ruguonidebanlvshineizhongbuhuishuohuadenanren,womengaizenmeban?zheishiwomenhenduonvrendekunao,wojuedewodenanrenzhendebuhuai,jiushibuhuishuohua,yishuohuajiurangwoshengqi。laogongqingshangdizenmexiangchu?
jintian,woxiangpujiyigegainian,qinmiguanxixuyaoxianghuxunhua。zheishishenmeyisi?shuobaile,yigebuhuishuohuaderenqingshangxiangduijiaodi,erqieshuodegengshen,tabuhuitigongtaiduodeqingganjiazhi。danniyoumeiyouxiangguo,tabujinjinshizheiyangduidainide。zaiguoqudechengzhanghuanjingzhong,fumujitadejiaoyu,huozhejitadeshifan,doushi
yejiushishuo,nimenliangzhongqingshanggaodeyidingshini,suoyinibixuxuehuijiaota,nijiaotanimenxiangchudehenhao,nideganjuehenhao。neimewomengaizenmebanni?
第一,一定要学会在情绪上占据高位
ruguotaxiangpaozhanyiyangshengqi,nibixulengjingxialai。ruguonihetayiyang,tayibeizidouxuebuhuihaohaoshuohua,nijuedema?yejiushishuo,nibixujitayigezhengquedeshifan。
liru,nizhongwuqucanguanchifan,ranhoudabaoyixieshiwuhuilai,nanrengaosuni:xianzaiwenduhengao,nihuiqujidemashangfangzaibingxiangli。jieguo,taxiabanhuilai,faxianshiwuhaizaizhuozishang,feichangshengqi:wogaosuguoniduoshaoci,wofaxiannijiushizheiyang,yiqiedouzaikan。shengyintebieda,womencishidezhengchangfanyingshishenme?niduishenmedahandajiao?woshinideqizi,bushinidepuren,meiyoufangbai,nizhidaoshenmeshizunzhongma?
nikan,zheilianggerenkendinghuichaojia。zaizheigeshihou,niyinggaixuehuiyongzijidexingdongxiangtazhanshishenmeshizhenzhengdezunzhong:wozhidaowodezhangfu。ranhoubadongxifangzaibingxiangli,ranhougaosutayuanyinshishenme。yuqiyidingyaolengjing:gangcainizouhou,wokanzhetianyoudianyin,jiuqushouyifu,shouyifu,guanchuanghu,ranhouxiangqiyangtaishangyoujishuangxiemeishoushouxie,mangleyihuierjiuwangle。wopingjingdiwanchengle。
第二步很重要,一定要说出你的感受
wozhangfujiuxiangniyiyang,zhendehedaolewo,womeixiangdaonihuiduiwozheimexiaodeshidahandajiao,woxianzaigandaoyoudianweiqu,youdiankeliandebiaoqing,suoyizheigeshihouneizhongyuchundezui,yekenenghuiduinishuoliangjuhua,nimeicidouzheiyang。congmingderenzhidaotadeqizibugaoxinghuidaoqian。
最后一步,一定要提出要求
laogongqingshangdizenmexiangchu?zheigeyaoqiushiweileshenme?rangtajizhuhenzhangyiduanshijian,bingzengqiangnixiangchudelequ,nikeyigaosuta:nikan,xianzainirangwoxinqingbuhao,niyinggairuhebuchangwo?yejiushishuo,nishouxianshiyongshifan,ranhoushuochunideganshou,jiashangyaoqiubuchang,wanquanxiangtazhanshinizuocuole,nizuozheijianshirangwoganjuebuhao,suoyinibixuweicifuchudaijia。
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