henduonvhaizongshishuozijiquefazijiquefaziji“anquangan”,shenzhiyinweiquefaanquangan,zidongfangqiyiduanganqinghuohunyin。yinweihaipashoushang,tamenxuanzexiantaopao。anquan,zimianyisishigandaoanquanheanquan。zheishiduiwendingheanquandexinlixuqiu。zheishiwobibukeshaodejingshenxuqiu。xuduoanquanganshiyizhongganjue,butongderenhuiyoubutongdedingyi。laogongmeihuilaishuibuzhegaizenmefa?henduorenshuo,nvxingdeanquanganlaiziyuwaichushibaolideqianbaoheyaochi,yijishoujiliquandianliang。sihuyouhenhaodeliyou,danshijishangyouhenduowujie。
1.我想如果我有足够的钱,对生活有信心,我就会有安全感
meiguokexuejiafaxianle20mingzaitiyucaipiaozhonghuojianghouyiyebaofuderen,bingweitamentianxielewenjuan。qizhongyigewentishi,“nirenweinidexingfuhuichixuduojiu?”daduoshurenyiyibeizi,zhishaoliangnian。
shishishang,zaiyiyebaofuzhihou,zheizhongrenmeitiandouzainulishengqian,chongmanlexingfu。raner,jingguoliugeyuedesuifang,zheixierenzaihuojiangqianyouyibandexingfuyijinghuifule。yinianhou,meigerendexingfudouhuidaolezhifuzhiqiandeshuiping。
henduorenxianmu“fuerdai”he“guanerdai”wojuedetamenyichushengjiuyouzijideguanghuan,suoyiyihoubuyongdanxinshenghuowenti,suoyiyaoyouanquangan。danshishishang,fuerdaiheguanerdaitongchangbiputongjiatingdehaizigengbuanfen。
2.如果我工作好,能力强,我也觉得安全
waiguorenhaiduishengzhijiaxinjinxinglekexueyanjiu。faxian3ren。~liugeyuehou,manyiduheanquangandebiaozhunzhiyouhuidaoleshengzhijiaxinqiandezhuangtai。
gongzuozhishishenghuodeyibufen,bunengqudaisuoyoudeganguan。
3.找一个爱我的男朋友或女朋友,我有安全感
xuduonianqingrendouyouzheiyangdexiangfa,tamengandaobuanquan,tamentongguoyaoqiubierendeailaihuodeduanzandexingfu。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia,jishinijiehunle,yehennanzhangqiwending。
hunyinguanxiyaoyouanquangan,buyaoxiwanghunyinguanxijiwomenanquangan。
yinci,anquanganbuyingzhuyaotixianzaijinqian、yingxiangli、qinmiqingrendengfangmian。anquanganzaihendachengdushangshijiyuzijidexinnian,zheishimeigerenxinzhongdeqidian。jishiyouyitian,womenzaoshoulezainan、fenshouhecaiyuandeyanzhongdaji,womenyehuigandaobuanquan,danwomenzuizhonghuihuidaoqidian。
不安全感会给你带来什么?
suiran,anquanganzhishiyizhongganjue,danquefaanquanganhuiduimeigerenzaochengshanghai。
1.很难进入婚姻关系。即使你这样做了,你也不知道如何正确和流畅。丈夫晚回家怎么发?/信去谈他?
xuduonianqingfufujianchi“sheibaxinfangzaidiyiwei,sheijiushule”yuanze。zaiyiduanguanxizhong,taiduoderentaojiahaijia,taiduoderenshengchengtamenyijingzaixinlishixianle。jingchangyinweihaipashiqu,meiyouzhujianxuanze,ranhoucuoguoleyizhongganjue。
jiuxiangyiduichaojiadefufuyiyang,nvrenzongshitanlunlihun。tazhendexianglihunma?bushi。jutilaishuo,tadanxinduifanghuixianbikaita,suoyizuihaoxianlikai,yimianbeidiuqihesunhuai。zheiyeshibuanquandezhuyaobiaoxianzhiyi。zhangfuwanhuijiazenmefa?/xinqutanta?
zhenzhengdehunyinguanxiyinggaishikuansongde。yizhibengkui,haipaduifanglikaiziji,zongshizaochengduifangdepilao。zaiyuleye,xuheyijinglianaiduonianle,dantamenconglaimeiyouxiangguoyaojiehun。xuzaihuiyingdajiadecuicushishuo:“wobushidanshen,wojiehunle,buzaihuxianshizhuyi。yizhangzhibunengbaozhengmeigerendouguodehenhao,doushenghuozaiaizhong。”
2.缺乏安全感会导致生活焦虑
ruguonirangyigemeiyouanquanganderenjinkenengdishifangyali,tajiuzuobudao。
shenxinjiaolv、huijijiaolv、gongzuojiaolvyijisuoyoudedongzuodouhuiwenqilaiwufakongzhi、bengkuishenzhihuimie。
jiuxiangyigezaiwoshenbianmeiyouanquangandepenyou,xiongtongdeshihouhuixiangxiangzijishibushideleruxianai。laobanpipingta,tafanshen,huadeqianchaochuyusuanjiushuibuzhejue。tahuixiangdaoweilaidepinqionghexiepo。
yinci,meiyouanquanganderenxuyaobiyibanhuozhederengenglei。
3.缺乏安全感导致缺乏自信
quefaanquanganderenzongshirenweibierenzuodehenhao。tamenkanqilaihenhao,nenglihenhao,dantamengandaoyituanzao。tamenbuzhidaoruhejujuebieren,taoyanjibierendailaibubian。
zheizhongbiaoxianzaiqingganshangyouweimingxian。
laogongmeihuilaishuibuzhegaizenmefa?jiuxiangyulequandexiaogonggongshijianyiyang,tamenzongshihushiaiqing,shenzhibuxiangxinzijipeibushangzhouweideren,yinweitamenreaizhengrongshoushu。
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