婚姻吵架怎么挽回

　　hunyinchaojiazenmewanhui，jiarukeyizhenzhenglejieaiqingchuxianwentidezhuyaoyuanyin，bawochuliwentidejibensilu，qingchubicizhijiandexiaojiqingxu，buhuizaizenghen、buhuizaixingtongmolu，nimenzhijiandeganqinghaishiyouhendaqidaixiufu。

　　xiamian，qinggeweigenzhewodegousikanyikannimenzhijiandeganqingjiujingnalichulewenti。

　　一、比较严重恋爱问题统一具有的特点

　　zuixiandiyigeyibufen，dajiajiuxuyaoxianzhangwozailianaiwentichuxiandeshihou，bicizhijiandeyixiedicengsiwei。

　　yinweitazhidaoledicengsiwei，caikeyizairuhezuozheigecengmianyouyigefangxiang，buhuichibuzhun，youhuozheshihuzimeimaoyibazhua，bujinbuchuliwenti，haibafangzhizaiyigeshifennanshoudedibu。

　　zaidicengsiweilibianwomenxuyaozhidao——bijiaoyanzhonglianaiwentijuyoudetongyitediandouyousha。

　　1、bicizhijiandexiaojiqingxu

　　geweixueyuan，zailianaiwentixianxianchulaiyiqian，shijishangfufuyijingxianruyidingchengdudexiaojiqingxule。nikenenghuishuo：“tachuguile，taaimeiguanxile，qingxuhaozheni。beishangdezhiyouwoziji。”youhuozheshi，lihundeshita，xianzaidetasatuozheli。jiarunizheimerenweineijiucuole。shijishang，wanaimeidenanrenzijixinli，yechangzaodongbuan，jiaolvqingxu，kuijiu。yinweitadanxinbeifaxianle，yehaipajushiyehuibiandenanyikongzhi。jiaolvbuandejiushitabuxiangbeifajuehuixuyaolaoshenyanzangxuduo，henhaofeisixiang。beifaxianhou，tadeqingxunengbeiliangnvzhuaizhe，qishijiushizijidexiangfazhujianbuyouziji。

　　waiyugenaimeiguanxishiyigedaoli。

　　liangdifenju，zheiyangdeshiqingjiushishuyushuangfangjinzaiyizhongyayigandeqifenzhong。houzhonghepilaogantebieqiang，neizhongganjueshijianzhanglehenrongyishiyigerenduijianglaihaowuxiwang。

　　erlihunni，wulunsheizhichulai，nanguobuyongshuo。shoudangqichongdeganshoujiushi：liangrenxinlidoujuedeshieryuelaiyuefanzale，jushibiandetaifuzale。baohanduiguoqudefouren，jiqizishennongliedeshiluogan。

　　2、彼此的负面思索

　　xinliyanjiubiaoming，yigerenzaixiaojiqingxuxia，sixiangshigengpianzhongyuxiaojihebeiguan。huanjuhuashuo，taduinideyiqiezuofaguandianni，jiuhuidiyishijianxiaojicaicele。

　　julishuoming。niweilewanhuiaiqingzhujianduitagengguanzhule。tazhihuijuededeguanhuaiziwogaibianshiyoujihuadeqiezanshixingdegenggai。yidantahuigui，niyejiuhuibaoluyuanbenyingduiquchengfata。

　　yincizaixiufuguanxideanlizhong，jingchanghuitingdaofancuowudeneiyigeshuo：womenbuxuyaozheimezuo，womenbuxuyaoxingxingzuotai。yeshizheigedaoli。

　　3、bicizhijiandejiebeixinli

　　pengdaobijiaoyanzhongganqingweijiyihou，bicizhijiandejiebeixinfeichangqiang。zheizhongzhuangtaixia，daozhishuangfangdouburongyizhenchengzishen，bukeyixiangyiqianyiyanghenqingsongdigoutongjiaoliu。jiusuanyoushishuoshijiuhuibeimengshangyicengzhuguanxingerbuyiyuganqingxiufudelijie。

　　yincizaizheizhongzhuangtaixia，zhongsuozhouzhi，chizemaiyuanhuoshibaotoutongkudejiaoliuzishitongchangshiwuxiaode。gengyouxiaogoutongfangfabenshenjiushidongdeshangtan。suoyizhiyoutanpanfangshinengrangshuangfangzaigoutongjiaoliudeneiyigeshixialinshixiexiafangbei，chanshengyouxiaodegoutong。

　　二、商谈逐渐，怎样进一步降低另一方戒备心

　　wulunnayizhongqinggankunhuodouxuyaoxianxiaochutifangcaikeyijinxingyouxiaogoutong。

　　shixiangyixia，ruguonigennidelingyibanmingquetichuletanyitan。genjutazuoleshanghainideshier，tadediyifanyingziranjiushibutaihao，woxiangshoudaogongjile。tadexinlibianhuijianqiyidaobaohuqiang。zheiyibaohuqiangjiushiwomenshuodejiebeixin。

　　yinciwomenzaishuozhongdianyiqian，yidingyaoxianjianshaoduifangjiebeixincaikeyi，yaoburannisuoshuoderenhehua，dounengbeilingyifangxiaojijiangjie。zheiyangdajiajiumeiyoubanfayouxiaodegoutong，shangtandoushiqibuledajialixianghuadezuoyongde。zheilitigongsangepubiandefangyu，jiqiwomenruhequtanjiukejianshaofangyuli。

　　第一种种类：

　　shinibuzhisuoyibuzhidaozaizheiduanganqinglinaerhaibugouhao，naerzuocuoleshiqingshi，dannidelingyibanquezuochuleshanghainideshi。

　　zheiyangdeshiqingjianshaofangyudeguanjianzaiyushangtandiyijuyaoliangmingshenfen。rangtayishidaotashenfen，ertazuolebuhuishihezijizhenshishenfendeshiqing。bingqieyeduitashuo，renshuwucuoban，jinguannizuocuoshidanniyeshiwodebanlv。fangzhitajuedenizaoyichedifoudingta。

　　第二种种类：

　　hunyinchaojiazenmewanhui，shinilaojuedetazailakaini，erqieyudaokunnannanyijijigoutongde，xiayishihuibideairen，zheileiairenbenzhiziworentongganfeichangdi，tebiehaipabeipiping。yincizaifancuoshi，niyijiunengkeguanshuochutadehao。jiuhuifangxiafangbei。

　　yinci，shangtandiyijudexianrentonglingyifang。ziranwomenbuyinggairentongtadecuowuzuofa。danshinenggouzhaodaotabiededeyoushiqurentong。

　　第三种种类：

　　shinilaojuedepiqibuhao，aichizedebanlv，feichangmingxiandeshuangbiaodijuede。zheileiairenshibijiaoqiangshiheziwo，taqianwanbunengjieshouduifangzitaigaoguozishen，jiarutafaxianduifangzitaigaoyuzishenhuichanshengfanpanxintai。

　　zheileiairenshangtandiyiju，dexianchengrencuowu。liru，congmouzhongyiyishanglaishuoshuotaxianshuoyixiatazaihunyinzhongdewenti，danshibuyaoduoshuo。yidaolianggediannenggou，yinweinishuodetaiduole，fandaorangrenjuedeninicuodaowuyaokejiule，neinimeiyouzigegenwotan。yilianggedianzhenghao。qishijiushiranghaizijuedenizaitagenqianbingmeiyougaoyuta，shibizijidi，keshibuhuidiyulingtabumieshidechengdu。tajiubuhuiyinweidanxinzijihaibugouhaoerjianqitifangle。

　　wohaijideyouyigexueshenggaosuwo，tanpanzhonglingyifangyagenbuanzhaonidejubenzougaizenmeban?zheiyangdeshiqingneiyidingshibingmeiyouxiandaobaituolingyifangdefangyu。zaochenglingyifangyaozaijiebeixinxiatingnishuohuade，dangrannizaishuoshenmetabianfanzhelai。yinci，shangtankaishizhiqian，yidingyaojianshaoduifangjiebeixin。