结婚两年天天吵架想离婚 想离婚行不行？

 suhuashuo，wulunfuqiduomexiangai，tamendouyoulihundechongdong。ruguomaodunjileidebudaojiejue，jiuhuibianchengmeitiandezhengchao。jiehunliangniantiantianchaojiaxianglihunzenmeban？nixianglihunma？dangran，meigerendouyouxuanzedequanli。zainijuedingshifoujieshuhunyinzhiqian，woxiwangninengqingchudikaolvnidehunyinshifouxingfu。

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 fuqichaojiadeyuanyinyouhenduo，youxieshiwaibuyuanyinzaochengde，birupoxiguanxibuhe，juedepopochuchuzhenduini，buxihuanni；zhangfugongzuotaimang，bunengzhaogujiating，quefapeibanhezhaogu；yifangbuyuanyizhaoguhaizi，zuodianzhu，zhiguanxinzijidengdeng。

 yeyouyixiefuqichaojiashiyouneizaiyuanyinyinqide。birufuqixinggebuhe，chabietaida，buyuanyihuxiangbaorong，zhixiangweishuyingerzhan；fuqibutongyiduifangdeguandian，buxihuanduifangdezuofa。renweiduifangdexiangfashicuowude，suoyikaijiao。

 ruguoniyinweishangshuyuanyinmeitianchaojia，lihunbushimingzhidexuanze，yinweilihunbujinhuishanghainiziji，haihuishenshenshanghainidehaizihejiaren。

 ruguonilihunmeiyoujiejuehunyinzhongdezhengchao，neimezaiweilaijinruyiduanxindehunyinguanxizhongrengranhuiyoutongyangdewenti。danghunyinfashengchongtushi，xuehuijiejueweijishimingzhide。

ruguonizhendebuxianglihun，shizheanzhaoyixiabuzhoujiejuezhengchaowenti。

第一步：态度温和

 zhengchaozuihaipadeshixiangfandehuaihua。ruguoshuangfangdouhenxingfen，tamenhuijuewangdishuoyixietebieyouhaidehua。baochiwenhedetaidu，yibimianchukoushanghai。

 dangnizhunbeihepeioutaolunmougewentishi，shouxianyaokaolvruheshuohuawenhe。liru，nixiwangnidezhangfubuyaorengxiezi。nixiangshuo：“nengbunengbuluanrengxiezi？”zhangfuganshoudaodeshipiping。

 yiwenhedefangshishuo：“woxiwangninengbaxiezifangzaixiejiashang。”dangnizainaohaizhongxiangdaozuiwenroudefangshi，ranhoushuochulai，nidetaiduhuiwenroudeduo。

mianduinidewenrou，peiouhuibiandewenrou，piping、bianhuhebaoyuanhuijianshao。

第二步：说出你的想法

 dangniwenmougewentishi，nikeyishunbianshuoyixianidexiangfa。liru，dangzhangfuluanfangxiezishi，nikeyiwen：“wojuedebaxiezifangzaixiejiashangbijiaohao，xiwangninengzuodao。”

 yexunizhangfubutongyinidexiangfa，taxiangyaoziyou，kenenghuibianhu，huozhezhizenizaiqitadifangzuodebuhao：“worangnimeitiandasaofangjian，nimeiyoudasao。”

 ranhounikeyitichu，xianzairangwomenyiqinulijiejuezheigewenti。ruguozaitaolunguochengzhongzaicifashengzhengchao，jishitingzhi，gaosuduifang“qingwenroudishuohua”“qingbuyaojiaowo”。fuqishuangfangshenzhikeyitongyi，wulunsheikaishiyishidaozhengchao，douyaotingxialai。

第三步：保持冷静

 zaitaolunzheigewentishi，henkenenghuichuxianni、wohezhengchaodejieguo。ruguoduifangzaizheigeshihoubiandeqingxuhua，qingjishianweita。dangran，nixuyaobaochilengjing，cainenganweiduifang。ruguonimendouqingxuhua，jiubukenengzheiyangzuo。

 suoyinixuyaoyongyixiedongxilaitixingzijilengjingxialai，biruzaipangbianxieyigejing，diaozhengyigenaozhong，dangnaozhongxiangqishi，fansinishifoulengjingxialai，ruguonibiandeqingxuhua，tingzhizhenglun，xiuxi，zuoyixiefangsongdeshiqing，anweiziji。liru，tingyinle，kanmeilidefengjing。

 dangnilengjingxialaishi，niyekeyihuadianshijianrangduifanglengjingxialai，anfutadeqingxu。dangshuangfangdoupingjingxialaishi，nikeyijixutaolunzheigewenti。

第四步：互相让步

 henduowentizhisuoyihuifashengzhengchao，shiyinweinibutongyi。tarenweiniyinggaizheiyangzuo，nirenweiniyinggaizheiyangzuo。ruguolianggerenjianchizijidexiangfa，xiwangduifangtingzijidehua，wentiyongyuanjiejuebule。

 jiuxianglianggehaizizhenglunsheiyinggaizailushangzhaodaowanjuyiyang，shuangfangdoujianchi“jiwo”，suoyimeiyourennengwan，zhiyouyifangyuanyiranglingyifangxianwan，lianggerendoukeyiwan。hunyinzhongdexuduomaodunyeshiruci，zhiyoudangyifangyuanyirangbu，tongyilingyifangdexiangfashi，wenticaihuidedaojiejue。

 rangbubushifangqinidexiangfa，ershitingduifangdehua。nixuyaocongxinlishangsikaorangbu，yinweiniyuanyijieshouduifangdeyingxiang。nikeyicongduifangdejiaodulailijietaweishenmeyaozheiyangzuo。jishinirenweitadexiangfashicuowude，zhiyaonibufuchutaiduo，niyekeyirangtachengdanziranhouguo。

 jiuxiangpeioubixujianchizouyitiaoxiaoluyiyang，dangtafaxianzheitiaolubunengdaodamudedishi，taziranhuizounizhidelu。ruguoshuangfangnenghuxiangrangbu，henrongyizhaodaoshuangfangdounengjieshoudejiejuebanfa。

第五步：在问题中和谐相处

hunyinzhongdeyixiewentikeyitongguoxieshangjiejue，birusheilaijiehaizi，sheifuzemaicaizuofandengdeng。

 danyouxiewentihennantongguotanpanlaijiejue，birupeioushibeifangren，xihuanchiyidalimian，dannixiwangtafangqiyinshixiguan，meitianheniyiqichimifan，tabuhuitunxiaqu。peioushiyuzhaizu，dannizongshidaitacanjiagezhongjuhui，tabennengditaoyanzheizhongchanghe。

duiyuzheizhongbunengtongguorangbujiejuedewenti，womenxuyaoxianghulijie，bingxuehuizaiwentizhonghexiexiangchu。

 liru，kuaguoqinglv，bunengjieshoubicicongxiaojiuxihuandeshiwu，suoyiliangzhongshiwudouzhunbeihaole，lianggezaiyizhangzhuozishang，yigechizhongcan，yigerenchixicanyekeyihexiexiangchu。

 jiehunliangniantiantianchaojiaxianglihunzenmeban？shishishang，lihunbingbushigaibianfuqimeitianzhengchaodehaofangfa，nulijiejuehunyinchongtushi。dangnishituguanlihunyin，xuehuihuxiangzunzhong，huxiangxinshang，baochihexiedehunyinguanxishi，nibuhuigandaolei，dannihuijuedenikeyibiandekuaile。