结婚以后天天吵架为什么 怎么快速改善家庭关系

 henduorendoushuo“aiqingjiuxiangyizuoweicheng，chengliderenxiangchuqu，chengwaiderenxiangjinlai”wulunshizaidianshishanghaishizaixianshizhong，nidoukeyikandaoyixielizi：zhangfubuxihuanqizibudongziji，wanshanghuilaigongzuohenxinku，danhaishiyaozuogezhongjiawu，zhangfubuxihuanqizimeitianzhaoguziji，shuangfangdouburangbu，suoyijiatingguanxihenzaogao。jiehunyihoutiantianchaojiaweishenme？

 youxienanrenshuo，youqishiqizishenghaizishi，jiatingdezhongxinwanquanluozaihaizishenshang，congzhaoguhaizidaoweihaizixuanzeyoueryuan，meiyigexijie，wuluntamenduomenuliyebunengdedaoqizidekending，zheirangnanrenjingchangjuedetamenzhishiyigezhuanqiandegongju，wangwangqizizhendekanbudaozhangfudenuli，zaizheiyangdehuanjingxia，hunhouzhengchaoshibukebimiande。

 suoyiruguonixianzaiyemianlinzheiyangdeweiji，fuqizongshishuohua，zongshihuxiangzhize，suoyijintianxiaobianhuijiaoniyixieshuohuajiqiao，rangnizhaogujiating，yekaolvshuangfangdeganqing：

1.不要刺伤对方的自尊

 airendouzui，zuixihuankaiwanxiaodehua，duifangwangwangbukebimiandikuazhanghechoulou，danzheizhongkuazhanghechoulouxuyaozhaoguduifangdezizun，bunengwuruduifangdegexing，gengbuyongshuochaoxiaoduifangdeshengliquexianhuoyanzhongshanghaiduifangzunzhongdeqinqihepengyou，yewakuduifangrenweishenshengderenheshi，fouzekenengwuliao，bukaixin。

2.说话时要注意对方的心情

 woxiangmeigerendouyouguozheiyangdejingli。dangnixinqingyukuaideshihou，nikeyisuibiankaiwanxiao。danshi，ruguonideairenweifannaoerchoumeikulian，quesuibiankaiduifangdewanxiao，neimeduifangkendinghuibunaifandishuonibunengxiatai，zuizhongjiatingguanxizhihuichaozheehuadefangxiangfazhan。

3.换位思考很重要

 zaishuohuahezuoshizhiqian，niyinggaikaolvnidehuashifouhuishanghaibieren。huanweisikaohenzhongyao。zuozhangfuderenyinggaikaolvqizizaijialidediweiheduifangweijiatingsuozuodeyiqie。jiehunyihoutiantianchaojiaweishenme？suoyi，suiranyoushihouduifanghuilaotaoziji，danyidingyaoxuehuihuanweisikao。xiangtongzheiyidian，xiacinixiangbaoyuandeshihoukenenghuixiaoxin。tongyang，duinideqizilaishuoyeshiruci。