怎样变成一个好老婆：女人如何让男人离不开你

 zenyangbianchengyigehaolaopo?nvrenruherangnanrenlibukaini?nanshengbirenmenxiangxiangdegengjianyi，dabufenneishihoutamenjinjinqidairenmenkaixin。(tashiqueshi!)erqiezhishiyouyutamenmeiyouzhuyaobiaoxianchutamendetihui，bingbuyiweizhetamenmeiyoutamen。

一、怎样变成一个好老婆：女人如何让男人离不开你

 jinriwoxiangyaogongxiangwozaixifuneibianhuodedeliangjianshi。tamenkanshangquhaoxiangbufeichuihuizhili，danmeiyiyaoqiuzhongchangyougengduofangmiandebiaozhun，renmenhenduorendouhushilezheizhongbiaozhun。

 zenyangbianchengyigehaolaopo?nvrenruherangnanrenlibukaini?juebuwangdiaojiehunriqi，jiyigeyiwaijingxi，zengjilaogongdexingganmirenlipin。

1.表示感激

 laogongbixuganxie，feichangshilaiyuanyutamendelaopo。youyiri，wohenfahuo，woyedelaogongchangchangxiabanlehuijiale。tahaoxiangyizhipanghuangleyigebanzhongtou(huogengzhangqi)，wodecuobaiganshizhongzaixiujianhexiujian。

“ gongzuozhongwanbihouniweihebuliqu?“womaiyuandao。

tadefanyingjiushiwozhongjiuburongyiwangdiaode：

“ youyuyuwoyikuaiergongzuozhongderendouhenshangxiwo。tamenxiaihewozaiyiqi。youshihoumeibanfaliqu。”

ayowei。wodediyiweiniantoushi，“ jiujingshishenme?renmenganxieni!”

 ......suihouwoguanniandaotajingchangzourudamenkou。tameiyoujiqingdewenhao，youqingheshangxi，zhishizouruyigeshenxinpibeidelaopodemen，najitayigexiaohai，“xiezhuwo!”

 huoxu，wanfanshijianyigejianxindeshike，ruguoniyou3ge5suidexiaohai，bingzaikuangjiaozhenidejizhongzhuyili。keshi，dangnizourudamenkoudeneiyishunjian，wobeidegongzuoyalicongwolaogongdegongzuoyaliqianyidaoneibianbingbukeyichedigoujianchuzheizhongwennuandeganshou。woyicicidijushuonanshengxiabanlehuijialebixu30fenzhongnenggoushifangyali，danwoshishishangmeibanfabaochizheiyitiyi。

 duiyunidetiaozhan： buyaomaiyuanhezhizetamen。erbingbushidanyoumaojinbeishensuode“zenyang”，chushitaxiezhushensuoyifudechengzan。erbingbushirenutazenyangjiejuenidexiaohaidezhuangkuang，shangxitayijingpaxingbingbianchengyigebaba，tayijingqinfen。( dangniyijingzhaoxunniantou，renmendemouxiehenhaodeshilinenggouhaowuyiwenmeimeiduanguanlian。)

2.准许他

 zenyangbianchengyigehaolaopo?nvrenruherangnanrenlibukaini?jiyurenmenlaogongrentongdebufenshijiyurenmenzhongshi。renmenshibushiguidingtamenjiushiqingbiaodayijian，suihouzhongshitamendetihui?renmenguidingtamendexiezhuma?nanshengdaziranshi“zhengfuzhe”。

 laogongbixulejietadelaopobixutadeteshuzhuanyejinenghenenggou，neiyangtanenggouqizhemaqizhemajiejuekunnan。nvquanzhuyizhejianjieshenggaodenantiqujueyu，laogonggangkaishibeichengzuo“wuguanjinyao”de - renmenbingbushizhenshibixudeguanlian。

 renmenyijingjiaoyunvshibiancheng“qiangshi”degeren，jiarunengzhengshizishenshizuigaide，renmenzhibixunanshi。zaimaoyicengmian，renmenyijingsangshimianruan，ernanshengyijingsangshishiyongjiazhi。

aizhenidelaogong，fangfotazhiqianjihumeiyouzuoguoyiqiechunshi。

 nvrenhenanrenzhongjiandeyigeguanjianchabiejiushishuofangkaishoudegongzuonengli。nvshiquxiangyuweichiweiman，renmenjiangtamenzuoweiwuqizhuangbeichouda，bianyuzhihouyingyong。zheierdenantishi，jiaruwobubaorongbingjienanidelaogongshiren，jiubukeyichedijiyunidexinherentong。

 duiyunindetiaozhan： xinglaishibingjiangmeiyikeshizuoyigechongzuainindeairendexinjiyu。zhaoxunteshudefangfalaibiaoshunidexin，tongyixingdongheyuyan。

meiyilaogongdoubixuconglaoponeibianhuodeliangjianrongyideshi

3.出示情感

 shuodaonansheng，renmenjingchangjuedetamenyuanyide“qinggan”yizhixing; shubuzhi，laogongyitiandoubixuzheixiexiaoxiaoqinggan，rutongrenmenxiangtong。lijingyouzhangdemeitianhou，renmenxianghuzhijianwenhao，paiyipaihoubei，geboshangdenaozhongfeng，jiqirenmenmeiriquebaowomendeaiherentongdequanbubiedefangfa，yigewennuandexiangyongheyigewen。

 wodenainaicenggenwoshuotahunyindejianxinshiqi。suihoutashuo“ nilejiewoxianganshenmema?wojiletayigewenbingtanbaiwomeiridouaita，youyunizhidaomajiarumeiyou，wonengsangshineiyangzuodexinyuanhegongzuonengli。“ wohenxihuannage!

 zenyangbianchengyigehaolaopo?nvrenruherangnanrenlibukaini?tidaoxingqinmiwujian，zheizheishuyejilewomouxiezhenguidekanfa，xiezhuwoyishiwuqianlidefangfalejienansheng。(wobuyuanyisuoyousheqi，yincinizhibixuzishenyueduwenzhang!)

duiyunidetiaozhan - meirirangnidelaogongyigewen，tanbainiaita。