女教师的婚姻保卫战：女人如何协调婚姻家庭

 youyueganshisha?jingjingdeshenyequnxingzaishanliangjiaoshidewoshizhengyeguangliang，dangwowoqingqingditaguoninchuangbianguangliangdedengguangxiaoguoyingzhaowoxinli，nvjiaoshidehunyinbaoweizhanzhong，nvrenruhexiediaohunyinjiating?

一、女教师的婚姻保卫战：女人如何协调婚姻家庭

1、处在父母与大学的分歧当中，无法调合

 nvjiaoshidehunyinbaoweizhanzhong，nvrenruhexiediaohunyinjiating?suizhigaoxinkejidefazhanqushi，fumubianchengledaxueketangjiaoxuedeguanjianzhutui。xuxuduoduodebanjiti，doushijibenjianshefumuqun，chuanglijiazhangweiyuanhui。

 keshi，canjiawenhuajiaoyudezongshuduoqilaihounantiyegangkaishixianchu。2018nianzhongxiaxun，yigemingjiao“fumuyingbuyinggaibangxiaohaichayangongzuo?”denantibeifengkuangzhuanjie、gaifangzi，manmanchanshengleerzhongjianjie：

 yiweichayangongzuoweijiaoshideshier;erweichayanzuoweiyingshifumulaoshideshier。yingduizheifumudebulejiehedaxuekeyedefanza，laoshidegongzuoyalizengzhang，youyueganyirantundiao。

2、处在家中和大学的矛盾当中，无法两全保险

 “wozuohaoleyimingjiaoshi，quemeizuohaoyimingbabamama。“laoshishizheizhongyingyuyiduiyidegangwei，jiuhaoxiangbaobeiwang，haiyaolingtouyangqianxing，haiyaojiaojikeyejieshiyilv。youshiduoshaojiaoshizaishangwankehoulianxi，yaopiyuejixiaoshidegongzuo，yeyaozaihuajixiaoshikaizhanbeikejiaoan?

 koujianlezheizhongshijian，haishengyushiduoshaoshijianjiaojijiazhongde?yeyixiejiaoshijiangxiaohaisongdaoshenpang，yiciketangjiaoxue，yimianzhaoliao。“jiazhongmeiyourenbangzhu，zishenyebushedeliquxiaohai，zhiyouzishenjianxindian，daizaishenpangzhaoliao。”

 “wodedaxueshengshuxuekedoufeichanghao，danshiwodeerziqueshizhongguishuyuhoujinsheng，zheidabufenjiushiwomeiyouzaiyidao。”yingduijiazhonghedaxuedeshuangxianggongzuoyali，youyueganxiaotuiyekeyimuleran。

3、处在工资待遇低和课业重的对立面当中，无法调合

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 bendiloujia1wansiwule，juedehaishitingfeijingde。fuliyukeyebuzhengbi，yecujinlaoshizhizaoxingyeyouxiurencaidewailiu。18nianyilai，laoshifulidengnantimanmanbeigaoduzhongshi，youguanxianxingzhengceyezhujianmingquetichu。yuanyouyitianjingran，nengjielaoshigulv，zhuanxinzhizhizijintourujiaoyupeixunxingye，weizhonghuaminzuyunshugaocengcirencai。