结婚对于我们来说究竟有什么意义？

 jiehunyoumimima？jiehunshiyoumimide，erqiezheigemimixianyourenzhi。henduorenzaibuzhidaojiehunshiyoumimideshihou，jiukaishiyanjiujiehundecelve，kaishiburuhunyin，yekaishizaimeiyoutansuodaojiehundeyiyideshihou，zoujinhunyinzhong，bahunyinjingyingchengfenmu，erbushitiantang。

一、结婚有秘密吗？

jiehundemimishishenme？jiehundecelveshishenme？jiehundeyiyishishenme？daanjiuzaixiamian

 womenzhidaolezaihunqianyinggaitantannidelixianghunyin，womenzaitanlunlixianghunyindeshihou，yinggailejiebicidechaju，zheixiebutongde，jiuhuizhijieyingxiangwomenquxiugai、diaozhengzijidehunyinlixiang，bijinglianggerencainengjiehun，jianglaideyouxiguize，keyishitongshijiangulianggerendelixiang。

 bushishuo，wodelixiangwoyaodedao，jibianxishengleyanqianzheigerenyezaisuobuxi，zheiyangcaishixingfu？haishishuoweiletamen，wokeyibeixishengdiao，zheixiehulvebuji，kandaotakaixingaoxing，wojiuhenxingfu？

 pianjiconglaiyongyuanjiubushixingfu，neizhongchongdonghekuangredeganjue，jiuhuihuimoshanidelixing，haihuishangrenshangji。zhenzhengainideren，tayidingshebudenifangqimeihaodemengxiang；erneixiebuainideren，jiusuanbatadelixiangdangchengnizijidelixiang，sangshileziwodeyishi，renjiayebujiandelingnideqing。

 qiantiwomenshizhendexiangai，zhendeyouchengyiqumianduiyihouyiqideshenghuo。woxiangnibuhuigenxifadeshifushuoqinidelixianghunyin，nikenenggenpengyoushuoguo，kenenggenfumushuoguo，danshinizuiyinggaigentaqushuo，genneigezhenainideren，niyequedingaizhetaderen，niweilaizinvdefuqin，nidezhongshengdebanlv，gentashuoshuoguanyunimendelixianghunyinheqita。

 henduogentiederenmenshuole，goutongzhendehenzhongyao。genhenduoshiqingyiyang，womenzhidaohenzhongyao，keshiyaozenmezuodao，zhendehenbuyide。

 keshi，womenhenrenzhenfumianmo，womenbuzhilaoleiditanbagua，womenyiqidianshijuyikanjiushiyigezhongtou，womenchifanliaotianguangjiezuotoufa，yiyanghuadiaodabashiguang，yiyanghuadiaojingli。womenningkezuozheixieyebuxiangzaihunqiantaolunhunyinwenti，yebuyuanyigenlingyibanyiqi，buyuanyitiqianqumianduineixiekeyujiandefannaohechayi，tiqianquxiangjiejuedebanfa。

 dangranwomenyekeyihulihutudijiehun，womenkeyibaquanbudelixiangdoufangzainanrenshenshang，yexuwomenyujianyigehaonanren，jiukeyixingfudizouwanzheiyisheng。keshi，jieshangneimeduonanren，nayigehuizouguolaibanidelixiangshuangshoufengshang？jishizhendeyouzheiyangderen，baainidangzuotadezuigaolixiang，neimetazijidelixiang，yougaisheilaibuchang？

 suoyinihaishizuoxialai，daobeixiangcha，xiangenzijihaohaoliaoliaoba，qingtingnixinlideshengyin，guanyunidehunyindelixiang，qishicongweiyuanlizheili。