怎么经营婚姻生活：幸福婚姻是怎样炼成的

 youshi，dangguanxixianxianchulaishihenxianzhu。biedeneishihou，tajianghuijuedefangfozaoyijinxingdantabixudejinjinyidianerdiaojiehejutizhidao。zenmejingyinghunyinshenghuo?xingfu☞ hunyin shizenyanglianchengde?

一、怎么经营婚姻生活：幸福婚姻是怎样炼成的

1.争执

 ninshibushichajueyunindezhixiqinshuhuoairenchangchangdajiadououhaoxiangmeifachuli?dangniyunideguanjiandebierenchixuhuxiangpinsha，zuozhantongchanghuizaijianmozhongjinxing，huoshidaliangdenaonubaofa，tashiyigequanzidongdehongqi。zenmejingyinghunyinshenghuo?xingfuhunyinshizenyanglianchengde?

 wenxintixing，quanbuguanxidequechangyouzishendejianjie。dajiafeichangrongyizaochengbuyiyangjianyi，zhixuxiaoliangjiunenggouweichishenxinjiankang。keshi，jiaruzuozhanmeiridouhuichansheng，haoxiangchangchangmeiyoumouleijiejuefangfa，neibianshilingwaijingdiangushi。

 chucizhiwai，jiaruniyu/huonidexinrenyibuzhenshigaoxing，neimarujinxianzaikaishizaicipingdingzhuangkuang，suihoujuecexiayijieduanganshenme，buguanjianghuishisha。baituobingjixuqianxing，huoshidangni'。

2.无趣

 niganjuezheixieguanxigangkaishiyuelaiyuechihuanma?nizaoyiyiqileguoduanshijianle。dajia2gezaoyishenxianlezheizhongdajiajianguaibuguaidexiguanxing。shijishang，shiergangkaishibianhuan。miyuelvxinghuanjiezaoyizhongzhi，rujinnideairenjuedebuneimajidongle。zenmejingyinghunyinshenghuo?xingfuhunyinshizenyanglianchengde?

 zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，nindeguanxiyoutingdadefazhanqianlinenggouchucun。keshi，tazhinengzaidajia2gedouyuanyigongzuozhongdezhuangkuangxianengheli。tabixudejinjinyidianerqinfen。ruguonideguanxiyuelaiyuewuqushi，neibianshigangkaishizuodaliangshieryiweichimeilideneishihoule。meimeiduanguanxidoubixubixudeeganlaiweichizheileiqingkuang。huiyitaheshigangkaishi。

 shifouhaijideshishashinizaiyikuaierma?yongtalaijuanhuinideairen。jiangtayunyongdaonideshenghuoqijuzhong。zhongyaoshi，ni' zhaoxunnenggouchuliniyunilianrenzhongjiandefareliangdeshier。zuihou，jiaruninzhaobuzhezaicilianjiebingcongtoukaishidefangshi，ninjianghuiqidaijiangqichechu。

3.没法沟通交流

 zenmejingyinghunyinshenghuo?xingfuhunyinshizenyanglianchengde?ninshibushifajueguanjiandebierenheninzishenmeiyougoutongjiaoliufangshi?tashiyigefanzadezhuangkuang。shizhexiangxiangjianghuiqianquegoutongjiaoliudeyuangu。

 ninhuonindeairenshibushidahandajiaozhuzhongzheiyidianer?huoxudajiazhongdezijiganjue，ruguonishuohuadeneishihou，dajiayikuaierbeihulvele。dajiazhongdeyiqieyigeyebulicaiairendeyoulvma?qingjilao，youliangrenchuangjianguanxi。

 chucizhiwai，zaojiuyigequanqiubixugeshigeyangde，neimaweiherenmenqidaisuoyourendedanaoyiyiyangdefangfagongzuozhongni?guanxitixianlezheiyidianer，erqieyouxuduofangshinenggouqudechenggong。

 shiyixiazheiyi：zuozhenideairenduimen。bixushuohuashibixuyaoting。genjuxiangninbiaoshuguanai，tajianggulitamenyuninkaizhandaliangdehuihua。

 lingwaiyouxiaodetixingshiguanchabingzhangwoairendeshentiyuyan。zheihenguanjian，youyutanenggoujinizhangwotamendeqingxu。dangnixunlianzheizhongxunlian，goutongjiaoliuyingdangxiufu。jiaruzheishiling，ninhenindeairennenggoushizheyuliangzhifuqidekangfushigoutongjiaoliu。

4.出轨行为

 nifajuenideairenzaoyibeipian。buguanniyeshibawozhutamenneiyangzuohuanshitamenduinishuozishen，tamenquanshibuzhongshide。nijianghuiganjuezishenchuzaiguanxidesanchalukou。

 xianzaikaishikexueyanjiuquanbuzhuangkuangdehouqingongzuole。nizhualaidaoma?shihunhouchuguihuanshiyicishi?tamenzaiganqingshangyutamenmengpianniderenxiangguanma?

 zaidabufenzhuangkuangxia，zaiciyupianzigongsichuangjianguanxidejueceduinindexinlijiankangjiqibuliangyingxiang。zuixian，niyiwangduinideairendexinlaijiangbeizheileipohuaixingdebuchengshigerenxingweisuosipo。

 zheijiangshinijibenshangbutaikenengjianxinnideairenchangshuodebingbushiyigedandadehuanghua。tamenpanbiandetongchujiangnanyirenshou。zaipengshangshangshangdangshoupian，kuayueyiqiekeguan。

 zenmejingyinghunyinshenghuo?xingfuhunyinshizenyanglianchengde?jiaruniyaozaicizheileiguanxi，niwubijueceshibushinenggoukanxiata。zuizhong，nibukeyihulvechuguixingwei，suihoubixuyaobatamentidaomalubian。