爱上已婚男人怎么办：爱上已婚男人如何断舍离

 mishangyigeyihunnanrengaizenmeban?zheijianyide11geziyouduofanza?tashiyigeshifenyouyiyiheshehui☞ hunyin daodeshangbijiaomingandehuatitaolun。aishangyihunnanrenzenmeban?nanrenyaoweilezijilihunzenmeban?aishangyihunnanrenruheduansheli?

一、爱上已婚男人怎么办：爱上已婚男人如何断舍离

1.考虑到一切关系的均衡

quanbuguanxidougenjuxialiedingyi：

chongdong：tashizijiguancha(shijue)zijidegerenxingweihe/huobiaomianzaojiuyigehenganxingqudetuxiang。

youhuoli：dangzijijuede(xintai)yutuxiangyiwaiderenyoulianluoshi，jiuhuichanshengzheizhongqingkuang。

aiqing：tashichongdongheyouhuolideronghe，zaojiulebixushuipinghuoshendu1deai。

2.要观念到，在人际交往中，存有着不一样的冲动，诱惑力和爱的深度

 aishangyihunnanrenzenmeban?aishangyihunnanrenruheduansheli?hunyinbeijuedeshixihuandezuizhongshendu，bingzhengshinideairenduinibukebimianqiemeiyouliyoudilingrenqinpei，bingjiangyunitongzai，zhizhizuizhong。

 jinguantashiduihunyindehelibiaoshu，danshiyongjiazhijinyugangkaishizheileifuwuchengnuodebenrenxiangtongyoushiyongjiazhi。jiarusuoshuyinsudeshuizhunhuoshendushiqianbode，neimazheileifuwuchengnuoyebujubeiyongjiuxingdelianluo。

 yubiedenvshixiangguandejihunxiaohuo，bulunshizaixingneng，ganqingcengmian，huanshiyiyiqiefangfabufutamendehunyinzhengzhengshiyan，shishishangyemeiyoujiehun(ganqingshang)。

 hunyinshizheixiangchonggaodefaan，(qingxubuwending)，zaiqizhongliangrenyizhaozaowuzhudefalvfaguigongbutamenduixianghudefuwuchengnuoheai。hunyan(shitixian)shiyigedianli，zaiqizhongliangrenxiangqinrenhepenyougongbutamenduixianghudefuwuchengnuoheai。ruguogaixiaohuoweibeifaan(qingxubuwending)，tazhishishihunyan(renti)decanjiazhe。

3.考虑到你俩是不是坚信一夫一妻制

 nanrenyaoweilezijilihunzenmeban?renmenrenheren，buguannanrennvren，nenggouyiqishencengcidiaiyigezuoyouderen。huoxuta/tajiuzheiyangziji，nishizheiban。jiaruquanbugefangduizheizhongqingkuangchiduiwaikaifangxintai，zheinenggouhuodetisheng。

4.为抓住机遇充分准备

 shuozhenhua，jiarutamendexianganbulingrenqinpei，danshennanrenjianghuihuizainiderichangshenghuodaozhidaliangdexijubiaoyan，weihaiheduoyudetongchu。yibanlaishuo，tamenbingbushi。

 tamenhuiqizhanihaoduogeyuenaizhiliangnian，jinijuedeyihuoheyihuo，weihetamenburongyifuwuchengnuo，zhiyuanyiyige“shouhuo”，huoshiyouyichudepenyou。nilejieta：youxiwanjia - youxiwanjia。

 aishangyihunnanrenzenmeban?aishangyihunnanrenruheduansheli?zhenduiyigeyihunnanren，nilejietacengchangshibianchengyigezhongshide，yifuyiqizhideguanxi，erqiejianghuishiyigehaobaba，fuwutigongzheheyigejiechudelianren，quanbuzheizhongquanshirenmennvxingjuededetedianhenanrendemimichongdong。

5.最关键的是离异的

 aishangyihunnanrenzenmeban??xianeryijian，yuyihunnanrenyouyitui，zheijiushinitongchangdouxiangfangzhideshier。yaoshifenqingxi，yuyihunnanrenchanshenghunwailianshizheizhongfeichangrongyicuihuiduozhongxingmingdefangshi ，baohannizishendeyishizhuxing。

 aishangyihunnanrenruheduansheli?yaobimiantaiwan，niyirannenggoujiejinquanlibaozhengzheijianshiqingduinideyishizhuxing，nidelianrendeyishizhuxingjiqitadeqinrendaozhijinliangxiaodesunhai。shidefangshi shicaiquyouxiaobaozhengmeirenzuixianfajuenideshier。xialieshixinxibaomimimiganqingqiaomendehaoduogeshili：

 zhiyougenjuanquanxingdetongxunfangshilianluonidexinren(mimishoujishangshiyigefeichanghaodetiaoxuan)，zhinengruguonijijizhudongdeneishihou，tacaihuiduziyigeren。

 zhongjiububixianbainideguanxi。bubigaozhisuoyouren - naizhijiushinidepenyou。naizhibubiyanzanganshizhehuotanjizheileiguanxi。bubizaigonggongchangsuoyulianrenhuandusuiyue。nimeifalejiehedihuipengdaolejietaderen。

6.从一开始就定下的总体目标

 nanrenyaoweilezijilihunzenmeban?weilefangzhiduoyudexintong(buguannimanbaonideshieryouduohao，zheiquanshijianghuide)，nikeyibaozhengniyunidexinrenjinzaoquelinideguanxidejiexian。biru，ninjianghuibixukaolvdaoshedingxialieyixiexianding：

 lianggeqingrendouburongyiguidinglingyifangyiyiqiefangfarangbutamenyuzhenshideairendeguanxi。lianggeqingrendouburongyichangshiyigengyansurenzhendefangweicujinzheileiguanxi。liangweiqinglvdouyouquanlisuishisuidiwanbihunwailian。

7.维持妒忌的觉得

 tidaoshiwuguanli，dujishizheizhongzaihuo。jiarunishiyigeyihunnanrendemimiqingren，nijueduibixuyaohetadelaopoheqinrenyikuaierduguojuedaduoshushijian。

 dangnibukeyijienaniyeshiyigenvrendekeguanshishi，neimazhenduinieryan，shierjianghuibiyibanlaishuogengcaogao。zhongjiububijinidedujijiniyuelaiyuegengqiang。tanenggouzhengqueyindaoninzuochujianghuizaochengnin，nindelianrenhe/huoqiqinrenshenxianzaihuodejuece。

 aishangyihunnanrenzenmeban?nanrenyaoweilezijilihunzenmeban?jiaruninyaozuochunaonuhuodujidemengliejuece，qingzaigongjiantoutiandenghou。bubirangzishenhaiyoujihuipingjingxialaibingkaolvdaogongjiandequanbubuliangyingxiang。

8.不必变成家中的牺牲品

 tidaoyihunnanrendeshiwuguanli，tashizheishuzhongzuilishiyoujiudetiyi。yuyihunnanrenchanshenghunwailianshizheijianshifencaogaodeshier，keshicuihuitadeqinrendezhuangkuanghenzao。

 zhurenjiayingdanglitamendeaibieren，tadeqinren，feichangshitadexiaohaishifenshifenyuan。bubirangzishenyulianrendeqinrenchupenghuochangshijiangzishenjingzhundingweizailianrenheqinrenzhongjian。

 zheiyitiyiyunilianrendebenshenquanyixiangtongduo，youyudangnichangshiganyutadeqinren，nishishishangshibipotazainiliangdelaopozhongjianzuochutiaoxuan，zheijianghuihuiduinibuliangyingxiang(gengbieshuotadeqinrenjianghuizaodaodesunhaile。