老公欠债还出轨我该怎么办 最佳处理方式

 nanrendeqipianbingbuyiweizhewanquandebeipan，zuoweiyigeqizi，shouxianyaobaochilixing，jishijiejubushihenhao，yebuhuitaiganga。laogongqianzhaihaichuguiwogaizenmeban？

丈夫出轨我该怎么办？

 duiyuchuyuhunyinpoliebianyuandenilaishuo，zheilianggewentiwuyishimuqianzuixuyaojiejuedewenti。zhiyaozheilianggewentidedaojiejue，nijiunengwanquannizhuandangqiandejiangju，chengweizheiduanhunyindeyingjia。

 suoyijintian，morandaoshi，wojianggenjuwozaiqingganhuifuxingyedejingyanlaihuidazheilianggewenti，binggaosuniyixiefangfalaibangzhuhuifu。

zhangfuchuguiwogaizenmeban？zhangfuchuguihouzuihaodechulifangfa

 dajiahao，woshilengmohelengmoqinggandechuangshiren。zaicongshiqingganhuifuxingyede10nianli，woconghunyinxiufu、fenshouhuifu、disanfangfenlisangebankuaiweidajiajiejuelewenti，chenggonghuifule5wangeanli+，yifengfudejingyanhezhuanyedefuwuzhiliang，jiejuequanguogedidesuoyouqingganwenti，husongnidehunyin！henduorenzailianxiwoshidouhuiwenwozheiyangyigewenti：xiangtamenzijizheiyangdeqingkuanghainenghuifuma？

duiyuzheigewenti，laoshiwozhinenggaosuniyijuhua：xingfudejiatingshiyiyangde，buxingdejiatingyouzijidebuxing。

suoyi，ruguonizhendexiangzhidaozheigewentidedaan，neimewojianyinigaosuwonidexijie。

zhiyoulejienidexijie，wocaiyouzigehuidazheigewenti。

 yinweimeigerendeqingkuangdoubuyiyang，youdeshipoxiwenti，youdeshizhangfuchugui，youdeshigoutongwenti，butongdewentiyoubutongdejiejuefangan。zhiyoulejienidejutiqingkuang，laoshi#weixin#cainengweinizhidingzuiyouxiaodehuifufangfa。

 suoyibingbushisuoyoudefangfadouduiniyouxiao，woxiwangninenglijielaoshi，zhendemeiyoubanfazaiyipianwenzhangzhongweimeigerenhuidawenti。

danzaihuifuqijian，youxieyouliyuhuifuguochengdeshunlijinxing.woxianzaikeyihedajiafenxiangyixiahuanhenimenguanxidefangfa。

1.做出改变

 dangxuduonvrenkandaozheiyidianshi，tamenhuigandaofeichangjingya，yinweitaxianranqipianleta，tatichulihun，taduizheiduanhunyinbufuze，weishenmeyaozijizuochugaibianni？

zheishibushitaibugongpingle？

suoyizaizheililaoshiyaogaosuniyijuhua：sheitongku，sheigaibian，sheigaibian，sheishouyi。

 nixianzaizhisuoyirucitongku，shiyinweinixianzaichuyuhunyindediwei，zuochugaibianshiweilerangzijibiandegenghao，rangzijichuyuhunyindegaowei，zheiyangnidehunyincainengdejiu。

那么如何改变呢？

zheilizhuyaofenweilianggefangmian：waibutisheng。

 yigeyoumeilidenvrenfeichangzhuzhongzijidewaibiao，zhidaoruhedabanziji，xuehuidaban，huigenjuzijideshencaixuanzezijideyifu，rangzijibiandegengpiaoliang，rangzhangfuxiangshoumei。

yinci，nvrenyaoxuehuidabanziji，cainengzhanxianzijidemeili，nimenhunyindechijiuxingcaihuizengjia。

内在提升。

 zaizheifangmian，nixuyaonongqingchunihenizhangfudelihunweijishishenmeyuanyin，birugoutongbuchang、ganqinglengdan、zhangfuchugui、wufachulipoxiguanxideng。zheishi，nixuyaoduizhengxiayao，zuochugaibian。

2.增加丈夫的投资

 zengjiaduifangdetouzibaokuoshijiantouzi.jinqiantouru.shentitouru.qinggantouru，tongguozijidehaizikeyirangtahuijiachifan，zheiyeshishijiantouru。

juticaozuoyouyixiajidiankegongcankao。

a.yiqizuojiawuhuorangtaweinizuojiawu

tongguogongtongdecanyu，bujinnengzengjinnimenzhijiandeganqing，hainengrangduifangyishidaojiatingdewennuan。

dangtazuoleyixierangnigandaotebiewennuandeshiqingshi，reqingdihuiyingta，bingjitayixiejiangli。

taxiacihuiyouyishidiquzuozheixieshiqing，yinweitaxiangbeijiangli。

b.dangtabangnijiejueyixiekunnanshi，yaoshidangdibiaoyangta，kendingtadenengli

 meicitabangnijiejuekunnan，nidouhuizhenchengdizanmeita。tahuiyuelaiyuezixin，yuelaiyueyuanyiweinijiejuewenti。jishitabuxuyaonidadianhua，tayehuizhudongwennishifouyoushenmexuyaotabangzhude。

c.youxieshiqingjitazuojuedinghou，yaoxiangxinta，shihoubuyaobaoyuan

jiranyijingzuochulexuanze，buguanjieguoruhe，douyinggaiyiqichengdan，erbushiyiweidebaoyuan。

ruguonimeicidouduitadexuanzebiaoshixinshanghexiyue，tahuiyuelaiyuexihuanheniyiqijiejuewenti。

3.学会有效沟通

wanjiuhunyinzuizhongyaodeyinsu，qishizhiyouyige，liaotian。

zuichulianaishiyinweiliaotian，zuihoufenshoushiyinweibunengliaotian，zuihouhuifuchenggongshiyinweiliaotian。

 ruguofuqizhangshijianbushuohua，jiuhuixingchengxinlizhangai。tamenzhijiandegoutongzhangaiheduixuduoshiqingdekanfafashenglebianhua。ruguoyifangfashenglebianhua，danlingyifangrengzaiyuanditabu，jiuhuixingchengsuoweidenigenbushangwodejiaobu，womenzhijianjiuhuishiquhuati。

dongsanchi，bushiyitianzhihan。

 dangniyishidaohunyinwentishi，tabushiyiliangtianzaochengde。ruguonixuanzejixulengzhan，erbushizhaodaomaodundehexin，tazhihuibaniladeyuelaiyueyuan，zuizhongdaozhilihundebeiju。

 laogongqianzhaihaichuguiwogaizenmeban？yinci，shouxianyaochengrennimenzhijiandemaodun，ranhouzhaochuyuanyin，naixinchuandizhencheng，zhongqigoutongheduihua，xuehuiqingting。