谈婚论嫁需要考虑的问题

 bushaorenhuizaijiehunzhiqianjiuhuitongjushihun，bijingtongjushihunjiunengkandaowomenlianggerenzaiyiqigongtongshenghuoshifouheshi。xiayibujiukeyi tanhunlunjia le，keshizaitanhunlunjiawomenyeyaokankanjiehunxuyaokaolvdewenti。

他的缺点自己能否接受

 bukenengmeigerendouwanmei，meiyourenhequedian，zaiyouxiudenanrendouhuiyouquediande。genghekuangwomenzijidouyoubuzuzhichu，buyaoqukekebieren，zhaolaogongbingbushizhaozuiyouxiude，ershiyaozhaozuiheshizijide。zaijiehunqianfangliangyanjing，wenwenzijixiangchuzheixieshijiantadequedian，zijinengbunengjieshou。

生孩子的事情

 suiranshenghaizishilianggerendeshiqing，danshidaodishengbushenghaishiyounizijilaijuedingde，suoyizaishenghaizizheigeshiqingshangmianyidingyaodachenggongshi，yaozhidaodaodishibushinizijikeyijuedingde，ruguotabuyunxunizijijuedingdehua，ernixiangzijijueding，neimenimenzhijianjiuhuiyoufenqi，nimenjiuyinggaizhongxinkaolvyixiashifouyinggaijiehunle。

共同的生活目标

 haiyoukankannimenzhijianyoumeiyougongtongdeshenghuomubiao。dagebifangshuo，ruguoniweilaideshenghuomubiaoshimaifang，ertademubiaoqueshimaichedehua，neimenimenzhijiandezijinjiuwufahelideyunyong，daodishimaifanghaishimaiche，zijinjiubuzhidaogaiyongdaonagefangmian，nimenzhijianyehuiyouhenduodemaodun，zhengchao，suoyiyidingyaoweiweilaidingyigemubiao，kankannimennengfoudachenggongshi，ruguonengdachenggongshidehua，jiushuomingnimenkeyijiehun，yihouyebuhuiyoutaidadezhengchao。

彼此是否信任。

 hunyinyaoxiangxingfu，huxiangxinrenshibixude。neixiezhenzhengenaidefuqi，duibicidoushitanbaide，meiyouqipian，meiyouyinman。xiangfan，ruguobunengxianghuxinren，ganshenmeshidouyishenyiguide，qunalidouyaozhiyishenwen，xiangxiangdoushihenleide。

lianggerenzhijiancengjingnaoguodemaodundouyoushenme

 hunqianguanxizaihaodelianggeren，daolejiehunyihoubidinghuichuxianfenqi。danguanjianwentibuzaiyunimenshifoucunzaimaodun，erzaiyuzheizhongmaodunfenqidaodishishenme?ruguozhishiguandianbuyiyang，zaihunhoukaolvyixiagairuhexiediaomaodun。ruguoshiyuanzeshangdewenti，zheihunjiebujiehaiyaohaohaokaolvyixia。