老公情商低怎么办 怎么做

 youhenduozhinanhuitebiexianmuneixieqingsheng，qingshanggao，suibianyijuhuakeyiquyuenvhai，dantamenrengranbuzhidaoruhedazhaohuhedanxin，neilaogongqingshangdizenmeban？

一、说话做事不考虑别人的经历

 yaolijie，bukaolvbierendejinglihezhiyanbuhuiyouhenduoqubie`。qingshangdiderentongchanghuishanghaibieren。ruguotamenyouxinquzuo，neijiukeyile。kongpatamenshenzhibunenglijieziji。shuobaile，jishiyanjiangzheshiwuyide，guanzhongyeyouxin。

 yidaqunputongrenheyigecanjirenzaiyiqi。ruguoshuohuaderenqingshangzhishangbugao，zaiyanyuhexingweishanghaowuguji，buduantanluncanjirendehuayu，bierenhuikanzheta。ruguotanenglijietadeyanjing，tahuilijizhongzhi，zheikeyisuanshiyidianqingshanghezhishang。kongpatahuishuojijuhua“nidingzhewozuoshenme”meigerendouhenganga。

第二，不懂别人的拒绝，听不懂别人话的含义

jugejiandandelizi。niyizhizaibierenjiazuoke，laichifandeshihou，zhurenjiashuo：“fouzewoyezaizheilichibuchi，manle。”

suoyi，neimewentilaile，nishichihaishishaochi？

 shouxian，qubaihuibushuxideren，laichifandeshihouhaimeiyoulikai，zheiyiweizheqingshangdi。ruguozhurenzhendexiangliuzhuguke，tahuimashangshuo:“xiawuyidingyaozaizheilichifan，woyijinggexinghuadingzhile。”erqieburongyijiayige“buran”。neime，ruguonishuxibierendechengkezenmeban？henjiandan，nikeyituixiezeren，biruwomenjiayixieshiqing/woyihouhuiyouyige。ruguozhurenjiayexiangliuzhuni，nihennanreqing。

ruguozhendebunengliuxiayongcan，zhuyaobiaoxianchuxiangliuxiayongcandeyangzi，danshishuoqingchuyuanyinburongyirangzhurenjuedezhaodaibuhao。

第三，分依赖别人，没有自己

 taiduoquefaqingganjiaoyuderen，baokuowoyiqian，doushizheiyang。tanlunmeiyizhongqinggan，lejieyigenvhai，wojuedetajinshengbujiehun，meiyoutabuxiangshenghuo，suoyicaozong，jiuchan，jianchashouji，huxiangpiping，tichufenshou……ruguowobanihetadangzuoquanshijie，wohuishiqurenhedongxi。

 womenzenyangcainengxiyinyigenvhaini？ruguonibuxiangxiyinsuoyoudenvren，neimejiuhuiyounvrenliuxialai。danwobuzhidaozhenzhengdeshenxinjiankangqinggan，shilianggerenyiqifazhan，yiqiqianjin，budanxinguoqu，xinren，shibiciweiyide。

四、不能操纵自己的心态，暴跳如雷，声嘶力竭

 beinvhaijujuedenanhaijingchanghuiyudaozheigewenti。huozhezaiyouhuiqijian，nvhaiweiyue，wufakongzhizijimishidexintai，baotiaorulei，tanlunnvhaidelian，ranhou?yongyuanbuhuigenzhe……zhengquedezuofa，renmenyinggaizhuyaobiaodazijishenshideyimian，danyeyaobiaodazijidexintai。

 yidianpiqidoubuhao。laogongqingshangdizenmeban？renmenyinggaiyouyizhongfennuhelengmodetaidu：haoba，haoba。ranhou，dangyigenvhairangnidaoqianshi，tajilezijiyigeloutiheyigelouti。zheiyang，jimeiyoubaotiaorulei，zhanxianlenanziqigai，yebiaodalezijidexintai，bushikeyisuiyiweiyuedediaosi。