婚姻大战，没有赢家

 ruhe wanhuihunyin ?hunyindezhanshiyouhenxingshiduoyang，danwulunnayangfangshi，woxiangyaoshijidejieguoquanshixiangtongde，zheierrenmenyihunyinzhongdelengbaolizuogejianyidebiaoming，qidaichuzaihunyinzhanshizhongdefufunenggou jinkuaijuewu。wanhuidehuazenmeshuo?

 zenmewanhuilaopo?1gepingwendexitongruanjian，zuyuanzhongjianyingdangyougaoaigaodizhifen。dadaorenmenshehuifazhan，xiaodaoqiyejigou，doubixukaishelingdaohexin，qubieshangxiazuoyoudengji，meiyouzheiyiqiantitiaojian，renmenjiushishuoyipansansha。yilvpingdengdaliangdejiushizhirengetezhi，erbingbushidiwei。rutongchedigongpingdeshehuifazhanqianquegaoxiaolv，yingxiangliguodutiejindefufuqianque“lingdaohexin”(zhenshiqiangjingdenanshengfandaogengfeichangrongyishumianchengrencuowu，youyutabuzaiyishengfu)，ruguofashengzhengzhi，feichangrongyishenggaodaolengbaoli。

 ruhewanhuihunyin?yizhiyilaiwoguofufuquanshi“nanqiangnvruo”dezucheng，biciqiguxiangdangdehanyi，wojuedejiushishuonvxingdexiangduixingqianghanhenanshengdexiangduixinglieshi。huanjuhuashuo，laopochuziyuguishugan、 “wangfuchenglong”denggezhonggeyangyuangu，xianggenjubakongnansheng，mailixunzhaohunyindezhudongquan，erzheiyijudongbiranxingdiduifuquanzhidaozhileqinhai。zheileiqinhaizhiyincinengzhangshijianjuyou，youyubujinbicichuziyubuganhuoxiaohaidengyaosubukenliyi，yucitongshinanshengyoumeifawanquanzhengfu2huoshuncongnvxing，yinci，lengbaolimanmanzaicile。

 wanhuidehuazenmeshuo?yincishuo，liangzhizhangqixinglengbaolidefufu(liru5nianzuoyou)，tamenzhongjianshiyouganqingjibende(tebieshizaiyouxiaohaiyihou)，buran2weizaoyikuataile。mouzhongchengdushang，tamenyoukechengzuo“fazhanzhanlveduishou”，jihuxiangkangzhengyouxianghuyilai，guanjiansuozaizenmenengzuixianniuzhuanjumian。danzheimeibanfa。youyuzhengchaojinjin“yuyanbaoli”，erlengbaoliguishuyu“jingshenshizhibaoli”，bicidouqianquebiaoshudereqingyuhehaodeyuwang。“tiankongyutiandidiliu，fuqichaojiabujihen。”zheibiaomingzhengchaoshifuqijiandezheizhongyiqiezhengchangmoheqi。shenmeshi“yiqiezhengchangmoheqi”?jiushishuozhengchaodeneirongbudanshifenshiji，bingqie“kaituochuangxin”，mudishiyibianchulifazhanqushizhongdenanti。

 zenmewanhuilaopo?liangzhilengbaolidefufumeiriyishizhuxingyiqi，jiurutonggen1gefangandelurenyikuaierzuo1nianlieche——bu!naizhihaibibushang，youyulurenzaifangan，changyoushanliangdediqu，zaozhongwandajiahaihuibianchengpenyou。erlengbaolifufurutongyuzhouyushichang，bicitiantianjian，meitianzhuan，danshijianjuzhongjiuyunsuyundongbuhuigaibian。haibingbushichaimoshisha?nenggou xiangxiangdaoneibandeqingjingle，fufubulunshizhangqixingrezhanhuanshilengbaoli，zuihoubushufudequanshixianghubici，naizhihaihuisuishenxiedaixiaohai，neimacikewanhuihunyinxucongnayifangmianxueqini?

 congrendebenxingshifangdeshijiaoquwang，lengbaolishijianchaochu2nian(naizhi1nian)defufu，shifenbixuyongxinkaolvdaozenyangchulizheiyinanti。yaobulingyifangjijituoxie(baohanjingjifazhanshang)，xuehuifangxiazizunxin，zhongguiyuhao;yaobuxieyilihun，gebendongxi，dahuoeryoujihuizuopenyou。

zhongzhihunyinguogongneizhan，wanhuihunyin。