婚姻喜吗？苦吗？好吗？你怎么看？

 “hunyinjiuxiangweicheng,limianderenxiangchulai,waimianderenxiangjinlai。”hunyinzhendeshizheiyangma？guanyuhunyinxima、hunyinkuma、hunyinhaomazheixiewentixiaobianxiamiantantanduihunyindekanfa。

一、不结婚好吗

1、心里孤独需要承受

 qishi，meigenvrendoukewangdedaobierendeguanaihezhaogu。bingqieruguoniyijingdaolebixujiehundenianling，neixinjiugenghuijuedegudu。suoyitongchangweihunnannvmendeneixindouhuigandaojiaolvbuan，shenzhiganjuebudaoshijiedelengnuan。suizheshijiandezengzhang，nannvmenderongmaoyejiangyiqubufufan。

2、压力也会如山而来

 qici，tongchangqingkuangxia，tiandixiafumuqindouxiwangzijidehaizizaorichengjia，suoyiyehuibutingdecuicu。youcikejian，buxiangjiehundenannvxuyaochengshougefangmiandeyali。

 zaizheigeshijieshang，buguanshinanshenghaishinvsheng，zhiyaobujiehun，douhuibeirenweishentihuozhexintaiyouwenti。bingqierenjiayehuiyiweinishenshangdewentishixiangdangyanzhongde。zaimouzhongqingkuangxia，yixiebijiaoxihuancourenaoderenhaihuijinijieshaoyixiexintaiyishi。zheixiedouhuirangnizijixianruwubigangadejumian。

二、婚姻后的生活状态

 nvrenzaidanshendeshihou，buguanzuoshenmedouzhixukaolvdaoziji。danshidangnvrenjiehunzhihou，jiuyaozhaoguxiaohai，dalijiawu，buguoouernidebanlvyehuilaibangbangmang。congzheilianggedifangwomenkeyizongjiechu：jiehunyubujiehundougeyougedehao，suoyijiehunyudanshenhaobuhaozhuyaoqujueyumeigerendexuanze。

 danshendenvrenzuorenheshidoushilaiquziru、wusuogulvde。danshijiehunhoudenvrenxiangyaoqulvyoujiuyaojingguozhangjiudeguihua。yinweijiehunhoudenvrenbixuanpaihaojialidedaxiaoshiqing。suoyicongzheiyidianlaifenxi：jiehunhoudenvrenshimeiyoudanshennvrenneimeshushizizaila。

 yishangbianshixiaobianguanyuhunyindefenxile，xiangxindajiahunyinxima、hunyinkuma、hunyinhaomazheixiewentiyijingxinzhongyoulezijidedaan，xiaobianxianzhudajiazaorizhaodaolixiangzhongdelingyibanla。