结完婚发现老公不行怎么办 没有安全感应该怎么办？

 xianzaiyouhenduorenzongshiyouyizhongbuanquangan，youqishiduinvrenlaishuo，hunhouzhangfudehushi，tamenmeiyoujingjilaiyuandengkenenghuidaozhinvrendebuanquangan，suoyinvrenyouzheizhongganjue，yinggaizenmezuo？jiewanhunfaxianlaogongbuxingzenmeban？

1.学会表达

 henduonvrenzaijuedejiatingyalihendadeshihou，zongshibazheizhongganjuefangzaixinli，huozhemomingqimiaodefapiqihou，bushuoshishenmeyuanyin，haijuedezhangfuwufalijieziji。qishinikeyishizhexiangduifangbiaoda，rangduifangzhidaonihenbuan，shishenmeyuanyin。zhangfuzhidaonidedanxinhou，ruguotazhendeshiyigefeichangfuzerendefuzerendenanren，tahuigaibiande。nishuohuadeshihou，xinlihuishufuhenduo。

2.给自己留点空间

 nvrenjiehunhou，duchudeshijianyuelaiyueduan，meitianchulegongzuo，haimangyujiatingdedaxiao。shishishang，nikeyishizhejizijiyixieduchudeshijian，nikeyizaizheiduanshijianneizuoyixienixihuandeshiqing，huozhefenxinidexin，suizheshijiandetuiyi，dangnikaishixiangshouduchudeshiguangshi，nihuifaxianshenghuodelequ。

3.知道知足在婚姻中并不是所谓的、完全的安全感

 womenbunengdadaoyizhonganquandezhuangtai，yinweiwomenzhouweideyiqiedouzaigaibian，youshiwomenshenzhibunengjizijixiangyaode，womenzenmenengquebaolingyigerenhuijiwomenni？yinci，womenrengranyinggaizhenxitamenxianzaiyongyoudeyiqie，zhidaoruhemanzu，xiangshoujishimeiyouanquangandemei。

 shishishang，zhongdenvrenmeiyouanquangan，hendachengdushangshinanrenzaochengde。jiewanhunfaxianlaogongbuxingzenmeban？nanrenzuoweijiatingdezhizhu，yaoxiangrangqizigengyouanquangan，shouxianyaozuoyigefuzerenderen，lengjinglixingdichulishiqing，erbushilumangdichongshangqu，jirenyizhonghenyouzhideganjue。