuoyouyiqiedoushihaode，zuodeyiqieshiqingdoushiduide，jiulianbierenyiweishiquediandedifang，zaiduifangkanlaigenbenmeishenme，zheibianshiyizhongguanghuanxiaoyingdebiaoxian。guanghuanxiaoyingjuyouzheyidingdefumianyingxiang，zaizheiyizhongxintaizuoyongzhixia，nishifennanfenbianchuhao、huai，zhen、wei，yibeitarensuoliyong。yinci，renmenzaishejiaoguochengdangzhongyaojuyouyidingdeshefangyishi。