分手后怎么挽回?我给你整颗心

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一、男方挽留：都是控制欲惹的祸

 qinglvzhijianhuichuxianyizhongwentijiushiqizhongyifangkongzhiyuqiang，nvyouxiangzuoshenmenanyoudouxiangyaoganyu，nvyouhepengyouchuquwan，rangnanyoufaxianyiqunrenlimianyounansheng，nanyoudekongzhiyujiukaishibaofa，rangnvyousuishigentabaochilianxi，dangnvyouchitingdianhuajiukaishibuduandejiduifangdianhua，shenzhidajishenbiandepengyou，rangtazaodianhuijiabuxumeiyoutazaichangwaidenanxingxiangchu。kongzhiyudenanyourenwei:“wobuzainishenbian，yixingrenlimianyouyounansheng，yihoubuzhidaonihuizuochuzenyangdeshiqing，yaobamiaotoueshazaiyaolanli”qiangliedekongzhiyu。

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二、女方挽留：斗智斗勇

1、zhendingpouxifenshouyuanyin

 mianlinfenshouxuduorenhuixiazheji，tiantiankuhanzhezenmeban，woshiqutale。fenshouhouzenmewanhui？zhenzhengyouxiaodeshijiuyaoxianzhendingxialai，xintaibaizheng，qukaolvxiazaiaiqinglitayoumeiyouanshinitadebuman？youmeiyouzhijietongzhiguonitadexinsidanfu？youmeiyoushenmeshanghaiguotadeyanyuxingwei？jiubuyaozaiqutuixiezerenjinanfang，gengbuyaoquxiangzaiaiqingli，tayeyouxuduobuduidedangdi。duifangzaicuo，zaibudui，tatiaoxuanletuoli，shebudedeshini。bingqiezaizhengjiudeguochengzhong，zhengjiufangyidinghuichengshouyidingdexinsiweiqu，meiyounagenvxingbazijibaidelveshengyichou，nengbananrenzhengjiuhuilaide。gaozitaihedizitaizhengjiudehanyi，xuduorendoulejiecuole。keshizheierbuzuoguoduojieshuo。jirannitichudewentishifenshouhouzenmewanhui，jiuxiangaizhengzijidewenti。

2、用淡然面对

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